Advice from men and women please..?

Hi everyone! Im a 15 yr. old female and i'm going through a bit of a serious situation and i need some advice on it. I met this guy, that ive had a huge crush on for a while, about 8 months ago. We set up a date and he was a complete gentlemen. I let him know i was 15, and he let me know HE WAS 20...:/ BUMMER...I really like him. My friends even told me they saw nothing wrong with it..seeing that im goin on 16 in about a week or so. Anyway, we havent gone into the relationship talk yet, but he has brought up SEX. I'm a very respectful girl and im waiting for marriage, and im not planning on having sex with him. Is he just in this for sex or did he just bring it up like most guys do? Do you think this is wrong? Should i stop hanging out with him? How can i avoid him? I need serious advice on this, because any decision i make between me and him is going to make a HUGE difference..:(Advice from men and women please..?
he wants sexAdvice from men and women please..?
Turn his *** in to the cops. What a creep! You have no business socializing with MEN! There is something critically wrong with him if he is even contemplating having sex with a 15 year old. Tell your parents IMMEDIATELY and stay away from this creep. There is nothing to like in a weirdo like him!
Girl he just wants to get into your pants! I highly doubt he is serious especially if he is bringing up sex so soon!! I mean unless you seriously and Honestly think he is serious I would back off a little bit. Or tell him that your not ready for sex! Your not even legal to have sex untill your 16! and if you end up pregnant he can be charged for rape since he is legal and your not!
If he was any kind of a gentleman, he would never have mentioned sex at all.





I think this guy may just have a one tracked mind. Hold onto your morals and values and find a nice boy to go on dates with.





Just my opinion. :-)
first of all, there's about as much creepy with a 20 year old asking a 15 year old for sex as there is a 23 year old asking an 18 year old. this in itself is not creepy. the main issue is that states DO have statutory laws to protect minors, and he obviously doesn't respect those laws. THAT is creepy.





would you like a guy who was a bank robber? would you like a guy who was a murderer? would like a guy who had ever committed a rape? these are extreme crimes, but it is meant to get you asking yourself how much you should really like a guy who is willing to break laws to get sex. him being with you in that capacity technically is rape. it's called statutory rape, sex with a minor. all guys know this. trust me, you are better off telling this guy, sorry... i can't see you anymore. tell your parents about it. don't wait for this guy to do something that scares you or puts you in harms way before you take the issue to them. don't let it become a problem before you get them involved, because then it's too late.





and good for you on deciding to wait for marriage. it's an honorable thing to value yourself that highly.
5 yrs usually isn't such a big deal, but when he's 20 and has experienced alot more...it is a big deal. If he has already mentioned sex, I think its fair to know what he's looking for. I am not saying he doesn't like you.....but don't let him pressure you into doing something you will regret later. Trust me, if I could go back, i would have waited and made my first time more special. Be true to yourself....if the guy likes you, he will wait. If not, there are plenty of fish in the sea. You are only 15...have fun and enjoy life. Don't get tied down to a man already! Good Luck!
leave him
thats a toughie!! ummm, i think if hes goign out with a 16 year old it may just be for sex! plus if hes not prepared to wait for u...is he worth it??





good luk xx
First of all he is 20 and you are 15 he is just looking to get in your pants and then he is going to move on, find someone your own age with the same morals and values that you have
Sweetie, you really need to leave him alone. Hold on to your moral values. This guy only wants sex, and he needs to find someone his age. Please do not talk or try to hang out with him. You could get in some serious trouble.
He knows you are 15? You need to break all ties with this man, you are way too young to be seeing a20 year old man. When you are older this age difference would not matter, but the maturity levels between the two of you are completely different, he is taking advantage of you, and thinks that you are dumb enough to let him.
if he didnt bring up a relationship but he did bring up sex then yeah hunny he is in it for the sex guys love to have sex with younger girls especially if they are virgins it happened to me just lose him because I am telling you if relationship never came into the conversation then all he wants is sex
First of all you are still a minor and he is not, so he knows that and he's still asking about sex?? You might like him, but if you are not ready for it let him know! If he keeps bring it up, then tell him you can't se him anymore. Respect your self and don't just have sex with someone cause they keep pressuring you. Wait untill you are ready. If he continues to bother you after you asked him to keep his distance, then get a restraining order.
honey he is to old for you and it does matter at your age.. men at 20 do want sex and at your age that would involve jail time for him. no disrespect to you but he must be pretty immature - he should be looking for a women his own age.Men can be very decietful and he will try to talk you into to sex just by telling you what he thinks you want to here. Dont be fooled. Do not get involved please. Have you asked your parents because I think they can help.