Im 28 and need advice from men at least 25 and older?

First let me start by saying Im not looking for men who are still in high school to answer this question, looking for guys who have had serious relationships or are in them. I want your opinion on how you feel, not a general idea, ok. How long does it take for you to get involved in a relationship with a female? What makes her a good choice for a girlfriend? What are signs that you are interested in her? Signs you are just tryin to be nice not to hurt her feelings? Im just trying to figure some stuff out, havent had too many serious guys in my life, most turn out bad, so maybe there is something i might be missingIm 28 and need advice from men at least 25 and older?
It will and probably should take about 6 months to develop a solid relationship.


A woman for me needs to be a friend and partner. Marriage and such is not all bliss. She needs to be someone I can confide in, ask advice of, and help run our lives together as a partnership. If/when that partnership forms you will recognize it. You may find yourselves doing things as a couple. He asks advice and vice-versa. You shop, buy things, share things. She should realize that I had friends, likes, dislikes, hobbies, work, and a life before I met her. That won't change. But I'm now interested in sharing those things with her, and she with me. Communication is key. You must both be able to talk about anything, and I mean anything, that comes up.


It's ridiculous to think that one person only, out of all 6.6 billion, can satisfy all of your needs for the rest of your life. It just doesn't work that way. It's not all flowers and smiles.


It should not be hard work. If you're working hard at maintaining the relationship you probably shouldn't be in it.


I've been happily married 12 years, getting better every day, and don't recommend it for anyone. That is not a shot against marriage. That simply means that it is not for everyone and should not be a life goal.Im 28 and need advice from men at least 25 and older?
The best advice is to establish a good friendship with romance that grows into love. This type of LTR lasts the longest. The ';instant'; love thing can happen, but it is ';chemistry'; not love and doesn't last very long, unless friendship also develops. Both work, but the first has the best probabilities of lasting and being good.