Advice.. meeting men out and about?

Im off to a gathering tomorrow, and i have been told i come off intimidating or non aprochable. Is there somthing maybe any one could sugest to make me seem less un aprochable or maybe even how to let a guy know that im intrested with out aproching him?Advice.. meeting men out and about?
It does not take too much to get men interested in you if you are considered good looking and a body to match. Sorry ladies, who are considered overweight - but the initial looks is how things start to move.





After that wherever the chip may fall is how you should take it.





If you are told that you are intimidating perhaps you should examine the way you choose your words. Ask a very close friend to help you with those words. Nothing fancy, just don't rub people the wrong way. There is no big deal.





Men are forever ready. A friendly smile and hello will get them all excited. That's the way they are made. Hey, I am a man and I will melt if I see a good looker says hi to me.Advice.. meeting men out and about?
people who come off intimidating or what not needs to make effort to get others to talk and not talk about themselves..





so instead of saying i went to the store say when was the last time you went to the store! really what did you buy!


ect!!!





if someone says somethign ti's up to you to reply! they may not talk to you directly but you can add your 2 cents!





always smile it makes you approachable!





sadly your in a hard spot! you must make the first move if thiss is how your coming off! once you do that more others will see and start to approach you!





so maybe don't come on full bblast on this dude your into just start to be friends! ask him questions like where did you get that scar, what kind of car do you drive!


if one don't look interested in t he questions your asking then change the subject and find something they are interested in talking about! and if it's that guy you like you can just e-mail him articals about that topic it shows your a great friend and makes you more approachable!



I have learned a lot lately. Firstly a smile. When you look at a guy don't look away and be shy(this is a turn off) keep contact/looking and smile. Be friendly and talk to people especially men. Make silly jokes /tease them and laugh at them. If you are gorgeous men will swarm around you. It works. For an example make comments like...wow I swear you guys are new. That will start a conversation and they will start following you in the future.





Tips:


Never talk badly about anyone.
Flash your **** !
leave your husband at home
It's rather simple, really. Have an adult beverage of your choosing if that's your thing, just smile, and ask open-ended questions. People love talking about themselves.





Standing in a corner, arms folded, snarl...may not quite work so well.





Have a good time and hope there's a good crowd!






Hi Darl, Just Try To Relax And Enjoy Yourself. I Don't Know What Your Attitude To Alcohol Is But I'd Try Not To Drink Very Much And Make Sure You Stay Around Your Friends. There's Nothing Wrong With Being The First One To Make A Move Even If It's Just To Say Hi. Take Care Darl And Have A Beaut Gathering! ;P --,--'---{@
A smile is nice.