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Saturday, July 31, 2010
Advice for men?
Here is few tips to help you (men) next time you are trying to hook up with someone.
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What do you think, are they good or bad, and did they help you at all?Advice for men?
They are fair and would probably help. I think looking and making comments about your environment and keeping eye contact are impossible to do at the same time.
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What do you think, are they good or bad, and did they help you at all?Advice for men?
They are fair and would probably help. I think looking and making comments about your environment and keeping eye contact are impossible to do at the same time.
Men i need advice on how to get in your head?
Ok lets say you were a young multimillionare and you really liked this girl. How would she ';milk'; you more..if
a)she gave it up
or
b) not give it up
or
c) let you have little by little
what would make you more likely to help her out and stuff.Men i need advice on how to get in your head?
This has all the potential parts for being a novel, or a film script.
Personally, she would be trying to get into university (humanities) and wanted financial help.
If the boot was on the other foot and you were a young multimillionaress, and you really liked this guyl. How would he ';milk'; you best? Just so I can get inside a woman's head.
SashMen i need advice on how to get in your head?
I'm gonna say more than likely A.). But you understand that it would have to be the best damn roll in the hay ever. I mean it! She would really have to ';extend'; her abilities to be on the top of a millionaires list.
She gets in my head by making me wonder if I can have her or not. She does it by being coy. A little flirtatious and a little indifferent and never knowing what to expect.
I am not a Millionaire but I am comfortable. Let me say this, when a man reaches a level of success, you aren't going to get to his money unless you marry him or he keeps you as a mistress.
Haha, Why would I want a girl who just wants my money? You got to show me something real.
a)she gave it up
or
b) not give it up
or
c) let you have little by little
what would make you more likely to help her out and stuff.Men i need advice on how to get in your head?
This has all the potential parts for being a novel, or a film script.
Personally, she would be trying to get into university (humanities) and wanted financial help.
If the boot was on the other foot and you were a young multimillionaress, and you really liked this guyl. How would he ';milk'; you best? Just so I can get inside a woman's head.
SashMen i need advice on how to get in your head?
I'm gonna say more than likely A.). But you understand that it would have to be the best damn roll in the hay ever. I mean it! She would really have to ';extend'; her abilities to be on the top of a millionaires list.
She gets in my head by making me wonder if I can have her or not. She does it by being coy. A little flirtatious and a little indifferent and never knowing what to expect.
I am not a Millionaire but I am comfortable. Let me say this, when a man reaches a level of success, you aren't going to get to his money unless you marry him or he keeps you as a mistress.
Haha, Why would I want a girl who just wants my money? You got to show me something real.
There are many married men who think marriage is hell (many give the advice: if you wanna be happy,don't marry?
is it because they married the girl they didn't love and just one to settle down??There are many married men who think marriage is hell (many give the advice: if you wanna be happy,don't marry?
most of the time, yeah. alot of people now a days settle for their 2nd choice, 3rd choice etc.. Not very many people believe in true love and romance anymore.
most of the time, yeah. alot of people now a days settle for their 2nd choice, 3rd choice etc.. Not very many people believe in true love and romance anymore.
What god advice to men?
Lead because you deserve to and be considerate and loving to all in you protectionWhat god advice to men?
Which god?What god advice to men?
No means No?
Repent
Mark 1:15
“The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the gospel.”
nothing
Do you mean 'What is God's advice to men?'
If so, then it is this: 'Be nice to each other'
Unfortunately, noone throughout history has paid any attention to his advice whatsoever.
Pants first and then shoes.
obey
';Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?'; Jesus replied: '; 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.'This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.';
He wants us to learn a language before using it to post on Y!A.
Which god?What god advice to men?
No means No?
Repent
Mark 1:15
“The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the gospel.”
nothing
Do you mean 'What is God's advice to men?'
If so, then it is this: 'Be nice to each other'
Unfortunately, noone throughout history has paid any attention to his advice whatsoever.
Pants first and then shoes.
obey
';Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?'; Jesus replied: '; 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.'This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.';
He wants us to learn a language before using it to post on Y!A.
Need some advice about men?
I really like this guy but I'm not sure how to tell him because I'm afraid that I may push him away. The thing is we've became really good friends over the last 8 months. So what should I do? Plz give me some advice!!!!!Need some advice about men?
if you are good friends,just him how he feels about you,the rest will fall into place.Need some advice about men?
just tell him or ask him if he would date you. if he is single that is.
If you're willing to throw away the ';friend factor'; just start being flirty with him. Throw a little flirt out, and gauge his reactions to it. If he backs away, that's a sign that you should stop and end the mission. If he flirts back, well you just scored him.
Well 8 months is kinda a long time you should be able to be up front with him and let him know how you feel you can tell if he likes you like that from his actions around you.blush brush
if you are good friends,just him how he feels about you,the rest will fall into place.Need some advice about men?
just tell him or ask him if he would date you. if he is single that is.
If you're willing to throw away the ';friend factor'; just start being flirty with him. Throw a little flirt out, and gauge his reactions to it. If he backs away, that's a sign that you should stop and end the mission. If he flirts back, well you just scored him.
Well 8 months is kinda a long time you should be able to be up front with him and let him know how you feel you can tell if he likes you like that from his actions around you.
I need advice from men re: flirting?
Seems like a crazy question, but I'm getting divorced and I've been out of the ';scene'; for about 12 years. I have no clue about flirting now! There's a man I'm interested in, but I don't know what to do about it. (He's a few years older than me.) Men? Help?I need advice from men re: flirting?
Just be yourself and it will come natural. Flirting is universal. Laugh at everything he says and give him compliments
Just be yourself and it will come natural. Flirting is universal. Laugh at everything he says and give him compliments
You are the dating coach....what is your top advice for men....and for women?
Women: Trust your instincts and your gut. If it smells like a dog, walks like a dog and sounds like a dog, then it's a dog!
Men: If you like a woman, just ask her out, don't be shy about it. Stop being so hard to read.You are the dating coach....what is your top advice for men....and for women?
Be comfortable with who you are, b/c dating is about offering to share your life with other people, not attracting a person to patch up all the holes.You are the dating coach....what is your top advice for men....and for women?
not to follow all advices given and trust your hunch because, not all advices appy to all people :)
be true to one another.
Men: If you like a woman, just ask her out, don't be shy about it. Stop being so hard to read.You are the dating coach....what is your top advice for men....and for women?
Be comfortable with who you are, b/c dating is about offering to share your life with other people, not attracting a person to patch up all the holes.You are the dating coach....what is your top advice for men....and for women?
not to follow all advices given and trust your hunch because, not all advices appy to all people :)
be true to one another.
Please help, guys I need advice... about men and porn and looking at other women.?
We have been together for two years. He is 40, I am 42. I know men look at other women but for two years now when we go out, he ignores me, and watches other women. Last friday night we went to a family resturant, a sixteen year old girl was behind us with a short skirt on, she was heavy set, anyway he watched her the whole time we were there. He used to view porn on line but we got in fights over it, so now every morning before work he looks at Lingerie, this is every single morning, the man wont pack his lunch but he will get up early to view them. Like I said I know men look, but most dont do it in front of their g/fs or wives. Ive tried for two years to tell him how I feel, he still continues to do this in public. When we go out he acts like hes looking for something, he wont even hold a conversation with me. He said hes just looking, no big deal!!!! What do you think. Should I give up and move on??Please help, guys I need advice... about men and porn and looking at other women.?
Well, being in his 40's, its possible that he's just set in his ways. He's always looked at other women, and now that he is in a relationship, he can't bring himself to stop.
Or he is stubborn, believes it is no big deal (like you said), and continues to do it in front of you knowing that it bothers you, ';proving'; that it isn't a big deal - that is, he wins the ';argument'; every time he does it anyway.
Personally, based solely on what you've told me about you two, I would leave. I don't know how serious you two are, though, or how other aspects of your relationship are going.Please help, guys I need advice... about men and porn and looking at other women.?
sorry but if he's looking he's thinking about cheating. some men can look and not touch ,others you never know, if he's looking at porn he's not happy in your relationship,and he's shopping for a new girl if he looks when your with him. One more thing,if your catching this and not doing anything about it your in for trouble down the road.
He is looking, because he is missing what you can't offer him anymore. Is not stable relationship if he find what he is looking for you are history.
It sounds a little over the top, but i would think their is a deeper insecurity on your side you are redirecting at him either that or you don't trust the man... and i don't know maybe there is reason for that, if not remember you are what you think of others... deal with it or leave him..
Get rid of the perv. No offense, but you're not going to get any BETTER looking with time.....none of us will. There will always be porn and hot chicks. If that's how he chooses to use his eyes instead of for you, then get rid of him.
If you're ready to pack it in, move on.
Sounds like maybe you are not satisfying him. Maybe you should try some new things in bed. Get his mind back on you. He's probably bored of the same old routine.
First, you need to let that man look at pron, unless your going to give him some action 2-3 times a day. Second, every guy looks on occasion, he just doesn't sound very discreet. If he's dumb enough to get caught, then you have a right to get mad. However, I would suggest letting him look at the pron and maybe even have a little alone time for yourself. If you catch him looking, then he deserves a kick to the junk.
It sounds like he has a problem. He needs to seek counseling, or you move on ~ especially if you only see things getting worse.
Looking at porn and beating off is one thing, but to ignore you to stare at other girls or women is not cool. I'd dump him and move on to a real man who can treat you like a lady. What a jerk.
hell yeah, move on! unless you want to put up with it forever. Duh. Empower yourself. Why would you want to put up with that crap?
i hate to say it; but he is an inconsiderate jerk with no respect for you, women in general, or your relationship. RESPECT yourself and move on.... good luck
Well, being in his 40's, its possible that he's just set in his ways. He's always looked at other women, and now that he is in a relationship, he can't bring himself to stop.
Or he is stubborn, believes it is no big deal (like you said), and continues to do it in front of you knowing that it bothers you, ';proving'; that it isn't a big deal - that is, he wins the ';argument'; every time he does it anyway.
Personally, based solely on what you've told me about you two, I would leave. I don't know how serious you two are, though, or how other aspects of your relationship are going.Please help, guys I need advice... about men and porn and looking at other women.?
sorry but if he's looking he's thinking about cheating. some men can look and not touch ,others you never know, if he's looking at porn he's not happy in your relationship,and he's shopping for a new girl if he looks when your with him. One more thing,if your catching this and not doing anything about it your in for trouble down the road.
He is looking, because he is missing what you can't offer him anymore. Is not stable relationship if he find what he is looking for you are history.
It sounds a little over the top, but i would think their is a deeper insecurity on your side you are redirecting at him either that or you don't trust the man... and i don't know maybe there is reason for that, if not remember you are what you think of others... deal with it or leave him..
Get rid of the perv. No offense, but you're not going to get any BETTER looking with time.....none of us will. There will always be porn and hot chicks. If that's how he chooses to use his eyes instead of for you, then get rid of him.
If you're ready to pack it in, move on.
Sounds like maybe you are not satisfying him. Maybe you should try some new things in bed. Get his mind back on you. He's probably bored of the same old routine.
First, you need to let that man look at pron, unless your going to give him some action 2-3 times a day. Second, every guy looks on occasion, he just doesn't sound very discreet. If he's dumb enough to get caught, then you have a right to get mad. However, I would suggest letting him look at the pron and maybe even have a little alone time for yourself. If you catch him looking, then he deserves a kick to the junk.
It sounds like he has a problem. He needs to seek counseling, or you move on ~ especially if you only see things getting worse.
Looking at porn and beating off is one thing, but to ignore you to stare at other girls or women is not cool. I'd dump him and move on to a real man who can treat you like a lady. What a jerk.
hell yeah, move on! unless you want to put up with it forever. Duh. Empower yourself. Why would you want to put up with that crap?
i hate to say it; but he is an inconsiderate jerk with no respect for you, women in general, or your relationship. RESPECT yourself and move on.... good luck
Men's fashion advice needed....?
Are there any sites out there that suggest tips for putting together outfits in the style of punk, emo, alternative, hipster etc? I'm hoping for more than just a retailer's website of inventory. I need advice that I can use for future reference, not just an outfit to buy.Men's fashion advice needed....?
k that question doesnt make alot of sense. im thinking you mean you want a website for website that sells those types of clothes, online?Men's fashion advice needed....?
My advice to you is to go look at magazines and see what they are wearing (particularly fashion magazines!) You'll find what you are looking for in there. Almost all stores carry all types of clothing (Macys, Sears, JcPenny, TJMaxx, Target, etc...) You just have to spend time shopping for them.
Esquire? GQ?
Do you want advice or to buy stuff?
k that question doesnt make alot of sense. im thinking you mean you want a website for website that sells those types of clothes, online?Men's fashion advice needed....?
My advice to you is to go look at magazines and see what they are wearing (particularly fashion magazines!) You'll find what you are looking for in there. Almost all stores carry all types of clothing (Macys, Sears, JcPenny, TJMaxx, Target, etc...) You just have to spend time shopping for them.
Esquire? GQ?
Do you want advice or to buy stuff?
Japanese Men + Dating. Any advice?
I go to a language exchange club weekly (to practice my Japanese %26amp; to meet potential guys, haha), and I've met a couple of nice Japanese guys there. My question is: Has anyone had any experience dating a Japanese man, and would I need to ';adapt'' any aspects of my personality or flirt differently in order for them to notice me?
Shallow question I know, but I don't really have any experience with dating on the whole, so I'm pretty clueless when it comes to this topic.Japanese Men + Dating. Any advice?
gosh don't know
Shallow question I know, but I don't really have any experience with dating on the whole, so I'm pretty clueless when it comes to this topic.Japanese Men + Dating. Any advice?
gosh don't know
Some advice about men?
so this i have been talking to all of sudden cuts off contact. i mean it went from talking several times a day to nothing and when i send a text or call its real short and asks if he can call me back but never does. i do like the guy and he said he did like me but i am not sure what to do. i haven't contacted him for a few days but i am not sure if i look into making more attempts to talk and what not.Some advice about men?
I wouldn't. Some people change their minds for whatever reason of their own. I never sit around and wait for a guy to come around... I move on with my life. Yes, it's hard, but why beat yourself up over whatever issue this guy has? Just don't take it personally and move on.Some advice about men?
Sorry but he sounds like he's really not into you. You should leave him alone and move on. If you continue to make attempts to contact him, you will only annoy him. By him not calling you or texting you back, he's letting you know that he doesn't like you as much as you like him. Stop stalking the man, go out, have fun, meet new friends and enjoy life.
Leave him alone for a while,go out,have fun.If he likes you like he said,he will come around.Be a little hard to get,if he calls you,dont be too eager to call him,let him suggest to go out or other things.And if he didnt after 1 week,then forget about him,he lied to you.social networking
I wouldn't. Some people change their minds for whatever reason of their own. I never sit around and wait for a guy to come around... I move on with my life. Yes, it's hard, but why beat yourself up over whatever issue this guy has? Just don't take it personally and move on.Some advice about men?
Sorry but he sounds like he's really not into you. You should leave him alone and move on. If you continue to make attempts to contact him, you will only annoy him. By him not calling you or texting you back, he's letting you know that he doesn't like you as much as you like him. Stop stalking the man, go out, have fun, meet new friends and enjoy life.
Leave him alone for a while,go out,have fun.If he likes you like he said,he will come around.Be a little hard to get,if he calls you,dont be too eager to call him,let him suggest to go out or other things.And if he didnt after 1 week,then forget about him,he lied to you.
Any advice from men?
my bf is calling me a playa and accusing me of cheating on him,he won't work all he think bout is smokin weed all tha time.sombody help! what i want 2 do 2 him will put me in jailAny advice from men?
Sounds like you got yourself a real winner there.Any advice from men?
Leave him and if you cant. .. set your self up slowly until you fully capable of pulling away from the situation and dont have to stick around and keep going thru this. plus accusing you of cheating, and your not i hope, is a definite sign of guilty conscience of what he is doing.
A dude that aint work?? then what can he do for you?? you already know what to do... do keep asking for advice cuz im sure you've asked your friends the same thing. JUST DO IT
Simple: Leave him and go on about your business.
Don't do anything to put you in jail. Chuck the zero. Get a hero. One that works and doesn't like weed.
leave him - how old is he an he dont work ?? weed will slow you down i do it but make sure i gets paid first
well, with that kinda view towards you, shows he doesn't care that much about you, if he truly thought you with were with someone else he would of left you. search for someone better.
Break up with the bum! If you stick with him yo are lowering your value!
Sounds like you got yourself a real winner there.Any advice from men?
Leave him and if you cant. .. set your self up slowly until you fully capable of pulling away from the situation and dont have to stick around and keep going thru this. plus accusing you of cheating, and your not i hope, is a definite sign of guilty conscience of what he is doing.
