SEX QUESTION if any men or women have any helpful advice please.?

Hey I am a bit curious if it is abnormal for my boyfriend to be unable to gain an erection when seeing me nake? Also it takes a long time sometimes... Even if he goes down on me (which he very much enjoys) he will not get hard the only thing that does it for him is me going down on him. yet when he watches porn he can get an erection looking at them. I just want to know if maybe we are losing our spark.SEX QUESTION if any men or women have any helpful advice please.?
He sounds like he is addicted to porn to me. His brain will only get turned on when he see's porn. Or he can think about porn when you are going down on him. I think he needs to stop watching porn and just watch you. Good luck. Use a condom.SEX QUESTION if any men or women have any helpful advice please.?
Don't worry about it! My boyfriend is almost the same way.


He loses the erection when he goes down on me, probably because he's consentrating on plesing you. Different things turn on different men. The sexual noises u might make could turn him on.


well, my boyfriend does get turned on when he sees me naked and thats probably because he knows whats coming next.





Test him. Tease him a little bit. Strip for him, watch his pants lol.





If that doesnt get him aroused then..maybe you should ask him?





My boyfriend also gets an erection when i got down on him and i think any man would.





Last night we had trouble doing it, because he wasnt hard, but after going down on him a bit i got him going.





experiment a bit :D
I know a guy that told me that he tells himself not to get a hard on until his partner gives him head.


he could be doing this, or he may have a problem getting a hard on around you.


if he gets one watching porn, then try what he is watching and see what happens then.


not sure what to tell you.


if it happened only once he may of been worried about something.


it sounds like he is not getting very arrosed for some reason.


but I do not think it is because of you.
I think the spark is not what is gone. It's the same routine every time it is that time. You need to change it up. Maybe in another room in the house. Sucluded Porch, spice it up a little. I experienced this same thing once things changed it helped dramatically. Also talk to him see what would make him happy as you should tell him what you desire too. Hope this helps
Okay gurl let me tell you one thing. It may not be you and may be you. Girl its time for you to experiment a bit. If he gets a hard on from you going down on him gurl how bout you'll do 69 he may like that. Have a conversation with him and ask whats going on and see what he likes. If he likes porn then hook up the video camera and make a porno. I that dosen't work and its worth it then gurl pop in a porno and go to work on his *** gurl whatever that women is doing on that porno then you do that sme thing on his *** and i guarantee you that he will love it. Man you know what else you'll need to go to an adult store and invest in some good time toys and things like that make sex exciting and enjoyable and both of you will be satisfied. if that dosen't work girl you better invest in a spare tire or a dildo.