Need a Mans Advice?

What can I do to really wow a guy and show him that I really love him. I have been with him for 4 months now and I want to do something meaningful and special and completely out of the blue to show him that I appreciate him and never want to be without him. What are guys into now a days? What would be the things not to do??Need a Mans Advice?
hi sweetie i'm a man so your going to get a man's advice. be yourself first of all. he has to accept you as you are. the good, bad, and indifferent. be attentive to him when your at a social setting no matter how insignificant or important the occasion is. don't smother him but at the same time don't ignore him either. men don't like obsessive, controlling women. real men anyway. and be there when you guys make plans to hook up and go out. don't start making excuses and if you do it better be a good one. also your man comes first before your girl friends. if your not there yet forget about it it isn't going to last too long. and last and not least if he gets sick one day and you guys are still together, be there for him. even if he insists that it's ok and you don't need to come see him. this last thing if it happens should definitely convince him that you really love him and want to be with him. ok. good luck. i'm rooting for you.Need a Mans Advice?
Oral sex.





That's what guys really want.





I'm going to get a lot of thumbs down, but its the truth. Sorry if you don't like it, but there it is.
Personally I'd like a surprise meal somewhere coupled with a long walk down a nice spot maybe with a sea view whilst there is a clear and big moon on an acute angle.





I'm a romantic though.





Generally food is the way to our hearts!
well there are all the things with that ';wow'; factor... but ... it is the small spontaneous things that really say ';i love you';. such as a random love note or an out of the blue hug or even letting him know that you are proud of him for something that he has acheived. all those little things that make him realise that you are thinking of him 24/7. anyone can put in a one off effort with ';wow'; but love is a continuous commitment, not something that you turn on once in a while. by all means do the ';wow'; thing but back it up with the small spontaneous and frequent things
MARRY HIM! jk! i dont know
Think about some of things that your man likes to do or eat. What is in to? Maybe a nice home cooked meal ( his favorite) with some music and candles. Dress up really sexy and then for desert.....
I know that I am just a different kind of guy! What in 4 months have you learned that makes you say that you are really in love with him. Can you appreciate him? Sure! Can you really wow him? NOT! What ever you do, PLEASE make it non-sexual. You don't really know this guy at 4 months. Why don't you sit him down, take off his socks and shoes, place his feet in a basin with some warm water, wash them, pat them dry, massage them with some warm oil, kiss each one as you finish(optional), tell him thank you for being there for you for the last four months, hand him the remote and then snuggle up next to him on the couch while he finds a sports channel to watch. Then be quiet while the game is on. Good Luck
One time when I was in college, my roommate's gf dressed up as a sexy maid and made and served him a nice dinner in the dorm room. Needless to say, I excused myself after checking how much time he needed alone with her.





Always thought that was really great what she did though and I never even got the details.
Guys aren't as funny as women when it comes to these things. Just saying ';I love you more than anything in the world'; with a cute smile/cutsey smirk on your face would be enough for me.
I don't think you have to dress up for him, and I definitely don't think you have to do any sexual favors like some other answerer suggested.


But we each probably respond differently to something a girl does. Think about what your guy likes. If he likes a certain sort of movie or a certain activity, plan a date revolving around that.


However, there is some truth to the saying that the 'fastest way to a man's heart is through his stomach'. Maybe you could make him a good meal. ;)


Good luck.