A dude that aint work?? then what can he do for you?? you already know what to do... do keep asking for advice cuz im sure you've asked your friends the same thing. JUST DO IT
Simple: Leave him and go on about your business.
Don't do anything to put you in jail. Chuck the zero. Get a hero. One that works and doesn't like weed.
leave him - how old is he an he dont work ?? weed will slow you down i do it but make sure i gets paid first
well, with that kinda view towards you, shows he doesn't care that much about you, if he truly thought you with were with someone else he would of left you. search for someone better.
Break up with the bum! If you stick with him yo are lowering your value!
Relationship advice plz (mans only)?
can sum1 giv advice how to be more of an jerkRelationship advice plz (mans only)?
easy just treat girls like their one of the guys not that hard i e. try not to insult them but do asshole things like be mean
easy just treat girls like their one of the guys not that hard i e. try not to insult them but do asshole things like be mean
Why do girls take advice about men from other girls?
dnt u think it makes more sense to ask a guy y we do wat we doWhy do girls take advice about men from other girls?
yea but guys are hard to read and if they dont want to tell you something theyll get around it.....girls look to their friends to let them know what a guy is thinking cuz they know that theyll be honest and they cant figure it out for the life of them so mayb their friend can.Why do girls take advice about men from other girls?
leern two spek engalish.
Its because some other girls have gone out with stupidasses and they don't want to fall for a guy like that
Yeah it does make sense, and if we really need help we'll ask for it. But guys and girls interpret things differently. Like, if you and your gf decided that you wanted a break, the girl might interpret that as:
'; He broke up with me.';
Plus girls are sometimes a bit more sensitive than boys, and need their friends to be there to give them advice. Would you honestly be able to consult a crying girl?
same reason why a man would take advice form a next guy
That is true but most girls feel more comfortable with talkin to girls about guys... unless they have a lot of guy friends... then that's different
Because experience comes from only someone that has experienced it!
dont know we just do
Yes it does but whenever you ask a deep question none of the men answer. Almost like they dont want to give the secret man club rules away.
Because men are liars lol. Just for experience and because guys know how to twist things. It does make sense to ask the guys, but you never know if they're being honest or not.
becos they are our friends who are honest with us.
me too want to know the answer
Because they are the only ones that answer!
No because most of the time your not going to tell us the truth or you just tell us what you think we want to hear so that's why we ask each other
We dont ask guys because it's useless and answer will be ';oh, girl all man doing this';
yea but guys are hard to read and if they dont want to tell you something theyll get around it.....girls look to their friends to let them know what a guy is thinking cuz they know that theyll be honest and they cant figure it out for the life of them so mayb their friend can.Why do girls take advice about men from other girls?
leern two spek engalish.
Its because some other girls have gone out with stupidasses and they don't want to fall for a guy like that
Yeah it does make sense, and if we really need help we'll ask for it. But guys and girls interpret things differently. Like, if you and your gf decided that you wanted a break, the girl might interpret that as:
'; He broke up with me.';
Plus girls are sometimes a bit more sensitive than boys, and need their friends to be there to give them advice. Would you honestly be able to consult a crying girl?
same reason why a man would take advice form a next guy
That is true but most girls feel more comfortable with talkin to girls about guys... unless they have a lot of guy friends... then that's different
Because experience comes from only someone that has experienced it!
dont know we just do
Yes it does but whenever you ask a deep question none of the men answer. Almost like they dont want to give the secret man club rules away.
Because men are liars lol. Just for experience and because guys know how to twist things. It does make sense to ask the guys, but you never know if they're being honest or not.
becos they are our friends who are honest with us.
me too want to know the answer
Because they are the only ones that answer!
No because most of the time your not going to tell us the truth or you just tell us what you think we want to hear so that's why we ask each other
We dont ask guys because it's useless and answer will be ';oh, girl all man doing this';
Advice from men and women please..?
Hi everyone! Im a 15 yr. old female and i'm going through a bit of a serious situation and i need some advice on it. I met this guy, that ive had a huge crush on for a while, about 8 months ago. We set up a date and he was a complete gentlemen. I let him know i was 15, and he let me know HE WAS 20...:/ BUMMER...I really like him. My friends even told me they saw nothing wrong with it..seeing that im goin on 16 in about a week or so. Anyway, we havent gone into the relationship talk yet, but he has brought up SEX. I'm a very respectful girl and im waiting for marriage, and im not planning on having sex with him. Is he just in this for sex or did he just bring it up like most guys do? Do you think this is wrong? Should i stop hanging out with him? How can i avoid him? I need serious advice on this, because any decision i make between me and him is going to make a HUGE difference..:(Advice from men and women please..?
he wants sexAdvice from men and women please..?
Turn his *** in to the cops. What a creep! You have no business socializing with MEN! There is something critically wrong with him if he is even contemplating having sex with a 15 year old. Tell your parents IMMEDIATELY and stay away from this creep. There is nothing to like in a weirdo like him!
Girl he just wants to get into your pants! I highly doubt he is serious especially if he is bringing up sex so soon!! I mean unless you seriously and Honestly think he is serious I would back off a little bit. Or tell him that your not ready for sex! Your not even legal to have sex untill your 16! and if you end up pregnant he can be charged for rape since he is legal and your not!
If he was any kind of a gentleman, he would never have mentioned sex at all.
I think this guy may just have a one tracked mind. Hold onto your morals and values and find a nice boy to go on dates with.
Just my opinion. :-)
first of all, there's about as much creepy with a 20 year old asking a 15 year old for sex as there is a 23 year old asking an 18 year old. this in itself is not creepy. the main issue is that states DO have statutory laws to protect minors, and he obviously doesn't respect those laws. THAT is creepy.
would you like a guy who was a bank robber? would you like a guy who was a murderer? would like a guy who had ever committed a rape? these are extreme crimes, but it is meant to get you asking yourself how much you should really like a guy who is willing to break laws to get sex. him being with you in that capacity technically is rape. it's called statutory rape, sex with a minor. all guys know this. trust me, you are better off telling this guy, sorry... i can't see you anymore. tell your parents about it. don't wait for this guy to do something that scares you or puts you in harms way before you take the issue to them. don't let it become a problem before you get them involved, because then it's too late.
and good for you on deciding to wait for marriage. it's an honorable thing to value yourself that highly.
5 yrs usually isn't such a big deal, but when he's 20 and has experienced alot more...it is a big deal. If he has already mentioned sex, I think its fair to know what he's looking for. I am not saying he doesn't like you.....but don't let him pressure you into doing something you will regret later. Trust me, if I could go back, i would have waited and made my first time more special. Be true to yourself....if the guy likes you, he will wait. If not, there are plenty of fish in the sea. You are only 15...have fun and enjoy life. Don't get tied down to a man already! Good Luck!
leave him
thats a toughie!! ummm, i think if hes goign out with a 16 year old it may just be for sex! plus if hes not prepared to wait for u...is he worth it??
good luk xx
First of all he is 20 and you are 15 he is just looking to get in your pants and then he is going to move on, find someone your own age with the same morals and values that you have
Sweetie, you really need to leave him alone. Hold on to your moral values. This guy only wants sex, and he needs to find someone his age. Please do not talk or try to hang out with him. You could get in some serious trouble.
He knows you are 15? You need to break all ties with this man, you are way too young to be seeing a20 year old man. When you are older this age difference would not matter, but the maturity levels between the two of you are completely different, he is taking advantage of you, and thinks that you are dumb enough to let him.
if he didnt bring up a relationship but he did bring up sex then yeah hunny he is in it for the sex guys love to have sex with younger girls especially if they are virgins it happened to me just lose him because I am telling you if relationship never came into the conversation then all he wants is sex
First of all you are still a minor and he is not, so he knows that and he's still asking about sex?? You might like him, but if you are not ready for it let him know! If he keeps bring it up, then tell him you can't se him anymore. Respect your self and don't just have sex with someone cause they keep pressuring you. Wait untill you are ready. If he continues to bother you after you asked him to keep his distance, then get a restraining order.
honey he is to old for you and it does matter at your age.. men at 20 do want sex and at your age that would involve jail time for him. no disrespect to you but he must be pretty immature - he should be looking for a women his own age.Men can be very decietful and he will try to talk you into to sex just by telling you what he thinks you want to here. Dont be fooled. Do not get involved please. Have you asked your parents because I think they can help.
he wants sexAdvice from men and women please..?
Turn his *** in to the cops. What a creep! You have no business socializing with MEN! There is something critically wrong with him if he is even contemplating having sex with a 15 year old. Tell your parents IMMEDIATELY and stay away from this creep. There is nothing to like in a weirdo like him!
Girl he just wants to get into your pants! I highly doubt he is serious especially if he is bringing up sex so soon!! I mean unless you seriously and Honestly think he is serious I would back off a little bit. Or tell him that your not ready for sex! Your not even legal to have sex untill your 16! and if you end up pregnant he can be charged for rape since he is legal and your not!
If he was any kind of a gentleman, he would never have mentioned sex at all.
I think this guy may just have a one tracked mind. Hold onto your morals and values and find a nice boy to go on dates with.
Just my opinion. :-)
first of all, there's about as much creepy with a 20 year old asking a 15 year old for sex as there is a 23 year old asking an 18 year old. this in itself is not creepy. the main issue is that states DO have statutory laws to protect minors, and he obviously doesn't respect those laws. THAT is creepy.
would you like a guy who was a bank robber? would you like a guy who was a murderer? would like a guy who had ever committed a rape? these are extreme crimes, but it is meant to get you asking yourself how much you should really like a guy who is willing to break laws to get sex. him being with you in that capacity technically is rape. it's called statutory rape, sex with a minor. all guys know this. trust me, you are better off telling this guy, sorry... i can't see you anymore. tell your parents about it. don't wait for this guy to do something that scares you or puts you in harms way before you take the issue to them. don't let it become a problem before you get them involved, because then it's too late.
and good for you on deciding to wait for marriage. it's an honorable thing to value yourself that highly.
5 yrs usually isn't such a big deal, but when he's 20 and has experienced alot more...it is a big deal. If he has already mentioned sex, I think its fair to know what he's looking for. I am not saying he doesn't like you.....but don't let him pressure you into doing something you will regret later. Trust me, if I could go back, i would have waited and made my first time more special. Be true to yourself....if the guy likes you, he will wait. If not, there are plenty of fish in the sea. You are only 15...have fun and enjoy life. Don't get tied down to a man already! Good Luck!
leave him
thats a toughie!! ummm, i think if hes goign out with a 16 year old it may just be for sex! plus if hes not prepared to wait for u...is he worth it??
good luk xx
First of all he is 20 and you are 15 he is just looking to get in your pants and then he is going to move on, find someone your own age with the same morals and values that you have
Sweetie, you really need to leave him alone. Hold on to your moral values. This guy only wants sex, and he needs to find someone his age. Please do not talk or try to hang out with him. You could get in some serious trouble.
He knows you are 15? You need to break all ties with this man, you are way too young to be seeing a20 year old man. When you are older this age difference would not matter, but the maturity levels between the two of you are completely different, he is taking advantage of you, and thinks that you are dumb enough to let him.
if he didnt bring up a relationship but he did bring up sex then yeah hunny he is in it for the sex guys love to have sex with younger girls especially if they are virgins it happened to me just lose him because I am telling you if relationship never came into the conversation then all he wants is sex
First of all you are still a minor and he is not, so he knows that and he's still asking about sex?? You might like him, but if you are not ready for it let him know! If he keeps bring it up, then tell him you can't se him anymore. Respect your self and don't just have sex with someone cause they keep pressuring you. Wait untill you are ready. If he continues to bother you after you asked him to keep his distance, then get a restraining order.
honey he is to old for you and it does matter at your age.. men at 20 do want sex and at your age that would involve jail time for him. no disrespect to you but he must be pretty immature - he should be looking for a women his own age.Men can be very decietful and he will try to talk you into to sex just by telling you what he thinks you want to here. Dont be fooled. Do not get involved please. Have you asked your parents because I think they can help.
Advice from men and women please.....?
My husband and I cant seem to agree, or rather find anything that we both like to do for our anniversary so i want ideas. What do men and women think of when anniversary comes top mind. We never really had a honeymoon and were kinda hoping to make up for it this yr (2nd anniversary)........
should it be romantic?
should it be adrenaline filled......
Please i need ideas before i go insane....
oh yeah btw we have a 3yr old so alone time doesnt come very often....
THANX!!!
Advice from men and women please.....?
If you can't afford much, leave the little one with Grandma for the weekend and take off somewhere romantic, but local. I'm willing to bet that with the economy being in a crunch right now, and it being ';offseason'; so many places, you may be able to find some sweet deals at local attractions. Advice from men and women please.....?
Get a babysitter (i know this can be hard to do) and go away for a weekend trip. Not sure where you live but when I mean go on a weekend trip go 500 miles or more, find a cheap flight (they are still around if you look hard enough) and go to some city you have not been to before. Check out orbitz or some website that has hotel and airfair package together. Use public transportation, should not cost to much. Just get back to being a couple. This is what I would suggest.
Well without knowing where u live or your $$ situation I would say Fly to Vegas for the weekend stay in a decent hotel
and have fun
if that is too much rent a hotel room that has a Jucuzzi in it go out for the night to a nice dinner maybe dancing if ur into that type of thing
Go to a resort for the weekend
I'm in a similar situation. I have a little one too, my two year anniversary is coming up, and we also didn't go for a real honeymoon. I think that if you didn't celebrate your wedding, then maybe you should renew your vows. But a vacation would be much needed.
My husband and I usually go on a cruise, who wouldn't love to go on a cruise?
Cruise the Hawaiian Islands and leave the 3 year old with your folks.
should it be romantic?
should it be adrenaline filled......
Please i need ideas before i go insane....
oh yeah btw we have a 3yr old so alone time doesnt come very often....
THANX!!!
Advice from men and women please.....?
If you can't afford much, leave the little one with Grandma for the weekend and take off somewhere romantic, but local. I'm willing to bet that with the economy being in a crunch right now, and it being ';offseason'; so many places, you may be able to find some sweet deals at local attractions. Advice from men and women please.....?
Get a babysitter (i know this can be hard to do) and go away for a weekend trip. Not sure where you live but when I mean go on a weekend trip go 500 miles or more, find a cheap flight (they are still around if you look hard enough) and go to some city you have not been to before. Check out orbitz or some website that has hotel and airfair package together. Use public transportation, should not cost to much. Just get back to being a couple. This is what I would suggest.
Well without knowing where u live or your $$ situation I would say Fly to Vegas for the weekend stay in a decent hotel
and have fun
if that is too much rent a hotel room that has a Jucuzzi in it go out for the night to a nice dinner maybe dancing if ur into that type of thing
Go to a resort for the weekend
I'm in a similar situation. I have a little one too, my two year anniversary is coming up, and we also didn't go for a real honeymoon. I think that if you didn't celebrate your wedding, then maybe you should renew your vows. But a vacation would be much needed.
My husband and I usually go on a cruise, who wouldn't love to go on a cruise?
Cruise the Hawaiian Islands and leave the 3 year old with your folks.
Does anyone have advice on men?
I have a guy problem that i need help with.... me and this guy have gotten pretty close, and i hate talking on the phone, so if i don't see him that day, i email him, or he emails me. We both go to the same college, but i commute, and he lives on campus. I have gotten one email from him in two days, and the last person to email was me, about this time, last night. It doesn't usually take this long for him to answer, but we have a differnent relationship, and it is really a feel as i go situation. Do i email him back, or should i ignore him like it feels like he is ignoring me, just to get back at him? that seems really shallow, but i can't think of anything else to do, and i don't want to be the one doing the chasing. I want him to make some moves! PLease help!!!Does anyone have advice on men?
Give him a day or two, maybe he's just busy, or he wants more space. I also tend to jump into conclusions that are often incorrect. Don't ask him for an explanation, you're not his mother, and if he ever tells you what happened, don't question it, because if you don't believe him right now there's no need to continue with this. I would also recommend the use of instant messaging.Does anyone have advice on men?
If you don't want to be the one making the moves then DON't. If he is interested he will come to you, but you will have to be patient and give him the opportunity to do so.
It sounds like you are wanting to be closer with him than he might want to be with you right now. Take that to heart. Perhaps offer him some expression of what you'd like, maybe an invitation to have lunch together, or whatever feels right, and then let it go. Know that you've done your best to reach out, and if he's not equally responsive, accept that he's different place.
Give him a day or two, maybe he's just busy, or he wants more space. I also tend to jump into conclusions that are often incorrect. Don't ask him for an explanation, you're not his mother, and if he ever tells you what happened, don't question it, because if you don't believe him right now there's no need to continue with this. I would also recommend the use of instant messaging.Does anyone have advice on men?
If you don't want to be the one making the moves then DON't. If he is interested he will come to you, but you will have to be patient and give him the opportunity to do so.
