Advice please, men and women!am i being unreasonable?

im uncomfortable with my fiance speaking or having anything to do with one of his ex-girlfriends. it's not that she's an ex ( i understand if he wants to stay in contact with some of them just as friends) but this ex cheated on her husband with my fiance (before me and him ever got together) she hasn't told her husband and still calls my fiance from time to time. i think it's disgusting what she did. im just thinking from a women's perspective: if i cheated on my HUSBAND(which i never would, it's nasty) and continued contacting the guy i cheated on him with, i would have to have strong feelings for that guy still. what do you guys think?Advice please, men and women!am i being unreasonable?
well if she cheated once she'll do it again because it getts easyier and easier just tal about it with your husbund but dont confront him or start an argument tht will just make things worse








help me?? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ao6Ex6SFPWbRS12WRteTM1rsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090630092431AA0zta0Advice please, men and women!am i being unreasonable?
put off the wedding until your fiance chooses to end relations (friendly or otherwise) with this woman.





if he keeps choosing to continue to have communications with her from time to time regardless of how you feel about it, then i would be worried if i were you.





the fact that he thinks it's ok to cheat with married women worries me too. and then on top of that to stay in contact with that married woman. i'd wonder how seriously he takes the vows of marriage, others and his own. anyways, dont rush into marriage until you feel comfortable with what he does.
I think your gut is right on this one. If you are uncomfortable with it, then he should respect you enough to stop. If he continues, then you have a problem in your relationship and you should definetely not get married until that issue is fixed.





This is a respect issue, nothing more, he should respect you enough to stop.
first of all.. its a good thing that he's only your fiance.... good thing you guys are not married yet...





and if he is still talking to a married women.. ';which he shouldnt been';... then he is not loyal to you.....





amagin what if you guys got married.. would he still be talking to her..?? if he really loves you then she shouldnt be talking to any women out there...





a husband who is loyal and truely loves you you will not keep in touch with any ex and will never talk about his previous life...





dont marry him since he still has contact to his ex g which is a married women........... not good....
NOPEDOTCOM!!! My husband does not talk to ANY of his ex's, friends or not!!! The fact that he had an affair with her while she is married? Uhh hell NO!!!