I want to have sex with other men, but i love my husband..any advice?

I love my hubby and been with him for 10 yrs now, but i recently started having these temptations...ugh..i get so confused..I want to have sex with other men, but i love my husband..any advice?
he is probably too good for youI want to have sex with other men, but i love my husband..any advice?
If you still really loved him then you would not have any questions. You need to take a long hard look at your marriage. You can't Truly love your husband and want to have sex with other men. In my first marriage, yes I wanted to have sex with other men, I have now been with my current husband for 14 years and I can't even imagine thinking about being with someone other than him. The thought is just disgusting to me.
What's to be confused about? EVERYONE feels tempted at some time or another - sometimes a lot. But it is up to the individual to say no to the temptation.


I read an article about cheating men that said the difference between men and women is that men actually continue to follow the temptation until they have decided to cheat. Women turn away as soon as they realize there is temptation there. That's not what you are doing but you need to learn to do it.


If you were on a strict diet and had a sugar habit, would you enjoy working in a bakery? Yeah! Would it be good for your health? No. Would you be smart to stay out of bakeries if you had that weakness? Yeah.
Its a shame that so many would slam a person for having basic human feelings and urges.The key here is to get back to the passion stage with your husband,ya know,those feelings you had ten years ago for him.Its easy to fall into a rut,but its possible to rekindle that fire.Cheating will only empty your soul,Im telling you from experience that after the initial rush a crushing feeling of guilt will consume you for making such a mess.Do what you have to if you love this man,date night,vacation,church,whatever it takes.If I had been paying attention to my reckless behavior I would have been able to hang on to my wife and family.You don't want to be where I was,trust me.Work hard at keeping things interesting.
Every woman has had those feelings at one time or another it is called lust. You need to ask yourself to think about how you feel about your husband and why you are thinking about other men. Are things in the bedroom boring? Spice it up, make a date night and even a sex night. Leave him little sexy notes about what you want him to do, get a game, make out like teenagers!
I would first think about why you are having these urges. Is there something going on in your life that is causing you to be dissatisfied with him. If the answer is no, then you can go ahead and explore what these urges consist of. Then you want to talk to him. Have an open dialogue about it and be HONEST! Then only with his permission can you pursue an open marriage. Don't forget he may want the same thing. You cannot get mad either.
That's pretty typical. Join the club - it's a fairly large one. I will advise you not to cheat - the emotional trauma an affair causes ripples everywhere and isn't worth it. For me, I find alternate outlets - which I don't want to describe here. There are ways of using self-expression and creativity to draw out these desires and play with them in a safe way.
What is with you? You are going to throw away 10 years of your marriage over your selfishness. You are not being fair to your husband ad you should be kicked in the butt. All marriages go through tough times. Take your fantasies and let your husband fulfill them. Think of your family and what your juvenile ideations would do to them. What an example for children you would give???? Grow up.
IS 2009 THE MIGHTY YEAR OF WIVES WHO WANT TO BETRAY THEIR HUSBANDS LOL? DONT LISTEN TO Uaskedianswerd's answer she is a lady who brags about cheating on her husband without him knowing it and then brings advice on your question that defines the word hypocrisy
if you loved your husband you would not cheat think about it! if you love your husband start doing fun things with him! bring the spark back in your marriage! cheating is for unhappy couples that are not getting what they need at home! so think cause you will mess up your marriage!
There is nothing confusing about it. If you love your husband you can have any temptation you want as long as you don't act on it. To do so is cruel and selfish. End of story, bottom line.
This is a normal and healthy demand. The best would be that if you could discuss it with your husband. If, not then you have to do it in a secret way.
Just think about them while you have sex with your husband. Maybe it will be enough. Don't cheat on someone you have loved for that long. You will end up regretting it.
Get a divorce first, then sleep with anyone you want. You should at least give him that much. It will hurt him but not as bad as finding out you slept with someone then get a divorce. Not good if you really love him.
Your a terrible wife. You made a commitment. Even thinking it is adultry. Open the bible
Well, you could ask him how he feels about your idea. But before you do that, perhaps consider how YOU would feel if he came to you with that idea. Does that help your confusion any?
You are a pathetic excuse for a human. Get a divorce so that your husband can find a woman that deserves him.
obviously you dont love him if you want to have sex with other men. just think if your husband wanted to have sex with other women and think how bad that would hurt you.
You need to talk to someone about your feelings. You are obviously not getting something you need from your marriage.
maybe you just need to spice up your sex life with your husband


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Dont cheat! Dont be another divorce statistic.
the talk to him about swinging... let him enjoy the roses too, not just the thorns
sounds like your uncommited to the commitment you made.....i feel bad for your husband.
Go buy a vibrator and stop giving the rest of us bad names!
Your such a dumb ***.
Go %26amp; Njoy life...it will nevr *** agn!
Can't have it both ways. How can you love him and still want to do that?
ok...go tell him that