It sounds like you are wanting to be closer with him than he might want to be with you right now. Take that to heart. Perhaps offer him some expression of what you'd like, maybe an invitation to have lunch together, or whatever feels right, and then let it go. Know that you've done your best to reach out, and if he's not equally responsive, accept that he's different place.
Need ';postponed date'; advice from men (women welcome too)?
Last weekend, I got up the nerve to ask my crush out to lunch. He said that he'd like to, but was ';swamped with work'; and said maybe this coming weekend instead.
Neither of us has mentioned this all week, and now I'm wondering, should I say something? Part of the problem is that I'm not sure if he's interested, and so I'm inclined to wait and see if he remembers (which would indicate to me that I'm on his mind). I don't want to seem desperate. What should I do???Need ';postponed date'; advice from men (women welcome too)?
IF he doesn't bring it up again, don't say anything. Just be polite and go on about your business. Let him make the next move. If he does not, then he is not intereted.
Neither of us has mentioned this all week, and now I'm wondering, should I say something? Part of the problem is that I'm not sure if he's interested, and so I'm inclined to wait and see if he remembers (which would indicate to me that I'm on his mind). I don't want to seem desperate. What should I do???Need ';postponed date'; advice from men (women welcome too)?
IF he doesn't bring it up again, don't say anything. Just be polite and go on about your business. Let him make the next move. If he does not, then he is not intereted.
I need some advice from men...?
I recently split from my husband a week ago and he's seeing someone else and claims he doesn't want anything else to do with me. I've accepted it as I have filed for divorce...does anyone ever think i'll get over him and find someone else?I need some advice from men...?
Alot of men like to move on but it kills them when a woman they were with starts dating. Just let that go and dont be scared to try new people. You dont have to react just cause you know he's dating though, wait till your ready and make sure eerthivng is motivated by you and only you!I need some advice from men...?
Yes you will find someone else but you have to take care of you and your child first and foremost. Wounds will heal in time but only by forgiving will you be able to heal yourself. I had the same thing happen to me with a significant other 20 years ago. Now I have been married for 18.5 years and counting.
Why are you asking only for advice from the men? I would think that you would get better advice from women who have been through this. And yes, you can get through this. Don't start looking for someone else until you heal from all this.
If you've already filed for divorce and accepted it you're on the right road. There's plenty of men out there, just look for a better one this time.
Most women like to ride the drama train and drag stuff out. You need to think like a man and act like a lady and move on yourself.
that depends on you if you want to get over him. He is quit over you.
What would you tell your daughter if she asked you that question?????
Whenever you decide to, you will.
that 'someone else' you need to find first is you.
Alot of men like to move on but it kills them when a woman they were with starts dating. Just let that go and dont be scared to try new people. You dont have to react just cause you know he's dating though, wait till your ready and make sure eerthivng is motivated by you and only you!I need some advice from men...?
Yes you will find someone else but you have to take care of you and your child first and foremost. Wounds will heal in time but only by forgiving will you be able to heal yourself. I had the same thing happen to me with a significant other 20 years ago. Now I have been married for 18.5 years and counting.
Why are you asking only for advice from the men? I would think that you would get better advice from women who have been through this. And yes, you can get through this. Don't start looking for someone else until you heal from all this.
If you've already filed for divorce and accepted it you're on the right road. There's plenty of men out there, just look for a better one this time.
Most women like to ride the drama train and drag stuff out. You need to think like a man and act like a lady and move on yourself.
that depends on you if you want to get over him. He is quit over you.
What would you tell your daughter if she asked you that question?????
Whenever you decide to, you will.
that 'someone else' you need to find first is you.
MEN NEED YOUR ADVICE - what is a great men's watch for the price for a Christmas present - I haven't a clue!
This is for my boyfriend - he is a presonal trainer and a laid back kind of guy (not flashy). He could use a good looking dress and casual watch but I don't know what one or how much to spend. I would like to keep it under $125 and get a good deal. Have looked at Croton - but that's it. Any suggestions guys? I don't want to get something cheap he would be embarrassed to wear...MEN NEED YOUR ADVICE - what is a great men's watch for the price for a Christmas present - I haven't a clue!
The best bang for your buck is invicta.Very well made.I Have a few crotons and all of wristbands break after a year.Since you don't know much about watches let me quickly say that quartz and automatics are standard.Quartz work off a battery and auto's wind as you wear them.Go with invicta!MEN NEED YOUR ADVICE - what is a great men's watch for the price for a Christmas present - I haven't a clue!
Skagen makes a good, simple, stylish watch, not too clunky and formal for everyday wear but stylish enough to wear with a suit. They're ostensibly from Denmark but I think they're assembled in Japan. Either way, a nice one from them will run you about $100 from Sunglass Hut.
I have a Timex Digital watch since 1984.
Takes a Licking and keeps on Ticking. :-)
Was a gift - paid $25.00 in 84.
Fossil makes a nice watch. Solid and nice looking.
croton isnt bad neither is seiko orcitizen
The best bang for your buck is invicta.Very well made.I Have a few crotons and all of wristbands break after a year.Since you don't know much about watches let me quickly say that quartz and automatics are standard.Quartz work off a battery and auto's wind as you wear them.Go with invicta!MEN NEED YOUR ADVICE - what is a great men's watch for the price for a Christmas present - I haven't a clue!
Skagen makes a good, simple, stylish watch, not too clunky and formal for everyday wear but stylish enough to wear with a suit. They're ostensibly from Denmark but I think they're assembled in Japan. Either way, a nice one from them will run you about $100 from Sunglass Hut.
I have a Timex Digital watch since 1984.
Takes a Licking and keeps on Ticking. :-)
Was a gift - paid $25.00 in 84.
Fossil makes a nice watch. Solid and nice looking.
croton isnt bad neither is seiko orcitizen
I'm a plus size girl and would you advice me to wear a men's vest?
cause im a plus size and i cant find a female's vest that will fit me.
i found a men's vest on zara, would u recommend me to wear it or switch to something else?
would it be better if i pair it with a v-neck or a long-sleeves with collar? im confused, help please!!I'm a plus size girl and would you advice me to wear a men's vest?
If you watched what not to wear you wouldn't be asking this question. Mens clothes are made for men. It's as simple as that.
Even though you think it fits you, the proportions are wrong.
AND even if you're plus sized, you still have curves. (vests for men: no curves)
My advice: Keep looking, there are several plus size stores out there.
Also, If you would like to look more curvy, maybe try finding a vest that has seaming ) ( like that.I'm a plus size girl and would you advice me to wear a men's vest?
How about you loose weight and get healthy so you can fit a normal vest?
www.torrid.com?
i found a men's vest on zara, would u recommend me to wear it or switch to something else?
would it be better if i pair it with a v-neck or a long-sleeves with collar? im confused, help please!!I'm a plus size girl and would you advice me to wear a men's vest?
If you watched what not to wear you wouldn't be asking this question. Mens clothes are made for men. It's as simple as that.
Even though you think it fits you, the proportions are wrong.
AND even if you're plus sized, you still have curves. (vests for men: no curves)
My advice: Keep looking, there are several plus size stores out there.
Also, If you would like to look more curvy, maybe try finding a vest that has seaming ) ( like that.I'm a plus size girl and would you advice me to wear a men's vest?
How about you loose weight and get healthy so you can fit a normal vest?
www.torrid.com?
Good relationship advice from men and woman please!!!?
I asked a Q about this guy that I wanted to date a while back, I got some great answers. Now we have been dating for a short while(3dates). I think that he likes me a lot, we haven't done the deed, but other stuff yes. I want to know what you guys think of this thing he said. he said I'm the sort of guy who likes to take things 1 day at a time. does this mean he donsn't know if he still wants to date me say 1 month from now cos he does't know what tomorrow brings??. I don't know if he wants anything serious cos when I ask he says I take things 1 day at a time. I don't want to have a deep conversation cost we have only been going out 3 times and and don't want to freak him out. He texts me every other day, that must be a good sign right. He keeps telling me that i'm hot and sexy, would that mean he's only interested in that??. Please help all answers will be appreciated. (I'm 27 he is 29).Good relationship advice from men and woman please!!!?
hmm well one day at a time, usually not always means i don't want to commit to much of anything. Im fine now but tomorrow may be different. Before you do the deed wait and see where this leads to.Good relationship advice from men and woman please!!!?
Personally, even though I'm a guy, and guy's want sex, if a woman does the deed on our first date, she looses points on the ms right test. On the third date, if she isn't ready to show some sign of taking the next step, then the only way we would be having date # 4, is if she ask's me out for a date. If that happens, I'll know the first three dates weren't because she wanted a free good time.
When he says one day at a time, that's a guy's way of not saying, it depends on whether or not something changes pretty soon.
Maybe he is just cautious.social networking
hmm well one day at a time, usually not always means i don't want to commit to much of anything. Im fine now but tomorrow may be different. Before you do the deed wait and see where this leads to.Good relationship advice from men and woman please!!!?
Personally, even though I'm a guy, and guy's want sex, if a woman does the deed on our first date, she looses points on the ms right test. On the third date, if she isn't ready to show some sign of taking the next step, then the only way we would be having date # 4, is if she ask's me out for a date. If that happens, I'll know the first three dates weren't because she wanted a free good time.
When he says one day at a time, that's a guy's way of not saying, it depends on whether or not something changes pretty soon.
Maybe he is just cautious.
Does anyone have advice on men?
I have a guy problem that i need help with.... me and this guy have gotten pretty close, and i hate talking on the phone, so if i don't see him that day, i email him, or he emails me. We both go to the same college, but i commute, and he lives on campus. I have gotten one email from him in two days, and the last person to email was me, about this time, last night. It doesn't usually take this long for him to answer, but we have a differnent relationship, and it is really a feel as i go situation. Do i email him back, or should i ignore him like it feels like he is ignoring me, just to get back at him? that seems really shallow, but i can't think of anything else to do, and i don't want to be the one doing the chasing. I want him to make some moves! PLease help!!!Does anyone have advice on men?
Give him a day or two, maybe he's just busy, or he wants more space. I also tend to jump into conclusions that are often incorrect. Don't ask him for an explanation, you're not his mother, and if he ever tells you what happened, don't question it, because if you don't believe him right now there's no need to continue with this. I would also recommend the use of instant messaging.Does anyone have advice on men?
If you don't want to be the one making the moves then DON't. If he is interested he will come to you, but you will have to be patient and give him the opportunity to do so.
It sounds like you are wanting to be closer with him than he might want to be with you right now. Take that to heart. Perhaps offer him some expression of what you'd like, maybe an invitation to have lunch together, or whatever feels right, and then let it go. Know that you've done your best to reach out, and if he's not equally responsive, accept that he's different place.
Give him a day or two, maybe he's just busy, or he wants more space. I also tend to jump into conclusions that are often incorrect. Don't ask him for an explanation, you're not his mother, and if he ever tells you what happened, don't question it, because if you don't believe him right now there's no need to continue with this. I would also recommend the use of instant messaging.Does anyone have advice on men?
If you don't want to be the one making the moves then DON't. If he is interested he will come to you, but you will have to be patient and give him the opportunity to do so.
It sounds like you are wanting to be closer with him than he might want to be with you right now. Take that to heart. Perhaps offer him some expression of what you'd like, maybe an invitation to have lunch together, or whatever feels right, and then let it go. Know that you've done your best to reach out, and if he's not equally responsive, accept that he's different place.
Need ';postponed date'; advice from men (women welcome too)?
Last weekend, I got up the nerve to ask my crush out to lunch. He said that he'd like to, but was ';swamped with work'; and said maybe this coming weekend instead.
Neither of us has mentioned this all week, and now I'm wondering, should I say something? Part of the problem is that I'm not sure if he's interested, and so I'm inclined to wait and see if he remembers (which would indicate to me that I'm on his mind). I don't want to seem desperate. What should I do???Need ';postponed date'; advice from men (women welcome too)?
IF he doesn't bring it up again, don't say anything. Just be polite and go on about your business. Let him make the next move. If he does not, then he is not intereted.
Neither of us has mentioned this all week, and now I'm wondering, should I say something? Part of the problem is that I'm not sure if he's interested, and so I'm inclined to wait and see if he remembers (which would indicate to me that I'm on his mind). I don't want to seem desperate. What should I do???Need ';postponed date'; advice from men (women welcome too)?
IF he doesn't bring it up again, don't say anything. Just be polite and go on about your business. Let him make the next move. If he does not, then he is not intereted.
I need some advice from men...?
I recently split from my husband a week ago and he's seeing someone else and claims he doesn't want anything else to do with me. I've accepted it as I have filed for divorce...does anyone ever think i'll get over him and find someone else?I need some advice from men...?
Alot of men like to move on but it kills them when a woman they were with starts dating. Just let that go and dont be scared to try new people. You dont have to react just cause you know he's dating though, wait till your ready and make sure eerthivng is motivated by you and only you!I need some advice from men...?
Yes you will find someone else but you have to take care of you and your child first and foremost. Wounds will heal in time but only by forgiving will you be able to heal yourself. I had the same thing happen to me with a significant other 20 years ago. Now I have been married for 18.5 years and counting.
Why are you asking only for advice from the men? I would think that you would get better advice from women who have been through this. And yes, you can get through this. Don't start looking for someone else until you heal from all this.
If you've already filed for divorce and accepted it you're on the right road. There's plenty of men out there, just look for a better one this time.
Most women like to ride the drama train and drag stuff out. You need to think like a man and act like a lady and move on yourself.
that depends on you if you want to get over him. He is quit over you.
What would you tell your daughter if she asked you that question?????
Whenever you decide to, you will.
that 'someone else' you need to find first is you.
Alot of men like to move on but it kills them when a woman they were with starts dating. Just let that go and dont be scared to try new people. You dont have to react just cause you know he's dating though, wait till your ready and make sure eerthivng is motivated by you and only you!I need some advice from men...?
Yes you will find someone else but you have to take care of you and your child first and foremost. Wounds will heal in time but only by forgiving will you be able to heal yourself. I had the same thing happen to me with a significant other 20 years ago. Now I have been married for 18.5 years and counting.
Why are you asking only for advice from the men? I would think that you would get better advice from women who have been through this. And yes, you can get through this. Don't start looking for someone else until you heal from all this.
If you've already filed for divorce and accepted it you're on the right road. There's plenty of men out there, just look for a better one this time.
Most women like to ride the drama train and drag stuff out. You need to think like a man and act like a lady and move on yourself.
that depends on you if you want to get over him. He is quit over you.
What would you tell your daughter if she asked you that question?????
Whenever you decide to, you will.
that 'someone else' you need to find first is you.
MEN NEED YOUR ADVICE - what is a great men's watch for the price for a Christmas present - I haven't a clue!
This is for my boyfriend - he is a presonal trainer and a laid back kind of guy (not flashy). He could use a good looking dress and casual watch but I don't know what one or how much to spend. I would like to keep it under $125 and get a good deal. Have looked at Croton - but that's it. Any suggestions guys? I don't want to get something cheap he would be embarrassed to wear...MEN NEED YOUR ADVICE - what is a great men's watch for the price for a Christmas present - I haven't a clue!
The best bang for your buck is invicta.Very well made.I Have a few crotons and all of wristbands break after a year.Since you don't know much about watches let me quickly say that quartz and automatics are standard.Quartz work off a battery and auto's wind as you wear them.Go with invicta!MEN NEED YOUR ADVICE - what is a great men's watch for the price for a Christmas present - I haven't a clue!
Skagen makes a good, simple, stylish watch, not too clunky and formal for everyday wear but stylish enough to wear with a suit. They're ostensibly from Denmark but I think they're assembled in Japan. Either way, a nice one from them will run you about $100 from Sunglass Hut.
I have a Timex Digital watch since 1984.
Takes a Licking and keeps on Ticking. :-)
Was a gift - paid $25.00 in 84.
Fossil makes a nice watch. Solid and nice looking.
croton isnt bad neither is seiko orcitizen
The best bang for your buck is invicta.Very well made.I Have a few crotons and all of wristbands break after a year.Since you don't know much about watches let me quickly say that quartz and automatics are standard.Quartz work off a battery and auto's wind as you wear them.Go with invicta!MEN NEED YOUR ADVICE - what is a great men's watch for the price for a Christmas present - I haven't a clue!
Skagen makes a good, simple, stylish watch, not too clunky and formal for everyday wear but stylish enough to wear with a suit. They're ostensibly from Denmark but I think they're assembled in Japan. Either way, a nice one from them will run you about $100 from Sunglass Hut.
I have a Timex Digital watch since 1984.
Takes a Licking and keeps on Ticking. :-)
Was a gift - paid $25.00 in 84.
Fossil makes a nice watch. Solid and nice looking.
croton isnt bad neither is seiko orcitizen
I'm a plus size girl and would you advice me to wear a men's vest?
cause im a plus size and i cant find a female's vest that will fit me.
i found a men's vest on zara, would u recommend me to wear it or switch to something else?
would it be better if i pair it with a v-neck or a long-sleeves with collar? im confused, help please!!I'm a plus size girl and would you advice me to wear a men's vest?
