i have a question about my husband's behavior, let me explain it's like he can be two different people ... he owns his comp. i understand he has alot to do but when he's a work he's like a totally different person than when he's at home on his days off like these past fews days he was off and he was in a good mood, happy, relaxed now here it is another work week and hes back to being ';the boss'; i am working hard to understand this but its just getting to the point to where i cant deal w/ his two different mod's i dont want him to be ';happy'; just on his days off i want him to be happy all the time i'm just so frustrated about it is this normal?? i dont think it is its like he cant balance his life at home w/ his work when he's off he treats me like the best thing that happened to him but after the days off i'm just a big burden to him i'm hoping someone can give me a little insite to whats going on with him thanks ahead for any adviceNeed advice from men %26amp; women pls!!!!!! i'm going nuts?
Honestly honey, you need to be telling all of this to him. There is no one that would want to be treated poorly at any time, and incidental there is no excuse for mistreating someone. Your concerns are legitimate and should be addressed by him. Sit him down on a happy weekend and explain your concerns to him....good luck!Need advice from men %26amp; women pls!!!!!! i'm going nuts?
It sounds to me like when he is at work he is stress, and it carries over after he gets off. Maybe there are somethings you can do to cheer him up, so he can take his mind of the long stressful day at work. Like preparing his favorite meal or dessert, or running his bath water for him. Work can be stressful and some don't know how to turn of work from home once you off. Maybe he just need to relax and take his mind of the workday and leave work at work.
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