Monday, August 23, 2010

Need a mans advice..?

Well, this past while me and my fianc茅 have been sort of growing apart. We have been going out almost 2 years and im 38 weeks pregnant with his child.





Obviously sex isnt going to be at its best at the moment and i am being quite grumpy most of the time. But im trying real hard as i dont want us to loose interest in each other,





Im a lot younger than he is (he's 42) and im not sure what i can do to keep him interested. I dont work at the minuite so cant afford to take him out anywhere, all we do most nights is sit in infront of TV or go 4 a run in the car.





Any thoughts.?Need a mans advice..?
Well, I think you could grow back together and it would be best if you do since you are going to be partners in parenting. Its too difficult and not good for the kid to have only a single parent.





I suggest you play some games instead of only watching t.v. and ask him for some back rubs and give him some oral sex. Read some jokes together. Have fun and laugh together.





Include him on a dream for your future together.





If you're grumpy you could be low on calcium or folic acid. Don't take more than the recommendation on iron because its recently been discovered this isn't good for a fetus or for you.





Never mind what that other answerer said about you shouldn't be with this older guy. You're with him already and you need his help now becdause youare carrying his kid. Stick with him for the time being. You don't need to be lonely or going through heart break whiile you're pregnant. That guy doesn't have his thinking cap on.





Be happy, I think you're depressed partly because you're feeling insecure. Fatty acids in the form of flax seed oil will probably elevate your mood. And be sure to exercize! Walk or dance around the house.





This is a wonder ful time in your live, having your first child. Rekindle your romance and create happiness in your lives. You should be thrilled, lots of people want to have a child but they can't. What a wonderful blessing and you are so lucky not to be working while pregnant. You can take a nap when you need to and stay off your feet.





Write down on a piece of paper all the things you have to be happy about and include that you have access toa computer to write on as one of them! LOLNeed a mans advice..?
if you arn't working at the moment I think he could treat you to at least a cinema date or something like that, maybe mention it in a calm way that you would like to see this certain movie and would he take you? you shouldn't have to TRY to keep him interested maybe he is the one who needs to make some effort as well
Funny how you mentioned his age and not yours,so you can't take him out because you don't work, and what about him? can't he take you out? isn't he working either? I think your relationship has gone stale in less than 2 years already,god help you when your child is born,just hope for you, it gets better.
why dosent he take you out then if you cant afford it?





does he have a job if the answer is no you dont want your kid around him anyway and how old are you exactly?





you prolly shouldnt go out with a man in his 40's if your in your 20's which is what i am assuming
Its a shame you are growing apart when this should be a time to be happy awaiting the birth of your child, perhaps you should try %26amp; involve him more with the baby eg get him to help choose the pram etc.good luck
was the child planned???





sounds like age compounded by mortality... maybe he is looking at issues with regards to his age and bringing up a child...





that can cause stress... and some guys just go off sex...
R u really 38 weeks pregnant. Something new.......... and interesting.....
Well even if you are not especially interested in sex you seem to be worried about him and thats a good thing. You care enough to ask a question on yahoo thats not really embarrassing but very personal. Good for you.





Well thats a tough time sexually especially since it may be very hard to get comfortable and the body image issues. Well if you are not into it it doesnt mean he isnt. I am sure there are things you can do for him (sexually)to keep a big smile on his face.





Good luck and dont sweat it your pregger hormones might be working overtime and freaking you out. It does happen and that is natural!

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