If you watched what not to wear you wouldn't be asking this question. Mens clothes are made for men. It's as simple as that.
Even though you think it fits you, the proportions are wrong.
AND even if you're plus sized, you still have curves. (vests for men: no curves)
My advice: Keep looking, there are several plus size stores out there.
Also, If you would like to look more curvy, maybe try finding a vest that has seaming ) ( like that.I'm a plus size girl and would you advice me to wear a men's vest?
How about you loose weight and get healthy so you can fit a normal vest?
www.torrid.com?social networking
i found a men's vest on zara, would u recommend me to wear it or switch to something else?
would it be better if i pair it with a v-neck or a long-sleeves with collar? im confused, help please!!I'm a plus size girl and would you advice me to wear a men's vest?
If you watched what not to wear you wouldn't be asking this question. Mens clothes are made for men. It's as simple as that.
Even though you think it fits you, the proportions are wrong.
AND even if you're plus sized, you still have curves. (vests for men: no curves)
My advice: Keep looking, there are several plus size stores out there.
Also, If you would like to look more curvy, maybe try finding a vest that has seaming ) ( like that.I'm a plus size girl and would you advice me to wear a men's vest?
How about you loose weight and get healthy so you can fit a normal vest?
www.torrid.com?
Good relationship advice from men and woman please!!!?
I asked a Q about this guy that I wanted to date a while back, I got some great answers. Now we have been dating for a short while(3dates). I think that he likes me a lot, we haven't done the deed, but other stuff yes. I want to know what you guys think of this thing he said. he said I'm the sort of guy who likes to take things 1 day at a time. does this mean he donsn't know if he still wants to date me say 1 month from now cos he does't know what tomorrow brings??. I don't know if he wants anything serious cos when I ask he says I take things 1 day at a time. I don't want to have a deep conversation cost we have only been going out 3 times and and don't want to freak him out. He texts me every other day, that must be a good sign right. He keeps telling me that i'm hot and sexy, would that mean he's only interested in that??. Please help all answers will be appreciated. (I'm 27 he is 29).Good relationship advice from men and woman please!!!?
hmm well one day at a time, usually not always means i don't want to commit to much of anything. Im fine now but tomorrow may be different. Before you do the deed wait and see where this leads to.Good relationship advice from men and woman please!!!?
Personally, even though I'm a guy, and guy's want sex, if a woman does the deed on our first date, she looses points on the ms right test. On the third date, if she isn't ready to show some sign of taking the next step, then the only way we would be having date # 4, is if she ask's me out for a date. If that happens, I'll know the first three dates weren't because she wanted a free good time.
When he says one day at a time, that's a guy's way of not saying, it depends on whether or not something changes pretty soon.
Maybe he is just cautious.
hmm well one day at a time, usually not always means i don't want to commit to much of anything. Im fine now but tomorrow may be different. Before you do the deed wait and see where this leads to.Good relationship advice from men and woman please!!!?
Personally, even though I'm a guy, and guy's want sex, if a woman does the deed on our first date, she looses points on the ms right test. On the third date, if she isn't ready to show some sign of taking the next step, then the only way we would be having date # 4, is if she ask's me out for a date. If that happens, I'll know the first three dates weren't because she wanted a free good time.
When he says one day at a time, that's a guy's way of not saying, it depends on whether or not something changes pretty soon.
Maybe he is just cautious.
Wedding ,, Wedding men and women need advice,, disaster?
HI GUYS, I was planning on having my wedding right!! in January. well I had 54 guest and me and my fiance look over the guest list,, He took too people ooff the guest list,, which so happens to be my male friend and his sister. we have been friends for years and years. since elementry. My fiance told me I cant'n have my friends there because it is going to be a small wedding and family only. But the problem is this my friends are family they are family to the point where they dont'n address my parents or grandparent's by mr. or mrs. they address them by mom,, granny, papa, and so on I do his family that also but not his mom because she past 2 1/2 years ago.Even though I havent'n seen them in a while,, bout a year are so because of hurricane katrina,, They go see my family everyday and even sometimes sleep over there. My fiance dont have any male friends at all . And i'm starting too think he dont want them too come because he has no friends and that is not my fault,,Wedding ,, Wedding men and women need advice,, disaster?
Well, to be honest, I have my doubts as to whether the two of you will be able to pull off a successful marriage (notice I said nothing about a successful wedding). This whole issue strikes me as petty and if the two of you can't make the decision about who should or should not be at your wedding without throwing some low blows about ';It's not my fault he doesn't have any friends';, then I don't think you have what it takes to spend your life with someone, trying to make decisions that are actually best for you as a family instead of you as an individual. At the moment, the two of you are playing at being grown up instead of actually being grown up about the whole situation.
And I just can't figure out why people (you, apparently, included) feel like ';it's all about what the bride wants'; because you know, it's his wedding day too. I mean, in my opinion, ANY bride who takes that attitude about how their wedding should be, based solely on what they want, is in the wrong, because it's starting out your life together as husband and wife on the wrong foot. I don't think he's right here, but I think the whole ';I should get what I want in all regards because today is about ME'; attitude brides have flatly contradicts the way a person in a caring marriage should behave.
Just my own personal opinion.
If your fiance can't handle ';Because they're my family of friends, and they mean a great deal to me, and it would mean a lot to me to have them there'; as a good enough reason to let those two people come to the wedding, then you two (yes, both of you) have issues, and should work them out before you spend a lot of money walking down the aisle. It costs a lot less to postpone a wedding than it does to pay for a divorce.Wedding ,, Wedding men and women need advice,, disaster?
If he would threaten to not marry you over a couple of guests, you shoundnt marry him. End of story.
(Unless there are things you're not tell us about this friend.)
I didn't have to read very far.... just click on this link... read the page... you'll be intrigued.
http://www.drirene.com/verbal1.htm
God Bless You. I pray that you can remain calm during this very hurtfull and trying time... Amen.
This is something you need to discuss with your fiance, not the Yahoo Answers community. They are your friends and he is going to be your husband. If you're having trouble communicating now, and if he's being as unreasonable as he seems to be, you might want to consider your decision to get married for awhile. I'm being perfectly serious. This is NOT a small thing, and is indicative of things to come.
I'm sorry, that was just too long to read it all, but I think I get the drift of it. Increase the size of the wedding. Have you and him each invite a few friends. Make it fair. If he's pitching this fit because he doesn't have any friends at all, then it sounds like he's trying to stop you from having any friends. That isn't healthy, by the way.
If he can not compromise and respect your freindships and your wishes for something like this, then you should not marry him. The worst is still ahead.
The problem isn't who is invited and who isn't, the problem is that your FH is dictating to you. You should really discuss this with him and tell him how you feel. If this is a pattern, run. Fast. In the opposite direction %26amp; never look back.
I read your question (and the multiple follow-ups twice) and still have no idea what you're really asking?! If it's about who is going to be present at your wedding, you need to speak to your future husband about that. From what I gather, he already made a sacrifice by taking his sister off the guest list. Maybe I'm getting the wrong impression, but I think you're being very selfish. Maybe you haven't noticed yet, but weddings are VERY expensive. If you want your friends to come, work some overtime or find another job in order to pay for the extra guests meals, drinks, place settings etc. It sounds like your fiancee has his hands full. You're not even married yet and you're already complaining about things as trivial him paying the bills online. Think about why you're marrying him... And ask yourself if you were in his shoes, would you willingly tell members of your immediate family to not attend so that his college buddies to come to the wedding? Cut the guy some slack. You've got far from a disaster. You don't push this guy away before you can even say your ';I Do's';. Talk it over. That's what makes a successful marriage last a lifetime. Good luck.
I agree with Cindra. Do not marry this man. He is already threatening to call off the wedding if your friends attend? He's just looking for an excuse not to marry. Let him go, and find someone who cares for you AND your friends.
Are any of his friends invited? If so then it's definitely unfair. If not, a compromise needs to be found. Either he can have a couple close friends at the wedding, or you have to cut a few out. I understand friends being like family, but in the end... they aren't, since most people define family as actual relatives.
Have you already sent out invitations? If so, ';uninviting'; these people would be extremely tacky.
It sounds like you both have some issues to tackle, other than the guest list. The tone of your question suggests that you don't approve of his reclusive nature and lack of social skills. Marrying before you deal with these problems just doesn't sound smart. Get yourselves to counseling, a lot of couples do it and it helps.
thats so unfair! if he really loved you and wanted you to be happy it shouldnt matter who you wanted at your wedding! Its not his wedding its both of yours. You should be able to invite them despite how he feels. It would upset me so much if my man told me I couldnt invite a loved one to my wedding. I think what he said was rude.
I see why you are mad...but what's two people? Trust me...some family wont end up comming for whatever reason...so if it's money he's worried about then it will all work out in the end. tell him that they are as good as family in your eyes as well as your family's eyes and that your family would be upset if your friends arent there. Its just a small thing you are asking for and I dont see why he's making such a big deal about this if it's important to you.
Okay. Seriously? This whole long huge post is because you want to invite two -- two -- friends from grade school and he doesn't want you to invite them? Houston, you have a problem. If you cannot compromise on two guests (I mean, really), then don't marry him. Period. End of story. If these two guests are that important to you and he tells you if they show he has a ';surprise for you'; then he doesn't care about your feelings and you need to get out now. He is trying to control you and has now resorted to threats. Is he ten years old or something?
Walk now, sister. No, don't walk -- run. Your life will be miserable if you go through with it. If he's not willing to compromise, move on.
Why are you marring this guy if he's and outcast and a loner. I think you shouid ask yourself that question. BTW where did you 2 meet? It's not your fault for having friends and he should be a little more reasonable when it comes to real close friends like yours. I really think you should be careful with this guy. Trust me if he's being unreasonable right now, imagine what he's gonna be like once you're married. He'll want to have you under control, no friends, and outcast just like him and he might be those kind of sick jealouse guys. He might not be one now but imagine the possibilities.
I really with you the best and good luck!
LOL. If you two can't figure this little hurdle out together, you're doomed. Can you file for divorce before the wedding?
Grow up and work it out!
I don't think it's a good idea for you to get married. Just based on your very long question, it is obvious that you have some issues with this man's character and personality. He is a loner and you are not. That's going to really be a negative for you. If you can't stand it now, it's going to get even worse after you are married. Secondly, your fiance is already showing major signs of insensitivity and threats and all this over (2) people. This is pretty serious here and you better take a good look at these warning signs! It sounds like you have a very controlling man who wants to call all the shots and doesn't give a hoot what you think. Do you think you'll be happy with this kind of abuse? If so, go ahead and hurt your friends. But, I'd call if off!
Okay sweetie, there is a reason he doesn't have any friends and is isolating himself. He is either phobic about being in crowds or in public, or there is a secret you don't know! He either has an on-line girlfriend or is at porn sites all day, or something! Trust me, I've been in this situation.
Even if that is not the case, he obviously doesn't respect your feelings or have any consideration for you. This will just be the first in a long line of things to come that he will act this way about. You are the one who is right! It doesn't matter who is paying; you should be able to have the ones closest to you there to see your special day. He should want that for you.
He is not your prince if he doesn't act princely!
Get out now before you have to split all the assets!
Well, to be honest, I have my doubts as to whether the two of you will be able to pull off a successful marriage (notice I said nothing about a successful wedding). This whole issue strikes me as petty and if the two of you can't make the decision about who should or should not be at your wedding without throwing some low blows about ';It's not my fault he doesn't have any friends';, then I don't think you have what it takes to spend your life with someone, trying to make decisions that are actually best for you as a family instead of you as an individual. At the moment, the two of you are playing at being grown up instead of actually being grown up about the whole situation.
And I just can't figure out why people (you, apparently, included) feel like ';it's all about what the bride wants'; because you know, it's his wedding day too. I mean, in my opinion, ANY bride who takes that attitude about how their wedding should be, based solely on what they want, is in the wrong, because it's starting out your life together as husband and wife on the wrong foot. I don't think he's right here, but I think the whole ';I should get what I want in all regards because today is about ME'; attitude brides have flatly contradicts the way a person in a caring marriage should behave.
Just my own personal opinion.
If your fiance can't handle ';Because they're my family of friends, and they mean a great deal to me, and it would mean a lot to me to have them there'; as a good enough reason to let those two people come to the wedding, then you two (yes, both of you) have issues, and should work them out before you spend a lot of money walking down the aisle. It costs a lot less to postpone a wedding than it does to pay for a divorce.Wedding ,, Wedding men and women need advice,, disaster?
If he would threaten to not marry you over a couple of guests, you shoundnt marry him. End of story.
(Unless there are things you're not tell us about this friend.)
I didn't have to read very far.... just click on this link... read the page... you'll be intrigued.
http://www.drirene.com/verbal1.htm
God Bless You. I pray that you can remain calm during this very hurtfull and trying time... Amen.
This is something you need to discuss with your fiance, not the Yahoo Answers community. They are your friends and he is going to be your husband. If you're having trouble communicating now, and if he's being as unreasonable as he seems to be, you might want to consider your decision to get married for awhile. I'm being perfectly serious. This is NOT a small thing, and is indicative of things to come.
I'm sorry, that was just too long to read it all, but I think I get the drift of it. Increase the size of the wedding. Have you and him each invite a few friends. Make it fair. If he's pitching this fit because he doesn't have any friends at all, then it sounds like he's trying to stop you from having any friends. That isn't healthy, by the way.
If he can not compromise and respect your freindships and your wishes for something like this, then you should not marry him. The worst is still ahead.
The problem isn't who is invited and who isn't, the problem is that your FH is dictating to you. You should really discuss this with him and tell him how you feel. If this is a pattern, run. Fast. In the opposite direction %26amp; never look back.
I read your question (and the multiple follow-ups twice) and still have no idea what you're really asking?! If it's about who is going to be present at your wedding, you need to speak to your future husband about that. From what I gather, he already made a sacrifice by taking his sister off the guest list. Maybe I'm getting the wrong impression, but I think you're being very selfish. Maybe you haven't noticed yet, but weddings are VERY expensive. If you want your friends to come, work some overtime or find another job in order to pay for the extra guests meals, drinks, place settings etc. It sounds like your fiancee has his hands full. You're not even married yet and you're already complaining about things as trivial him paying the bills online. Think about why you're marrying him... And ask yourself if you were in his shoes, would you willingly tell members of your immediate family to not attend so that his college buddies to come to the wedding? Cut the guy some slack. You've got far from a disaster. You don't push this guy away before you can even say your ';I Do's';. Talk it over. That's what makes a successful marriage last a lifetime. Good luck.
I agree with Cindra. Do not marry this man. He is already threatening to call off the wedding if your friends attend? He's just looking for an excuse not to marry. Let him go, and find someone who cares for you AND your friends.
Are any of his friends invited? If so then it's definitely unfair. If not, a compromise needs to be found. Either he can have a couple close friends at the wedding, or you have to cut a few out. I understand friends being like family, but in the end... they aren't, since most people define family as actual relatives.
Have you already sent out invitations? If so, ';uninviting'; these people would be extremely tacky.
It sounds like you both have some issues to tackle, other than the guest list. The tone of your question suggests that you don't approve of his reclusive nature and lack of social skills. Marrying before you deal with these problems just doesn't sound smart. Get yourselves to counseling, a lot of couples do it and it helps.
thats so unfair! if he really loved you and wanted you to be happy it shouldnt matter who you wanted at your wedding! Its not his wedding its both of yours. You should be able to invite them despite how he feels. It would upset me so much if my man told me I couldnt invite a loved one to my wedding. I think what he said was rude.
I see why you are mad...but what's two people? Trust me...some family wont end up comming for whatever reason...so if it's money he's worried about then it will all work out in the end. tell him that they are as good as family in your eyes as well as your family's eyes and that your family would be upset if your friends arent there. Its just a small thing you are asking for and I dont see why he's making such a big deal about this if it's important to you.
Okay. Seriously? This whole long huge post is because you want to invite two -- two -- friends from grade school and he doesn't want you to invite them? Houston, you have a problem. If you cannot compromise on two guests (I mean, really), then don't marry him. Period. End of story. If these two guests are that important to you and he tells you if they show he has a ';surprise for you'; then he doesn't care about your feelings and you need to get out now. He is trying to control you and has now resorted to threats. Is he ten years old or something?
Walk now, sister. No, don't walk -- run. Your life will be miserable if you go through with it. If he's not willing to compromise, move on.
Why are you marring this guy if he's and outcast and a loner. I think you shouid ask yourself that question. BTW where did you 2 meet? It's not your fault for having friends and he should be a little more reasonable when it comes to real close friends like yours. I really think you should be careful with this guy. Trust me if he's being unreasonable right now, imagine what he's gonna be like once you're married. He'll want to have you under control, no friends, and outcast just like him and he might be those kind of sick jealouse guys. He might not be one now but imagine the possibilities.
I really with you the best and good luck!
LOL. If you two can't figure this little hurdle out together, you're doomed. Can you file for divorce before the wedding?
Grow up and work it out!
I don't think it's a good idea for you to get married. Just based on your very long question, it is obvious that you have some issues with this man's character and personality. He is a loner and you are not. That's going to really be a negative for you. If you can't stand it now, it's going to get even worse after you are married. Secondly, your fiance is already showing major signs of insensitivity and threats and all this over (2) people. This is pretty serious here and you better take a good look at these warning signs! It sounds like you have a very controlling man who wants to call all the shots and doesn't give a hoot what you think. Do you think you'll be happy with this kind of abuse? If so, go ahead and hurt your friends. But, I'd call if off!
Okay sweetie, there is a reason he doesn't have any friends and is isolating himself. He is either phobic about being in crowds or in public, or there is a secret you don't know! He either has an on-line girlfriend or is at porn sites all day, or something! Trust me, I've been in this situation.
Even if that is not the case, he obviously doesn't respect your feelings or have any consideration for you. This will just be the first in a long line of things to come that he will act this way about. You are the one who is right! It doesn't matter who is paying; you should be able to have the ones closest to you there to see your special day. He should want that for you.
He is not your prince if he doesn't act princely!
Get out now before you have to split all the assets!
I need advice from men(hairy ones) and women????
ok i'm 19 and i've started getting more hair lately.. i get a 5 o'clock shadow and i noticed a little hair on my chest... i wanted to know what men who were hairy in their teens did.. did you wax your chests?? did your girlfriends make you wax?? should i wax or just let it be???I need advice from men(hairy ones) and women????
Every girl is different. Some like tons of hair, some like nothing, some really don't care either way. Me... I don't care about hair on the chest, head, stubble on the face, or arm or leg hair. Really doesn't matter. The only thing I'd ever ask a partner to wax would be his back if there was lots of hair there. Hey, us girls have to wax so many more places, so I don't think a man's back is too much to ask. :-)I need advice from men(hairy ones) and women????
Chest hair is fine, back and shoulder hair, not good. A lot of women love hair on the chest and like to ';play'; with it. Its nice trust me, but other women really hate it. I use to shave my chest when i played b-ball and hated it but now its great having hair again and my woman loves it. If you start to get hair on your back and shoulders just shave it, they make special shavers for it. Its like women w/hair on their legs, u dont have to shave it everyday but at least once a week. Women like hair, its ok.
Let it be until you get a complaint. Most ladies seem to like a little hair on their guy. As long as you don't resemble BigFoot, don't worry about it.
Would you believe that once upon a time, it was pretty easy to find chest hair pieces in some men's stores? I don't know about now. Haven't looked lately.
trim it
Every girl is different. Some like tons of hair, some like nothing, some really don't care either way. Me... I don't care about hair on the chest, head, stubble on the face, or arm or leg hair. Really doesn't matter. The only thing I'd ever ask a partner to wax would be his back if there was lots of hair there. Hey, us girls have to wax so many more places, so I don't think a man's back is too much to ask. :-)I need advice from men(hairy ones) and women????
Chest hair is fine, back and shoulder hair, not good. A lot of women love hair on the chest and like to ';play'; with it. Its nice trust me, but other women really hate it. I use to shave my chest when i played b-ball and hated it but now its great having hair again and my woman loves it. If you start to get hair on your back and shoulders just shave it, they make special shavers for it. Its like women w/hair on their legs, u dont have to shave it everyday but at least once a week. Women like hair, its ok.
Let it be until you get a complaint. Most ladies seem to like a little hair on their guy. As long as you don't resemble BigFoot, don't worry about it.
Would you believe that once upon a time, it was pretty easy to find chest hair pieces in some men's stores? I don't know about now. Haven't looked lately.
trim it
What advice do you have for men that wear panties and thongs?
keep it to yourself. You tell people here on answers and you'll just get ripped.What advice do you have for men that wear panties and thongs?
panties your jay thongs well helllo johnny noxvill john tucker me you just beter be a good party boy and have a package that is a good size but if u dont wear thongs for stripping, naked fun runs, or doing party boy u have a prolbemWhat advice do you have for men that wear panties and thongs?
freak !!
I do not have any advice. This is a pretty weird question. The only advice I have is stop wearing them. They are not for you and not made for you.
whatever makes you happy. That person would be the one that has to live with it. Personally, I would say wear the thongs. That way they can avoid the ridicule given to men who have pantie lines. Good Luck.
Let the women in your life be the judges. If you look great in them, go for it!!
stop
Obviously that makes you happy so don't try to stop. Get paid to do it.
stop
DON'T
unless you're a professional dancer.......don't.
That he needs to wear regular underwear like every other man in this world He might want to be a woman and you never know
Get them at Victoria's Secret; they are so sexy!
Don't wear the cheap ones...
Buy some boxers or boxer briefs.
Get some help
If that's what floats your boat, go ahead. You might want to find a wife who isn't bothered by it. You don't want to hide what's important to you from your life partner.
Stop
that they shouldn't wear them!!!!!! gross!!!!!!! yuck!!!!! now i have a visual! yuck!!!!!
uhh... don't.
to stop
Hi. I can't think of too much advice. As a girl, I have worn both. I think you will find the panties more comfortable for everyday wear, but the thongs are great when you just want to feel sexy. In the cold months, put some tights over them to keep you snuggly warm. I bet you would look cute in them. Have fun. Bye!
Get a sex change, and never go to jail.
If it makes you happy and you feel comfortable wearing them then wear them!
panties hell no
but men thongs should be labeled men stripper garment,lol
Walk slowly, and say nowt.
If it feels good and you are not hurting any one, who cares what your wear. No one has the right to tell you to stop just because they don't agree with it. I say go for it.
panties your jay thongs well helllo johnny noxvill john tucker me you just beter be a good party boy and have a package that is a good size but if u dont wear thongs for stripping, naked fun runs, or doing party boy u have a prolbemWhat advice do you have for men that wear panties and thongs?
freak !!
I do not have any advice. This is a pretty weird question. The only advice I have is stop wearing them. They are not for you and not made for you.
whatever makes you happy. That person would be the one that has to live with it. Personally, I would say wear the thongs. That way they can avoid the ridicule given to men who have pantie lines. Good Luck.
Let the women in your life be the judges. If you look great in them, go for it!!
stop
Obviously that makes you happy so don't try to stop. Get paid to do it.
stop
DON'T
unless you're a professional dancer.......don't.
That he needs to wear regular underwear like every other man in this world He might want to be a woman and you never know
Get them at Victoria's Secret; they are so sexy!
Don't wear the cheap ones...
Buy some boxers or boxer briefs.
Get some help
If that's what floats your boat, go ahead. You might want to find a wife who isn't bothered by it. You don't want to hide what's important to you from your life partner.
Stop
that they shouldn't wear them!!!!!! gross!!!!!!! yuck!!!!! now i have a visual! yuck!!!!!
uhh... don't.
to stop
Hi. I can't think of too much advice. As a girl, I have worn both. I think you will find the panties more comfortable for everyday wear, but the thongs are great when you just want to feel sexy. In the cold months, put some tights over them to keep you snuggly warm. I bet you would look cute in them. Have fun. Bye!
Get a sex change, and never go to jail.
If it makes you happy and you feel comfortable wearing them then wear them!
panties hell no
but men thongs should be labeled men stripper garment,lol
Walk slowly, and say nowt.
If it feels good and you are not hurting any one, who cares what your wear. No one has the right to tell you to stop just because they don't agree with it. I say go for it.
Advice from men 24 and older?
If a man does not kiss you on the first date, is that a bad sign? I could really use some insight on ending a date!Advice from men 24 and older?
oooh! good question!Advice from men 24 and older?
Maybe he is gay and just wants to be friends so he can borrow your shoes.
No. Why would it? I never kiss on the first date anyway (too awkward).
he just might be intimidated
Could be he is just like me, i was raised old fashioned so a first date kiss is not a thing to take, only accept.
Learn to read the mans body language, if he's smiling and into you, then lean in for him to kiss you, some men are being respectful, and some women don't want tobe kissed on the first date.
If a man does not talk about seeing you again, you should have felt that their was no chemistry between you at sometime during the date.
OK here is the truth.....he goes out to get into your panties.....women have taught men to lie because if you tell the truth you dint get any......so on a date do you want to seem too forward or it becomes obvious that what you want is sex, secondly have you leaned in to gone into his personal space have you given the idea that you want to be kissed. I have been on dates where i thought that didn't go well, and that she would not want to be kissed, then she calls back so it apparently didn't go to wrong.
in the end there is no way to know what it means try giving him a cal, back and inviting him to the movies or a picnic
You dont need him to talk about it try the movies dinner
Him not kissing you isn't neccessarily a bad thing, he might just be nervous and the not talking about the next date either is probably because he is so nervous and has so many things going through his head. Just relax and if you want to kiss him that bad, go up to him! Good luck!
nop!...He might just be a little nervous. Go out with him a couple of times...that will relax him.
nope, it just means that he respects you and doesn't think of you as a piece of meat
oooh! good question!Advice from men 24 and older?
Maybe he is gay and just wants to be friends so he can borrow your shoes.
No. Why would it? I never kiss on the first date anyway (too awkward).
he just might be intimidated
Could be he is just like me, i was raised old fashioned so a first date kiss is not a thing to take, only accept.
Learn to read the mans body language, if he's smiling and into you, then lean in for him to kiss you, some men are being respectful, and some women don't want tobe kissed on the first date.
If a man does not talk about seeing you again, you should have felt that their was no chemistry between you at sometime during the date.
OK here is the truth.....he goes out to get into your panties.....women have taught men to lie because if you tell the truth you dint get any......so on a date do you want to seem too forward or it becomes obvious that what you want is sex, secondly have you leaned in to gone into his personal space have you given the idea that you want to be kissed. I have been on dates where i thought that didn't go well, and that she would not want to be kissed, then she calls back so it apparently didn't go to wrong.
in the end there is no way to know what it means try giving him a cal, back and inviting him to the movies or a picnic
You dont need him to talk about it try the movies dinner
Him not kissing you isn't neccessarily a bad thing, he might just be nervous and the not talking about the next date either is probably because he is so nervous and has so many things going through his head. Just relax and if you want to kiss him that bad, go up to him! Good luck!
nop!...He might just be a little nervous. Go out with him a couple of times...that will relax him.
nope, it just means that he respects you and doesn't think of you as a piece of meat
There are many married men who think marriage is hell (many give the advice: if you wanna be happy,don't marry?
is it because they married the girl they didn't love and just one to settle down??There are many married men who think marriage is hell (many give the advice: if you wanna be happy,don't marry?
Many MEN choose to marry because THEY love the girl. Many girls are willing to marry a man who works hard at loving THEM.
The result is many marriages where the Man loves the Woman way, way more then she loves him. The men quickly learn this is truly HELL. A woman who does not love you is typically emotionally abusive through ACTION and INACTION. The action is constantly being critical which makes you think you suck. The INACTION is denying you sex - which makes you feel unloved.
My wife and I got off to a bit of a rough start. We fixed it though. She taught me to be more lovable, I taught her to be less bitc*y. Part of that was I told her I would leave her if she really felt she deserved someone better.
A lot of these men get confused and think that by being more ';helpful'; around the house their wives will love them more. LOL. Yes your wife is greatful if you are a helpful guy. And yes she will be resentful if you don't do your fair share. But NO AMOUNT of being a SUPER MAID is going to make a wife love you.There are many married men who think marriage is hell (many give the advice: if you wanna be happy,don't marry?
A famous author ( Bradshaw ) once said ';Show me a single man, then I'll show you a happy man';. Men and women are human beings. As with all human beings, we change over the years, having our own characteristics that come with it over time as well. Marriage is work in not only accepting and adjusting with these changes, but also the pressures of every day living ( work, kids, mortgage, etc.)
That may be some of the men who have been divorced 3x and remarried again. In that case, he needs to look for his answers in a mirror. There are some men and women who cannot grasp the compromise and communication in their marriages and only care to do childish and selfish things that exclude their spouses. If a married man is giving you that advice, ask him to explain why he feels that way. Not all men do.
hear this from a married woman, it is that we married the wrong person... I believe you can make a marriage work but you have to not break the golden rules.... never ever deny sex.... never ever forget to say you love them in the morning and before you fall asleep and just because during the day they pop in your head at work, even though they never left your mind... send them sexy notes so that when you walk though the door they want to rip your clothes off.... lol...marriage is not all about sex but it keep the marriage alive and well... but it is also about respect...love and honor each other every single day and night and ever single second of the day.... and if she can't do that or you can't then I would not even bother getting married!! because it will end up with two lonely people who can't stand the site of each other!!! and never cheat on her if she is at home trying to make your life the best ever...cause one day you might wake up and find her not next to you.... or you will wake up and find her not loving you....loving someone else, and it will not be her fault~
not only men feel this way. I'm a woman and I feel this way. But I do tell folks that MY experience was bad, n also, I've heard n seen many like mine, so that's y I'm speaking. But most just seem to hear marriage is bad, so stay single. The appropriate q is this, y did u marry? They were single once, n then they married, n yrs later after the love wore off, n the kids came, they're not happy anymore. They've known others in their shoes prior to marriage...so y'd they take the plunge against advice? Life is different for everyone, this is y it PAYS to KNOW urself, n stand ur ground. Because many will try to tell u what they want for u. But in reality, it's what they THINK would be best for u, based on what THEY know, or what THEY wished they had done. So the saying hold's true, to thine own self be true.
I';ve seen ppl tell me to get re-married. Y? They're marriage is wonderful. They found mr. perfect for them, n they think my ex was just a crater in the bumpy road of life. They want me to pull myself out. Others who've been where I'm at, tell me to stay single, for I'll be happy. See, u only give advice based on what u see, hear, n know...based on ur experience n observation. It's not always that misery loves company, it might be that they dont want to see u make the same mistake they did, but they dont KNOW how it will turn out for u...n that's what they're forgetting. Most things in life are shades of color, not black n white like ppl would like to bellieve.
Marriages today are much worse off, because of several things.
1. Society has lessened the worth and value placed on marriage. Basically, morals have been destroyed as have the natural roles of men and women. People do not care about anything but what they want, how they see things and so forth. If they cannot have their own way, they would rather leave, instead of facing the fact that maybe they are wrong or not working to make things good.
2. Women have been sold a bill of goods and men are paying the bill. Women have a warped view of what a man is suppose to be, what her role in marriage is, etc. For the most part, if the woman is not happy your life is going to be hell, even if her unhappiness is her own doing or of her own making. Many women are far to unrealistic and they demand that you fulfill what their idea of marriage is, no matter how unrealistic it may be.
3. I will advise that you visit a site. www.nomarriage.com. I suggest this not to be mean, not because I have a vested interest in the site or anything like that. I say it because there is a lot of information there that you would be wise to see and consider before you ever contemplate getting married. The information on that site may help you understand why many men feel as they do. I give you one example of information on the site. You may laugh. Go ahead. Below is exactly how many men find their lives being torn up and for the most part, there is little they can do about it. Guys are just getting fed up and they are trying to tell you how things can be in order to help you in the future.
Example:
Are you a loser?
Let's translate ';loser'; from women-speak into English.
';Loser'; in woman-speak simply means a man who is smart enough to do things that are in HIS best interest.
* You don't spend your hard-earned money on women - you are a loser
* You expect regular sex - you are a loser
* You are not interested in marriage - you are a loser
* You don't want to be stuck with kids - you are a loser
* You don't want to slave away 60 hours a week so a woman can buy a new SUV every year - you are a loser
* You prefer South American women who treat you better - you are a HUUGE LOOOSER
The alternative to ';loser'; is a pussyfied man, or simply a p ussy. A puss yfied man does what a woman wants - he is a docile schmuck who slaves away at work and pays her bills, lets her do what she wants, does not tell her when she is wrong and does not pesters her for sex. Another words, he is an ideal husband.
';you wanna be happy...?';
OK, plan it.
Got thousands of years of human living to pick from. Got thousands, millions of great books to get the best from. Have psychiatrists, hookers, and ministers to talk to so you get the best things for you.
So why has everybody else in the history of men ignored all that?
';you wanna be happy...?';
We pick.
We see. We think. We pick.
You think we're pickin' because of happy? No.
Something else goes on. Look at your own Mom and Dad. No, really. Look hard. You really think happy put them together? You lived there. You know better.
We be more than happy. It's a lousy analogy...but remember in The Matrix when the computer said they tried making the ditigal world a paradise and people died because they couldn't handle it. Read Twain's confusion at living for a little while in Hawaii, in a paradise he couldn't understand or absorb.
Something else goes on. Marriage is about much more than happy. Logical people wouldn't start something so serious with a 50% sadness rate. Even higher for second marriages.
Married people are doing more than happy. They're having real life. A real relationship means you can't pretend you don't suck or that they don't. You have to be better or you are done. Period.
Is getting to better hell? Sometimes, yeah. For sure. But then you're both better. Kinda makes up for being sucky. Not completely, but mostly. It's not some kinda paradise. We got kicked outta that for being sucky. But it's OK, even pretty good a lotta times.
yea it takes to make a marriage work. A lot of patience and love for the other person. Communication is the key , understanding each others needs and wants. I can say my marriage is a roller coaster but i would not change it for anyone else. Running is not an option for me. Those vows is what keeps my marriage going. Also i try not to just think of self i work on the self and try a different approach this way we understand each other.
You cannot let another person or gender mold and shape your ideals on marriage. Most are not happy because they chose not to be. Marriage is hard work and no one really wants to work anymore. If they were so unhappy they would not still be married. The heart wants what it wants period.
Men can only speak for themselves, and not generalize for all of us. If the ones that say this are correct, then who do they have to blame for living in hell?
After we end our lives, then God will decide if we go to Heaven or Hell. Seems rather stupid to me that someone on Earth would choose to live in hell.
My advice...only listen to the advice you want to hear.
Here's the truth: Marriage and being with the same person gets very old...very quick....no matter how hot that broad is.
And guess what...most women get the frump on after squezzing out a few kids.....would you be looking foward to bumping uglies with a frumpinator? I think not.
Thus, dude needs side action and marriage sucks.
Any marriage can be hell depending on how you treat it and cherish it. Those who ';live'; in their hell are those who never put the work into it to make it something good. You live in what you build.
Marriage is a piece of cake when you KNOW HOW to make it work!
http://www.google.com/search?client=oper鈥?/a>
It takes two to make a marriage work, so if someone is complaining, it's probably the one who isn't putting anything into his marriage?
They didn't go into the marriage knowing what it's like or what's needed. Overall some people are just unhappy. Marriage did wonders for me. I've never been happier.
They're usually in sucky marriages, which is why they tell others to not get married.
cause they marry to young and people change as they mature.social networking
Many MEN choose to marry because THEY love the girl. Many girls are willing to marry a man who works hard at loving THEM.
The result is many marriages where the Man loves the Woman way, way more then she loves him. The men quickly learn this is truly HELL. A woman who does not love you is typically emotionally abusive through ACTION and INACTION. The action is constantly being critical which makes you think you suck. The INACTION is denying you sex - which makes you feel unloved.
My wife and I got off to a bit of a rough start. We fixed it though. She taught me to be more lovable, I taught her to be less bitc*y. Part of that was I told her I would leave her if she really felt she deserved someone better.
A lot of these men get confused and think that by being more ';helpful'; around the house their wives will love them more. LOL. Yes your wife is greatful if you are a helpful guy. And yes she will be resentful if you don't do your fair share. But NO AMOUNT of being a SUPER MAID is going to make a wife love you.There are many married men who think marriage is hell (many give the advice: if you wanna be happy,don't marry?
A famous author ( Bradshaw ) once said ';Show me a single man, then I'll show you a happy man';. Men and women are human beings. As with all human beings, we change over the years, having our own characteristics that come with it over time as well. Marriage is work in not only accepting and adjusting with these changes, but also the pressures of every day living ( work, kids, mortgage, etc.)
That may be some of the men who have been divorced 3x and remarried again. In that case, he needs to look for his answers in a mirror. There are some men and women who cannot grasp the compromise and communication in their marriages and only care to do childish and selfish things that exclude their spouses. If a married man is giving you that advice, ask him to explain why he feels that way. Not all men do.
hear this from a married woman, it is that we married the wrong person... I believe you can make a marriage work but you have to not break the golden rules.... never ever deny sex.... never ever forget to say you love them in the morning and before you fall asleep and just because during the day they pop in your head at work, even though they never left your mind... send them sexy notes so that when you walk though the door they want to rip your clothes off.... lol...marriage is not all about sex but it keep the marriage alive and well... but it is also about respect...love and honor each other every single day and night and ever single second of the day.... and if she can't do that or you can't then I would not even bother getting married!! because it will end up with two lonely people who can't stand the site of each other!!! and never cheat on her if she is at home trying to make your life the best ever...cause one day you might wake up and find her not next to you.... or you will wake up and find her not loving you....loving someone else, and it will not be her fault~
not only men feel this way. I'm a woman and I feel this way. But I do tell folks that MY experience was bad, n also, I've heard n seen many like mine, so that's y I'm speaking. But most just seem to hear marriage is bad, so stay single. The appropriate q is this, y did u marry? They were single once, n then they married, n yrs later after the love wore off, n the kids came, they're not happy anymore. They've known others in their shoes prior to marriage...so y'd they take the plunge against advice? Life is different for everyone, this is y it PAYS to KNOW urself, n stand ur ground. Because many will try to tell u what they want for u. But in reality, it's what they THINK would be best for u, based on what THEY know, or what THEY wished they had done. So the saying hold's true, to thine own self be true.
I';ve seen ppl tell me to get re-married. Y? They're marriage is wonderful. They found mr. perfect for them, n they think my ex was just a crater in the bumpy road of life. They want me to pull myself out. Others who've been where I'm at, tell me to stay single, for I'll be happy. See, u only give advice based on what u see, hear, n know...based on ur experience n observation. It's not always that misery loves company, it might be that they dont want to see u make the same mistake they did, but they dont KNOW how it will turn out for u...n that's what they're forgetting. Most things in life are shades of color, not black n white like ppl would like to bellieve.
Marriages today are much worse off, because of several things.
1. Society has lessened the worth and value placed on marriage. Basically, morals have been destroyed as have the natural roles of men and women. People do not care about anything but what they want, how they see things and so forth. If they cannot have their own way, they would rather leave, instead of facing the fact that maybe they are wrong or not working to make things good.
2. Women have been sold a bill of goods and men are paying the bill. Women have a warped view of what a man is suppose to be, what her role in marriage is, etc. For the most part, if the woman is not happy your life is going to be hell, even if her unhappiness is her own doing or of her own making. Many women are far to unrealistic and they demand that you fulfill what their idea of marriage is, no matter how unrealistic it may be.
3. I will advise that you visit a site. www.nomarriage.com. I suggest this not to be mean, not because I have a vested interest in the site or anything like that. I say it because there is a lot of information there that you would be wise to see and consider before you ever contemplate getting married. The information on that site may help you understand why many men feel as they do. I give you one example of information on the site. You may laugh. Go ahead. Below is exactly how many men find their lives being torn up and for the most part, there is little they can do about it. Guys are just getting fed up and they are trying to tell you how things can be in order to help you in the future.
Example:
Are you a loser?
Let's translate ';loser'; from women-speak into English.
';Loser'; in woman-speak simply means a man who is smart enough to do things that are in HIS best interest.
* You don't spend your hard-earned money on women - you are a loser
* You expect regular sex - you are a loser
* You are not interested in marriage - you are a loser
* You don't want to be stuck with kids - you are a loser
* You don't want to slave away 60 hours a week so a woman can buy a new SUV every year - you are a loser
* You prefer South American women who treat you better - you are a HUUGE LOOOSER
The alternative to ';loser'; is a pussyfied man, or simply a p ussy. A puss yfied man does what a woman wants - he is a docile schmuck who slaves away at work and pays her bills, lets her do what she wants, does not tell her when she is wrong and does not pesters her for sex. Another words, he is an ideal husband.
';you wanna be happy...?';
OK, plan it.
Got thousands of years of human living to pick from. Got thousands, millions of great books to get the best from. Have psychiatrists, hookers, and ministers to talk to so you get the best things for you.
So why has everybody else in the history of men ignored all that?
';you wanna be happy...?';
We pick.
We see. We think. We pick.
You think we're pickin' because of happy? No.
Something else goes on. Look at your own Mom and Dad. No, really. Look hard. You really think happy put them together? You lived there. You know better.
We be more than happy. It's a lousy analogy...but remember in The Matrix when the computer said they tried making the ditigal world a paradise and people died because they couldn't handle it. Read Twain's confusion at living for a little while in Hawaii, in a paradise he couldn't understand or absorb.
Something else goes on. Marriage is about much more than happy. Logical people wouldn't start something so serious with a 50% sadness rate. Even higher for second marriages.
Married people are doing more than happy. They're having real life. A real relationship means you can't pretend you don't suck or that they don't. You have to be better or you are done. Period.
Is getting to better hell? Sometimes, yeah. For sure. But then you're both better. Kinda makes up for being sucky. Not completely, but mostly. It's not some kinda paradise. We got kicked outta that for being sucky. But it's OK, even pretty good a lotta times.
yea it takes to make a marriage work. A lot of patience and love for the other person. Communication is the key , understanding each others needs and wants. I can say my marriage is a roller coaster but i would not change it for anyone else. Running is not an option for me. Those vows is what keeps my marriage going. Also i try not to just think of self i work on the self and try a different approach this way we understand each other.
You cannot let another person or gender mold and shape your ideals on marriage. Most are not happy because they chose not to be. Marriage is hard work and no one really wants to work anymore. If they were so unhappy they would not still be married. The heart wants what it wants period.
Men can only speak for themselves, and not generalize for all of us. If the ones that say this are correct, then who do they have to blame for living in hell?
After we end our lives, then God will decide if we go to Heaven or Hell. Seems rather stupid to me that someone on Earth would choose to live in hell.
My advice...only listen to the advice you want to hear.
Here's the truth: Marriage and being with the same person gets very old...very quick....no matter how hot that broad is.
And guess what...most women get the frump on after squezzing out a few kids.....would you be looking foward to bumping uglies with a frumpinator? I think not.
Thus, dude needs side action and marriage sucks.
Any marriage can be hell depending on how you treat it and cherish it. Those who ';live'; in their hell are those who never put the work into it to make it something good. You live in what you build.
Marriage is a piece of cake when you KNOW HOW to make it work!
http://www.google.com/search?client=oper鈥?/a>
It takes two to make a marriage work, so if someone is complaining, it's probably the one who isn't putting anything into his marriage?
They didn't go into the marriage knowing what it's like or what's needed. Overall some people are just unhappy. Marriage did wonders for me. I've never been happier.
They're usually in sucky marriages, which is why they tell others to not get married.
cause they marry to young and people change as they mature.
STI advice for gay men?
I've got an itchy sore spot on my penis, I had sex with a rent boy last week, help i'm worried!STI advice for gay men?
Go to your local GUM clinic and get checked out!
Even if it goes away a disease can lay dormant (especially in men).
Next time- use a condom, many times you can get them free from your local gay bar or men's sexual health organisation (I've even seen them stuck to trees in cruising areas!).
So you have no excuse!STI advice for gay men?
say good bye to your penis
if you didnt use a condom shame on you but any way go to the clinic and get checked from the symptoms you might have gonorrhea,herpes or scabies
if you did use a condom good for you for being smart you should still get it checked just in case but it could be a simple allergic reaction to the latex or a lube you used.
I may well get a violation but I dont care.
HaHa,serves you right, you are so gross!
Knowing that stds and HIV/AIDS is very prevalent in the gay community safe sex should be a must. Why are you on here asking us? Go to a clinic and get tested.
so u should be. Get yourself looked at......Dont be embaressed to get your julies out for Dr- better safe than................
Go and see your doctor or s.t.d. clinic. please, for your sake and your partners, use a condom.
Its probably some poo
Only one possible answer, you must go to a clinic and get a full screen. Without making a moral judgement this hardly sounds like safe sex medically. In future you know you should always use a suitable condom.
just stop having sex with men mr nasty
Since you are calling them STI I'm thinking you are quite smart? Well I suggest you go get a checkup or exam to see if you are infected. It's always the best to use condoms when having sex with anyone and I hope you did.
If you used a comdom you should be fine. And remember..... its better to give than to receive.
stop having unprotected sex can believe people still doing this
Go to your local GUM clinic and get checked out!
Even if it goes away a disease can lay dormant (especially in men).
Next time- use a condom, many times you can get them free from your local gay bar or men's sexual health organisation (I've even seen them stuck to trees in cruising areas!).
So you have no excuse!STI advice for gay men?
say good bye to your penis
if you didnt use a condom shame on you but any way go to the clinic and get checked from the symptoms you might have gonorrhea,herpes or scabies
if you did use a condom good for you for being smart you should still get it checked just in case but it could be a simple allergic reaction to the latex or a lube you used.
I may well get a violation but I dont care.
HaHa,serves you right, you are so gross!
Knowing that stds and HIV/AIDS is very prevalent in the gay community safe sex should be a must. Why are you on here asking us? Go to a clinic and get tested.
so u should be. Get yourself looked at......Dont be embaressed to get your julies out for Dr- better safe than................
Go and see your doctor or s.t.d. clinic. please, for your sake and your partners, use a condom.
Its probably some poo
Only one possible answer, you must go to a clinic and get a full screen. Without making a moral judgement this hardly sounds like safe sex medically. In future you know you should always use a suitable condom.
just stop having sex with men mr nasty
Since you are calling them STI I'm thinking you are quite smart? Well I suggest you go get a checkup or exam to see if you are infected. It's always the best to use condoms when having sex with anyone and I hope you did.
If you used a comdom you should be fine. And remember..... its better to give than to receive.
stop having unprotected sex can believe people still doing this
Need some men and women advice?
i have liked someone for quite some time now, and i thought i was liked back...but just found out that he is going out with a close friend of mine.... before this my friend (the one that is dating the guy) was always encouraging me to make a move or give him a hint that i liked his as she keps saying she is not interestied in him so i was free to do what i wanted... yesterday i found out that they r planning their engagement party... i am not hurt but very anoyed... what shall i do with the friendship i have with them?Need some men and women advice?
i guess u just get on with your life
be happy for them
love makes u blind so maybe they didnt know what they were doing specially when she was encouraging u to make a move
forgive and forget :)Need some men and women advice?
How close did you actually think this friend of yours was? Keep your friends close and enemies closer is what this ';friend'; of yours was thinking. Dump both of them as friends immediately!
If you can, let it go. Maybe your friend didn't like the guy at the time she told you so. Maybe it's something that just happened and was not done to hurt you. If she is a good friend, than just be happy for them and move on. If you never actually dated the guy, it doesn't seem worth ruining the friendship over. You will probably just come across as being jealous of their happiness. He obviously wasn't the right guy for you, anyway. Someday, when you find your soul mate, you will be glad it wasn't.
love is a strange thing and ppl can not help if they fall in love. mind she sould have told you! but do not break up about it
it is obvious that he has made his choice. if he really liked you he would have went out with you and not with your friend, and he also wouldnt have waited for you to make the first move as im sure your friend didnt make the first move to be with him. if anyone is at fault her it is your friend. first of all she wasnt honest with her feelings. she is a hypocrit because she said she didnt like him and now they are planning their engagement party. now how does that make sense. but you shouldnt have any hard feeling towards anyone. let them go on with their lives, just reconsider your friendship.
First of all,the cow was setting you up to get your feelings torn down.She is not what I would call afriend.Some girls do that.they are going with guys secretly but they encourage others to seek him.It makes them feel sexier when the guy turns the other girl down.But in some cases,they do that to see if the guy would actually try and cheat.I even found girls that liked the idea of the friends sleeping with a guy and not knowing that she is sharing him with her.thats nasty to have your friend discuss sex with the guy when you are already sneeking with him,
wow!
dont be there friends anymore...
you have every right to be annoyed. She lied to your face then stomped on it. She had no right to encourge you to make a move if she was planning a marrige with. And if you want to be hurt you've got the right.
She doesn't sound like a very good friend to me. i would only be friends with them, not best friends. Or even not friends at all.
what a stinker. distance yourself from both of them
Two choices .. hold your head up and get her a great gift from her bridal registry ( people don't always expect to fall in love ), or avoid them both.
So she was trying to make you jellous. Kind of rude and crock way to do it even.
I would forget them and move on. Life is complicated enaugh without that kind of ';friends';.
huh !! ur friend's a lunatic she hates u.
Forget about friendship it does not sound like you had one! Thats so out of order.Your better off with out them!!
be super cool and sweet special the kind person you are and wish them the best hope they will be truly happy
make your own moves don't trust so much no one but your pillow
theres plenty of fish on the sea
forget it. It seems to me that your ';friend'; was leading you up the garden path, and in all probability laughing at you behind your back with her fiancee!
Who needs enemies when you have friends like her? Trust me move on, chalk it down to experience and organise a wicked night out for yourself on the night of their engagement party. Chances are you'll meet a nice guy and in no time you'll be planning you own engagement party!
just make them miserable, by having your head up high
I would be hurt. Are they close friends? That would make it worse. But just wondering how they are planning an engagement and you are just finding out about it now. It sounds like you aren't in the loop and maybe you should just give them both space for your own wellbeing. Find some new friends to hang with for a while and maybe a new love interest.
i guess u just get on with your life
be happy for them
love makes u blind so maybe they didnt know what they were doing specially when she was encouraging u to make a move
forgive and forget :)Need some men and women advice?
How close did you actually think this friend of yours was? Keep your friends close and enemies closer is what this ';friend'; of yours was thinking. Dump both of them as friends immediately!
If you can, let it go. Maybe your friend didn't like the guy at the time she told you so. Maybe it's something that just happened and was not done to hurt you. If she is a good friend, than just be happy for them and move on. If you never actually dated the guy, it doesn't seem worth ruining the friendship over. You will probably just come across as being jealous of their happiness. He obviously wasn't the right guy for you, anyway. Someday, when you find your soul mate, you will be glad it wasn't.
love is a strange thing and ppl can not help if they fall in love. mind she sould have told you! but do not break up about it
it is obvious that he has made his choice. if he really liked you he would have went out with you and not with your friend, and he also wouldnt have waited for you to make the first move as im sure your friend didnt make the first move to be with him. if anyone is at fault her it is your friend. first of all she wasnt honest with her feelings. she is a hypocrit because she said she didnt like him and now they are planning their engagement party. now how does that make sense. but you shouldnt have any hard feeling towards anyone. let them go on with their lives, just reconsider your friendship.
First of all,the cow was setting you up to get your feelings torn down.She is not what I would call afriend.Some girls do that.they are going with guys secretly but they encourage others to seek him.It makes them feel sexier when the guy turns the other girl down.But in some cases,they do that to see if the guy would actually try and cheat.I even found girls that liked the idea of the friends sleeping with a guy and not knowing that she is sharing him with her.thats nasty to have your friend discuss sex with the guy when you are already sneeking with him,
wow!
dont be there friends anymore...
you have every right to be annoyed. She lied to your face then stomped on it. She had no right to encourge you to make a move if she was planning a marrige with. And if you want to be hurt you've got the right.
She doesn't sound like a very good friend to me. i would only be friends with them, not best friends. Or even not friends at all.
what a stinker. distance yourself from both of them
Two choices .. hold your head up and get her a great gift from her bridal registry ( people don't always expect to fall in love ), or avoid them both.
So she was trying to make you jellous. Kind of rude and crock way to do it even.
I would forget them and move on. Life is complicated enaugh without that kind of ';friends';.
huh !! ur friend's a lunatic she hates u.
Forget about friendship it does not sound like you had one! Thats so out of order.Your better off with out them!!
be super cool and sweet special the kind person you are and wish them the best hope they will be truly happy
make your own moves don't trust so much no one but your pillow
theres plenty of fish on the sea
forget it. It seems to me that your ';friend'; was leading you up the garden path, and in all probability laughing at you behind your back with her fiancee!
Who needs enemies when you have friends like her? Trust me move on, chalk it down to experience and organise a wicked night out for yourself on the night of their engagement party. Chances are you'll meet a nice guy and in no time you'll be planning you own engagement party!
just make them miserable, by having your head up high
I would be hurt. Are they close friends? That would make it worse. But just wondering how they are planning an engagement and you are just finding out about it now. It sounds like you aren't in the loop and maybe you should just give them both space for your own wellbeing. Find some new friends to hang with for a while and maybe a new love interest.
Advice please men over 60 only please?
Well my gran come to vist us on saturday i made her a lovely kipper soup with garlic croutons! She hasnt any teeth so i couldnt be very adventurous with the little kippers! Anyway when she arrived she gave us all a little kiss except she gave father an extra long kiss with tongues, i mean i wouldnt mind normally but fathers teeth cut his mothers gum as he kissed her! My question is how do you kiss a 64 year old women who hasnt any teeth? Can any older men help my father out what should he do next time? sentAdvice please men over 60 only please?
The trick is to use tounges. If your father does, his teeth won't get in her mouth.
I'm not 60, but I kiss a lot of grannies.Advice please men over 60 only please?
Mmmm, yes please!
well i`m only 44 but i have immense experience kissing old biddies, the trick is to pucker ur lips before the tongue goes in! it keeps the teeth covered:) hope that helps rach
i guess u r bored
nice picture
you won麓t get very men telling you that secret
The trick is to use tounges. If your father does, his teeth won't get in her mouth.
I'm not 60, but I kiss a lot of grannies.Advice please men over 60 only please?
Mmmm, yes please!
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well i`m only 44 but i have immense experience kissing old biddies, the trick is to pucker ur lips before the tongue goes in! it keeps the teeth covered:) hope that helps rach
i guess u r bored
nice picture
you won麓t get very men telling you that secret
In need ov advice from men and women plz!!!!?
i had my beautiful baby 4 1/2 months ago by c section and now hav bin left wit a huge scar on my tummy , my partner says it doesn't bother him but i no it does its huge and red and angry , i no it was needed for our baby to be born but now its starting to really get to me cause i want to get back to my old self but i feel that is holding me back ,
am i making a big deal out of nothing or am i rite that it is hideous and so not attractive i just need an outsiders advice xIn need ov advice from men and women plz!!!!?
Your making a big deal out of nothing.
You gave him a child, that scar is the most beautiful thing to him because it brought forth his baby. Besides, he probably doesn't even see it when he looks at you.In need ov advice from men and women plz!!!!?
Scars are cool :D Especially ones with a story, like yours. I can guess that it feels odd though, looking different every time you look in the mirror. It might take a bit of getting used to, and remember it will fade, but I think an interesting body is incredibly beautiful. And at the end of the day, it is just a scar, and one that is hidden by clothes most of the time. When your partner says it doesn't bother him, I am sure that he means it. If it really bothers you, you can get products that lighten it - rubbing in Shea Butter is supposed to fade scars, blemishes and stretch marks, so you could always try that. But most of all, congratulations on your baby! :)
okay,
i'm sure your husband loves you inside %26amp; out, so no need to worry
maybe this scar of yours isn't so glamorous, SO WHAT?
your husband loves you %26amp; your new baby so much, that a little thing like that is NOTHING. :)
Your making a big deal out of nothing. The scar will fad in time and besides you have your new baby to show for that battle scar, be happy.
am i making a big deal out of nothing or am i rite that it is hideous and so not attractive i just need an outsiders advice xIn need ov advice from men and women plz!!!!?
Your making a big deal out of nothing.
You gave him a child, that scar is the most beautiful thing to him because it brought forth his baby. Besides, he probably doesn't even see it when he looks at you.In need ov advice from men and women plz!!!!?
Scars are cool :D Especially ones with a story, like yours. I can guess that it feels odd though, looking different every time you look in the mirror. It might take a bit of getting used to, and remember it will fade, but I think an interesting body is incredibly beautiful. And at the end of the day, it is just a scar, and one that is hidden by clothes most of the time. When your partner says it doesn't bother him, I am sure that he means it. If it really bothers you, you can get products that lighten it - rubbing in Shea Butter is supposed to fade scars, blemishes and stretch marks, so you could always try that. But most of all, congratulations on your baby! :)
okay,
i'm sure your husband loves you inside %26amp; out, so no need to worry
maybe this scar of yours isn't so glamorous, SO WHAT?
your husband loves you %26amp; your new baby so much, that a little thing like that is NOTHING. :)
Your making a big deal out of nothing. The scar will fad in time and besides you have your new baby to show for that battle scar, be happy.
I need ADVICE from men and women!?
I have been married for 6 years, and I try to please my husband in everything, and he does too. Sometimes I feel that I have to add more spice into my love life, sex life, etc.. and this keeps going. What do you men like for your wife to do? What turns you on, what builds a smile on your face, what do you like to hear from her? Women, what do you gals do to spice it up in bed? when you go outdoors what does he expect. I am just curious.. I am the way I am.. and if I want to do something by heart I will do it, but I just want to add more to what I already do... thanks a bunchI need ADVICE from men and women!?
make a sexy night!!!
buy some black sheets and put them over the couches and have some strawberry's and champagne! and don't forget to buy a some new lingerie and just make a night out of it!!
my husband really liked it!I need ADVICE from men and women!?
when he's at work, send him a kinky message that would turn him on, and have him expect to have a blast in the bedroom with you when he gets home. make it often that you seduce your husband in different ways, be experimental. buy some books about sex and you can get more tips there :) its very useful and entertaining to read. he will be even amused when he sees your'e reading something about sex ;) he will think of the things you'd do to him and he'll look forward to it. in that way, you;d be occupying his mind about you and your bond will get stronger. enjoy ;)
This is hard to think, but you are a great person for the reason of just caring about your relationship. I change is always good. I think that is great to spice things by surprising him having a total change. Do something he never spects you to. Please him in every way he thinks you are not capable or just don麓t like to. Then be close be friends againg share do things together. Learn to give and then you can ask back for what you need. Show love and show him how pretty you are from the inside. Be bold and you will score.
Good Luck!
Porn, blow, and go.
1-try to finger his ***.
2-when u and him have sex tease him , dont let me get u easily , turn him on , make his brain explode of desiring u.
3-i would like my wife to be my mistress sometimes , tell ur husband ( slave ) but be careful he might not like it.
4-dress hot, show ur body, shower him .
5-when its not expected , while he do any just tell him relax do whatever ur doing and ill just suck u . maybe while he is sleeping , while he is watching tv or when he is back resting on sofa, while he is reading ........
6-TEASE HIM.
AND sorry for using any bad words lol.
and there are alot of books for sex guide, tantric, different positions.
hello
simply advice
victorias secret lingerie
MAXODERM CONNECTIONS
for him and her...
this should help
best
in the married life, one wants to be enjoyed should know the partners all need. it is very difficult to understand all the needs of the person. bet we can understand the some of the main needs... such as food, sex, ego...some tips to you! basically boys like any thing in drinking mode (beer, coke, water), in the case of dress they like to wear non design loose wears, also they like smooth items,
in bed they like there counterpart's actions are mild and little teasing mode. also they are like to interact with the gal with articulative speech...
make a sexy night!!!
buy some black sheets and put them over the couches and have some strawberry's and champagne! and don't forget to buy a some new lingerie and just make a night out of it!!
my husband really liked it!I need ADVICE from men and women!?
when he's at work, send him a kinky message that would turn him on, and have him expect to have a blast in the bedroom with you when he gets home. make it often that you seduce your husband in different ways, be experimental. buy some books about sex and you can get more tips there :) its very useful and entertaining to read. he will be even amused when he sees your'e reading something about sex ;) he will think of the things you'd do to him and he'll look forward to it. in that way, you;d be occupying his mind about you and your bond will get stronger. enjoy ;)
This is hard to think, but you are a great person for the reason of just caring about your relationship. I change is always good. I think that is great to spice things by surprising him having a total change. Do something he never spects you to. Please him in every way he thinks you are not capable or just don麓t like to. Then be close be friends againg share do things together. Learn to give and then you can ask back for what you need. Show love and show him how pretty you are from the inside. Be bold and you will score.
Good Luck!
Porn, blow, and go.
1-try to finger his ***.
2-when u and him have sex tease him , dont let me get u easily , turn him on , make his brain explode of desiring u.
3-i would like my wife to be my mistress sometimes , tell ur husband ( slave ) but be careful he might not like it.
4-dress hot, show ur body, shower him .
5-when its not expected , while he do any just tell him relax do whatever ur doing and ill just suck u . maybe while he is sleeping , while he is watching tv or when he is back resting on sofa, while he is reading ........
6-TEASE HIM.
AND sorry for using any bad words lol.
and there are alot of books for sex guide, tantric, different positions.
hello
simply advice
victorias secret lingerie
MAXODERM CONNECTIONS
for him and her...
this should help
best
in the married life, one wants to be enjoyed should know the partners all need. it is very difficult to understand all the needs of the person. bet we can understand the some of the main needs... such as food, sex, ego...some tips to you! basically boys like any thing in drinking mode (beer, coke, water), in the case of dress they like to wear non design loose wears, also they like smooth items,
in bed they like there counterpart's actions are mild and little teasing mode. also they are like to interact with the gal with articulative speech...
';Just be yourself'; The worst advice ever???? Men & Women?
People, friends and family are always saying this. If someone is overweight they say, ';you look alright, you should be loved like you are';. If someone has boring sex life, '; he/she should love you as you are';. If some average girl asks a question on Y/A about how she looks, ';you are pretty, don't change for anyone';
Really? Really? Don't you want friends and critics telling you what is wrong with your body and thoughts? If not, how can people improve?
I think its a big disservice to these people if they have no criticism, they stay the same and suffer thinking someone is made for them. For example Obesity is ';ok'; now, and its ';not your fault';. Don't we know how unhealthy it is?
What do you think?';Just be yourself'; The worst advice ever???? Men %26amp; Women?
It is the best advice ever, but it is also the most misunderstood advice ever.
Anyone who has been in circles in life would understand that it is still a golden piece of wisdom.';Just be yourself'; The worst advice ever???? Men %26amp; Women?
regardless of what anyone says.. you should be loved unconditionally despite your weight/size/looks/race.. if you are over weight, I'm sure those people realize that they have a problem. I find it hard to believe that someone obese thinks that is ok because it's not. Being over weight doesn't only affect you physically if affects a person mentally and socially. There are a million ways to lose weight some people just need the extra push in the right direction. Being around negative people isn't going to help you lose weight.. I'm an honest person and I tell it like it is. America is OVERWEIGHT
I think you are confusing what most people mean.....be yourself usually goes with........someone wants me to change myself and I think I am ok.......I am over weight and ok with myself....yes I know it is unhealthy...however I don't drink, smoke or do drugs and exercise(some).....so I think that with all the bad habits I don't have I am ok with the one I do have.....so to be truly happy I need to find someone who is also ok with me.....by the way I have found him.....and what is wrong with average? Some men are strong enough to see past that and find beauty....
Some people, like you for instance, think there's a virtue in being honest. Most of the rest of us have learned that there's a time and a place for honesty. Just telling someone they only have average looks, for instance, could hurt a person for life.
If YOU want people to be honest with you, then tell them. But don't assume everyone feels the same way.
Over weight people
do not need to lose weight
for other people. People who have
'boring sex lives' don't need to change that
so everybody else will be happy. And people
don't need to change their appearance just because
one person thinks that they're unattractive.
Don't be so close minded, if everybody thought like you do,
we would all be either dead or lonely.
It is simply people being polite! Do you really wanna be told how ugly you are (not saying you are).. But say your in a relationship and the sex has turned bad or not at all.. you dont cristise, you talk about it, as a couple! You should be loved for the person you are.. not for the way you look...
Well that's what I go by. I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not. If you are just trying to score some chics then yes it is. But I don't do that. Being yourself has worked for me wonderfully. Except when I was a kid. No. Haha.
You're absolutely right. Some people on YA sugar coat their answers and give gerneralized advise.
of course we know that it is unhealthy but people shouldn't judge you for that. You shouldn't care what people look like on the outside anyways
Your wrong. No i don't want any critics or friends telling me what is wrong with me, because in the first place, there is NOTHING wrong me. I'm not gonna change myself to fit beauty standards of othe pple. All that matters is that pple love themselves as they are, %26amp; then it won't really matter what other pple say. Now, obesity is obviously a health issue, i don't think anyone ever tells anyone that its ok to be obese, but if you are a size 6, be a size 6, being a size 0 doesn't make you a ';better'; person. People can improve themselves by changing their mindsets about themselves without having 2 be told what they should be by critics or whoever. Thats the whole fuckin problem in this world, self hatred is probably what even causes most deaths in this world, and no one would no it. Pple need 2 start accepting themselves 4 who they r, not everyone can look or be like everyone. So YES, that is the best damn advice anyone can ever give!
I kinda agree with you there.
Being yourself works if you have a really good self. If your self isn't so good the results aren't gonna be good either.
The advice should be to people who want to improve; always find ways to improve yourself, but don't put up a false front and be true to yourself. Keep on working at it an your situation will change to a better one.
Although too much critissism can affect a person negatively and they would become worse off than they are.social networking
Really? Really? Don't you want friends and critics telling you what is wrong with your body and thoughts? If not, how can people improve?
I think its a big disservice to these people if they have no criticism, they stay the same and suffer thinking someone is made for them. For example Obesity is ';ok'; now, and its ';not your fault';. Don't we know how unhealthy it is?
What do you think?';Just be yourself'; The worst advice ever???? Men %26amp; Women?
It is the best advice ever, but it is also the most misunderstood advice ever.
Anyone who has been in circles in life would understand that it is still a golden piece of wisdom.';Just be yourself'; The worst advice ever???? Men %26amp; Women?
regardless of what anyone says.. you should be loved unconditionally despite your weight/size/looks/race.. if you are over weight, I'm sure those people realize that they have a problem. I find it hard to believe that someone obese thinks that is ok because it's not. Being over weight doesn't only affect you physically if affects a person mentally and socially. There are a million ways to lose weight some people just need the extra push in the right direction. Being around negative people isn't going to help you lose weight.. I'm an honest person and I tell it like it is. America is OVERWEIGHT
I think you are confusing what most people mean.....be yourself usually goes with........someone wants me to change myself and I think I am ok.......I am over weight and ok with myself....yes I know it is unhealthy...however I don't drink, smoke or do drugs and exercise(some).....so I think that with all the bad habits I don't have I am ok with the one I do have.....so to be truly happy I need to find someone who is also ok with me.....by the way I have found him.....and what is wrong with average? Some men are strong enough to see past that and find beauty....
Some people, like you for instance, think there's a virtue in being honest. Most of the rest of us have learned that there's a time and a place for honesty. Just telling someone they only have average looks, for instance, could hurt a person for life.
If YOU want people to be honest with you, then tell them. But don't assume everyone feels the same way.
Over weight people
do not need to lose weight
for other people. People who have
'boring sex lives' don't need to change that
so everybody else will be happy. And people
don't need to change their appearance just because
one person thinks that they're unattractive.
Don't be so close minded, if everybody thought like you do,
we would all be either dead or lonely.
It is simply people being polite! Do you really wanna be told how ugly you are (not saying you are).. But say your in a relationship and the sex has turned bad or not at all.. you dont cristise, you talk about it, as a couple! You should be loved for the person you are.. not for the way you look...
Well that's what I go by. I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not. If you are just trying to score some chics then yes it is. But I don't do that. Being yourself has worked for me wonderfully. Except when I was a kid. No. Haha.
You're absolutely right. Some people on YA sugar coat their answers and give gerneralized advise.
of course we know that it is unhealthy but people shouldn't judge you for that. You shouldn't care what people look like on the outside anyways
Your wrong. No i don't want any critics or friends telling me what is wrong with me, because in the first place, there is NOTHING wrong me. I'm not gonna change myself to fit beauty standards of othe pple. All that matters is that pple love themselves as they are, %26amp; then it won't really matter what other pple say. Now, obesity is obviously a health issue, i don't think anyone ever tells anyone that its ok to be obese, but if you are a size 6, be a size 6, being a size 0 doesn't make you a ';better'; person. People can improve themselves by changing their mindsets about themselves without having 2 be told what they should be by critics or whoever. Thats the whole fuckin problem in this world, self hatred is probably what even causes most deaths in this world, and no one would no it. Pple need 2 start accepting themselves 4 who they r, not everyone can look or be like everyone. So YES, that is the best damn advice anyone can ever give!
I kinda agree with you there.
Being yourself works if you have a really good self. If your self isn't so good the results aren't gonna be good either.
The advice should be to people who want to improve; always find ways to improve yourself, but don't put up a false front and be true to yourself. Keep on working at it an your situation will change to a better one.
Although too much critissism can affect a person negatively and they would become worse off than they are.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Shaving Advice For Men?
What places are men suppose to shave?
Thanks in advance fo your answersShaving Advice For Men?
Removing unwanted hair using a razor.
When should I start?
When you're ready or find that your facial hair is getting in the way, annoying you, or doesn't look the way you'd like. Remember, everyone's hair grows at a different rate.Some have full beards aged 12. Others only a full wisps for life.
Men aged 18-24 shave on average four times a week
Where should I shave?
Most men shave the hair on their lower face. Some shave body hair, too. This may be for cultural reasons or because they compete in sports that need them to be streamlined. Some just prefer the smooth look.
How to do it?
Most men wet shave. This means using a manual razor and lubricating with foam.
Alternatively you can dry shave with an electric razor a method that is technically easier, but expensive. And some find the result not as smooth as wet shaving. Plus electric razors have a habit of causing razor burn or bumps.
Step by step guide
Wet your face with warm water
Rub in plenty of shaving foam
Hold the razor firmly (but gently) against your skin
Scrape the skin, moving in the direction of hair growth
Rinse (your face and the razor) with cold water
Pat dry
How to tell what direction your hairs are growing
Hairs seem to grow at different angles in different areas of our face.
Move your fingers across your skin back and forth
In one direction, there is more resistance
This direction is the WRONG way to shave
Shaving problems
Cuts/nicks
Razor burn
Spots/ingrowing hairs
All three can be avoided by using
Clean razors
Plenty of foam
Good technique
Plus there are many products available to cool/soothe skin after shaving
Shaving facts
The average shave lasts 3.5 minutes
84% of men shave at the sink. 15% shave in the bath/shower.
Men aged 18-24 shave on average four times a week
90% of men say they prefer to be clean-shaven
Shaving myths: all total bull
Shaving will speed up/slow down how fast our hairs grow
Shaving makes your hair thicker
The more you need to shave the more of a man you are
Further help and advice
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_body/skin_stuff/shaving.htmlShaving Advice For Men?
Face, head, chest, neck, back are ok.
Everything else borders on feminine.
With other stuff it is ok to trim with clippers.
Any where YOU don't want hair
But more important
Any where SHE doesn't want hair !!
.
I agree with Jack. Just shave your face, neck, back and chest. Guys are supposed to be a little hairy.
i shave my genitals everyday
your face the rest is there for a reason
face and penis
Thanks in advance fo your answersShaving Advice For Men?
Removing unwanted hair using a razor.
When should I start?
When you're ready or find that your facial hair is getting in the way, annoying you, or doesn't look the way you'd like. Remember, everyone's hair grows at a different rate.Some have full beards aged 12. Others only a full wisps for life.
Men aged 18-24 shave on average four times a week
Where should I shave?
Most men shave the hair on their lower face. Some shave body hair, too. This may be for cultural reasons or because they compete in sports that need them to be streamlined. Some just prefer the smooth look.
How to do it?
Most men wet shave. This means using a manual razor and lubricating with foam.
Alternatively you can dry shave with an electric razor a method that is technically easier, but expensive. And some find the result not as smooth as wet shaving. Plus electric razors have a habit of causing razor burn or bumps.
Step by step guide
Wet your face with warm water
Rub in plenty of shaving foam
Hold the razor firmly (but gently) against your skin
Scrape the skin, moving in the direction of hair growth
Rinse (your face and the razor) with cold water
Pat dry
How to tell what direction your hairs are growing
Hairs seem to grow at different angles in different areas of our face.
Move your fingers across your skin back and forth
In one direction, there is more resistance
This direction is the WRONG way to shave
Shaving problems
Cuts/nicks
Razor burn
Spots/ingrowing hairs
All three can be avoided by using
Clean razors
Plenty of foam
Good technique
Plus there are many products available to cool/soothe skin after shaving
Shaving facts
The average shave lasts 3.5 minutes
84% of men shave at the sink. 15% shave in the bath/shower.
Men aged 18-24 shave on average four times a week
90% of men say they prefer to be clean-shaven
Shaving myths: all total bull
Shaving will speed up/slow down how fast our hairs grow
Shaving makes your hair thicker
The more you need to shave the more of a man you are
Further help and advice
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_body/skin_stuff/shaving.htmlShaving Advice For Men?
Face, head, chest, neck, back are ok.
Everything else borders on feminine.
With other stuff it is ok to trim with clippers.
Any where YOU don't want hair
But more important
Any where SHE doesn't want hair !!
.
I agree with Jack. Just shave your face, neck, back and chest. Guys are supposed to be a little hairy.
i shave my genitals everyday
your face the rest is there for a reason
face and penis
I need advice from GAY men about Anal Sex and reducing pain?
When I was younger (17yrs old) I experienced being a bottom and it was the worst feeling ever! I didn't enjoy at all..!! Ever since that day I been traumatized about the pain. After that night I tried it many times but as soon as the penis touches my butt I STOP. I would like some advice.. how to relax? Maybe Anal Ease? I'm just really desperate to satisfy my BF and would like FOR ONCE to enjoy the sex.I need advice from GAY men about Anal Sex and reducing pain?
First off, don't use Anal Ease. Yes it makes you feel less, but not only does that decrease the pleasure you receive, but more importantly it dulls your senses, if something is wrong, you need to know it.
As for how to reduce the pain, here are a few steps to try:
1) Use large amounts of lube and if need be add more lube during the act.
2) Try letting your body to adjust to insertion either with a finger or a toy. Again use lots of lube and go very slowly. If you are using any sort of a toy make sure it is meant for anal play, it should have a flared base so it doesn't get lost inside or make sure it has a loop or something to make sure that you/your partner can hold onto it. Also make sure that it's made of a material that won't break, will clean easily, and will be used more than once.
3)When you finally get used to insertion, have your partner go very very very very very very slowly, if he truly cares for you he will have no problem spending as much time as necessary.
4) Once he's finally in, take a minute to let your body adjust, yes that means he needs to sit still for a minute
5) You need to find a way to relax your mind, maybe even get off before you try it. The more calm you are, the more relaxed your body and mind is, the more you're looking forward to it, the better the chances that you will enjoy it.
Good anal sex really shouldn't hurt, may feel a little odd as your body adjusts, but it shouldn't be painful. And don't worry about the whole diaper thing, your boyfriend has to be extremely extremely large in girth and you have to be having a lot of very regular very rough sex for that to happen.I need advice from GAY men about Anal Sex and reducing pain?
Well, I'm not a gay guy, but let me throw a bit of advice your way... you're not going to be able to enjoy it unless you're completely relaxed. If you try to do this thinking you NEED to do this, then you're not going to be relaxed... you're going to be very tense and just wanting to get it over with. Try some foreplay to get you a bit more relaxed and in the mood. If you're horny enough, you might be willing to do it for enjoyment rather than because you feel like you have to. Also, not everyone is a fan of anal sex. Don't feel bad if this is the case for you. There are other ways to have ';fun'; with your partner. Maybe you should try penetrating. Good luck! And sorry I'm not a gay guy... just trying to help though. I hope I have, at least a little. =)
All boils down to this: 1 does your bf have a large penis?
2: do you mentally want to be on the bottom at the time he's asking for sex?
3: MAKE HIM TAKE HIS TIME!
Some men see an @ss hole and wanna jump straight in and not take their time. Get a fleet enema kit, pour out the contents and fill it with warm water, follow the instructions. REMEMBER, no man wants a sh!tty deal. Get proper lube (WET LIQUID IS MY BEST FRIEND). Condoms are a must.
for your first penetration, you should try riding him, it gives you all the control. you can ease down on it and when it becomes too much, you can easily get up and wait or try again. it's mostly all mental. if you realy want to feel him in you and please him then that's when you'll deal with certain things.
REMEMBER if you don't feel comfortable, then stop. if he really cares about you , then he will understand and wait until you are comfortable and ready.
I was the same way at first. I kept trying and failing. What I've discovered is this...
First, you need lots of lube. If you think you have too much lube, it's probably just enough. There are lubes to reduce feeling which may help you. Second, relax and go slow. Have your partner tease you and engage in foreplay for at least 20 minutes so that you are nice and relaxed. When you are ready to be penetrated, GO SLOW. You may want to be on top so that you can control the speed at which things take place. You'll get used to the feeling after a bit.
Edit: I've only used a toy, but this is what helped me.
lots of lubricant, take it slow, and if he is large, then i would suggest starting with something smaller to ease your way into it. you can buy toys at the adult stores or even on ebay. frankly it helps to start with something small and then progressivly work your way up to bigger, and better :), things
use lots of lube, and then lots more. Maybe have him start off slowly by using his finger then working up to the real thing. Make sure he does it slow, if he does it right that pain will soon become pleasure. Also try playing with yourself at the same time it seems to really help.
Never use anything to numb yourself down there. Unfortunately you just have to 1. relax and 2. understand that the internal sphincter is, unlike the external one, an involuntary muscle that has to relax on its own and should not be rushed.
try giving yourself a warm water enema just before having sex,it not only cleans you out inside(which makes it more pleasurable for both of you)but it will also help relax you
Talk to your doctor or type it in on google, your bound to find something.
im not a gay man but, baby oil gel works wonders...
make sure he knows about ur past experiance.
also make sure he goes in slowly...
You don't! Stop while it's still safe. If/when you lose that muscle integrity, you will poop in a bag or diaper for the rest of your life.
There's also a great potential for infection and disease.
Think about it, sex shouldn't hurt
accept the pain as this is only the beginning of your bad choice to your path of least resistance called: seeking pleasure
DUH!! If it hurts...Don't do it!!
Maybe because the whole was made for things to come out not things to come in....
First off, don't use Anal Ease. Yes it makes you feel less, but not only does that decrease the pleasure you receive, but more importantly it dulls your senses, if something is wrong, you need to know it.
As for how to reduce the pain, here are a few steps to try:
1) Use large amounts of lube and if need be add more lube during the act.
2) Try letting your body to adjust to insertion either with a finger or a toy. Again use lots of lube and go very slowly. If you are using any sort of a toy make sure it is meant for anal play, it should have a flared base so it doesn't get lost inside or make sure it has a loop or something to make sure that you/your partner can hold onto it. Also make sure that it's made of a material that won't break, will clean easily, and will be used more than once.
3)When you finally get used to insertion, have your partner go very very very very very very slowly, if he truly cares for you he will have no problem spending as much time as necessary.
4) Once he's finally in, take a minute to let your body adjust, yes that means he needs to sit still for a minute
5) You need to find a way to relax your mind, maybe even get off before you try it. The more calm you are, the more relaxed your body and mind is, the more you're looking forward to it, the better the chances that you will enjoy it.
Good anal sex really shouldn't hurt, may feel a little odd as your body adjusts, but it shouldn't be painful. And don't worry about the whole diaper thing, your boyfriend has to be extremely extremely large in girth and you have to be having a lot of very regular very rough sex for that to happen.I need advice from GAY men about Anal Sex and reducing pain?
Well, I'm not a gay guy, but let me throw a bit of advice your way... you're not going to be able to enjoy it unless you're completely relaxed. If you try to do this thinking you NEED to do this, then you're not going to be relaxed... you're going to be very tense and just wanting to get it over with. Try some foreplay to get you a bit more relaxed and in the mood. If you're horny enough, you might be willing to do it for enjoyment rather than because you feel like you have to. Also, not everyone is a fan of anal sex. Don't feel bad if this is the case for you. There are other ways to have ';fun'; with your partner. Maybe you should try penetrating. Good luck! And sorry I'm not a gay guy... just trying to help though. I hope I have, at least a little. =)
All boils down to this: 1 does your bf have a large penis?
2: do you mentally want to be on the bottom at the time he's asking for sex?
3: MAKE HIM TAKE HIS TIME!
Some men see an @ss hole and wanna jump straight in and not take their time. Get a fleet enema kit, pour out the contents and fill it with warm water, follow the instructions. REMEMBER, no man wants a sh!tty deal. Get proper lube (WET LIQUID IS MY BEST FRIEND). Condoms are a must.
for your first penetration, you should try riding him, it gives you all the control. you can ease down on it and when it becomes too much, you can easily get up and wait or try again. it's mostly all mental. if you realy want to feel him in you and please him then that's when you'll deal with certain things.
REMEMBER if you don't feel comfortable, then stop. if he really cares about you , then he will understand and wait until you are comfortable and ready.
I was the same way at first. I kept trying and failing. What I've discovered is this...
First, you need lots of lube. If you think you have too much lube, it's probably just enough. There are lubes to reduce feeling which may help you. Second, relax and go slow. Have your partner tease you and engage in foreplay for at least 20 minutes so that you are nice and relaxed. When you are ready to be penetrated, GO SLOW. You may want to be on top so that you can control the speed at which things take place. You'll get used to the feeling after a bit.
Edit: I've only used a toy, but this is what helped me.
lots of lubricant, take it slow, and if he is large, then i would suggest starting with something smaller to ease your way into it. you can buy toys at the adult stores or even on ebay. frankly it helps to start with something small and then progressivly work your way up to bigger, and better :), things
use lots of lube, and then lots more. Maybe have him start off slowly by using his finger then working up to the real thing. Make sure he does it slow, if he does it right that pain will soon become pleasure. Also try playing with yourself at the same time it seems to really help.
Never use anything to numb yourself down there. Unfortunately you just have to 1. relax and 2. understand that the internal sphincter is, unlike the external one, an involuntary muscle that has to relax on its own and should not be rushed.
try giving yourself a warm water enema just before having sex,it not only cleans you out inside(which makes it more pleasurable for both of you)but it will also help relax you
Talk to your doctor or type it in on google, your bound to find something.
im not a gay man but, baby oil gel works wonders...
make sure he knows about ur past experiance.
also make sure he goes in slowly...
You don't! Stop while it's still safe. If/when you lose that muscle integrity, you will poop in a bag or diaper for the rest of your life.
There's also a great potential for infection and disease.
Think about it, sex shouldn't hurt
accept the pain as this is only the beginning of your bad choice to your path of least resistance called: seeking pleasure
DUH!! If it hurts...Don't do it!!
Maybe because the whole was made for things to come out not things to come in....
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