Tuesday, November 22, 2011

MEN: Need Relationship Advice... Help! (ladies can answer too!)?

I have been talking to this great guy on MSN for 2 years, but during that time I was in a relationship. I have been single for about a month or so now, and last weekend him and I ran into each other at a local nightclub. We spent the entire night together, and he complimented me and kissed me. He said he was glad we finally met. Then, the next day he texted me, the day after he initiated conversation on MSN, and the day after that he asked me to go out with him on Friday. Well, last night (Friday) we went on a little date. Nothing too fancy, we just went for a long walk and then we just watched a movie at my parent's house. He didn't try kissing me or doing anything we just snuggled. At the end of the night he said ';we have to do this again sometime';. Does he like me? Should I ask him out next time? I really have a huge crush on him and I want him to know I'm really into him without him thinking I'm too clingy. What should I do? I can't get him off my mind!!!MEN: Need Relationship Advice... Help! (ladies can answer too!)?
Just keep talking to him the way you have been and casually mention that you had a nice time with him. If you want to, it would be ok to ask him out on another date. That's not being clingy.MEN: Need Relationship Advice... Help! (ladies can answer too!)?
yes he likes you :) and no you can never be too clingy lol and yes i think you should plan to see eachother again!
reel him in girl, he respects you
the next time you see him, kiss him the first chance you get. i think he didn't want to seem too forward the second time you hung out and that's why he didn't kiss you. I'd probably do the same thing he did because you don't want to rush/force anything without knowing the other person is going to respond positively. you want to kiss him and he wants to kiss you. just go for it.
If he initiated the contact (texting and im's), he is probably waiting for you to show some initiative.





At this point, the next time you are together, just give him a passionate kiss.

Men's haircut advice?

i want to get this kind of haircut but i don't know what to say. do i hav to say tapered or is that already part of the cut? how long is it on the sides and top? 3? 4?


http://www.haircutshairstyles.com/mens_short_layer_haircut-159.shtmlMen's haircut advice?
Yeah, your best bet is to take the picture to the salon. Be careful though - make sure it works well with your face shape. Ask their opinion and maybe they can suggest other stuff?Men's haircut advice?
Print it out and show it to the lady. She'll know what to do.

Men urgent health advice needed............?

i emit a whole lot of pre *** are there meds that i shud take ?


any names in canada?Men urgent health advice needed............?
Adeeb... Why do you need medication? You normal! Yes alot of us have a lot of lubrication or pre ejaculate. Good Luck Enjoy it! SteveMen urgent health advice needed............?
This is natural. I'm not sure of your habits, but normally if you pre*** a lot, it means that you don't masturbate often, therefore it builds up inside the seminal vesicle and leaks out when you actually do masturbate. If you want the amount to decrease, simply ejaculate more often.
What color is your pee?Do you have a good sodium(salt) intake?People with low salt intake usually pee more frequently since sodium retains water. If its a dark color maybe you should drink more water. Or maybe you drink TOO much water. We cant really tell you much unless your sick.
Me too. As long as it isn't cloudy or bloody, there isn't a problem. Honestly, my wife really likes that I have so much.





EDIT: There are meds that can be prescribed but they can cause impotence.
I don't think that is a big concern. I mean, it's not like it's blood, so it should be okay. It's just your body.
Congratulations.
Its just a lube for sperm...no worries.
that didnt make any sense
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  • Men and Women advice...?

    Ok, I need some advice. My husband just recently switched careers after going back to college and everything. This has been a long time coming. He is a very private person and told me not to tell anyone right now. Well, I have told a few people because I have a lot of connections and when I tell people they always give me some really good information and I always go back and tell my husband. Yesterday, I told my neighbor and they gave me some good info and I told my husband and he got so mad! He said he has already told me not to tell anyone. I told him that the reason why I tell people is because I am proud of him and also I get good information with my connections so really I am doing him a service, right? I don't understand why he would be so mad. Can you shed some light on this?Men and Women advice...?
    I see how you really want to help him and are proud of him, but I do believe you should be trustworthy towards your husbands wishes.Men and Women advice...?
    Would you be mad if your husband was out dishing info on you after you told him not to? That's why he's mad, you have loose lips! He doesn't want your help because he feels the need to do for himself, so why not just let him do things his way?
    I am so totally with your husband. There are so many reasons... it might upset some people where he is working, he might have some unwanted competition, it is plain embarassment to hear his career being discussed by aqaintances... he should be allowed to decide who he shares his plans with.... ...but you know, wives don't get this.
    Some people just like privacy. They don't like to brag. It could be going good right now but what if something happens. By you telling everyone and if he fails, its going to be hard for him to deal with that. Remember the saying, ';Hear no evil, Speak no evil, and See no evil.'; Not that your doing any of those but it means keep private.
    You could have convinced him before asking for a suggestion from your neighbor.That way you would have satisfied his criteria and at the same time you could have provided him more info. It is not too late between husband and wife. Try to convince him now.
    you will never understand.. That's for sure.


    He deserves better
    You seem like a very wonderful and caring wife





    HE, on the otherhand, seems to not appreciate you








    The problem is HIM, not you





    I suggest a long talk with him, or counseling...............
    Sorry honey but you are in the wrong here, you went against your husbands wish and betrayed his trust by ';using your connections';. Sometimes men want to do things on their own and in their own time. I would be a little more cautious about respecting his wishes. What you did, even though you meant well, was disrespectful. He specifically asked you not to tell any one ';JUST YET';. I wonder why you needed the spotlight on you for his sake.
    This is too long - to chaotic. Think about your question - ask a pointed question - nobody is interested in bla bla bla bla stories.





    That shows a total lack of respect and interest in people who might start to read it.
    Would you be okay if he did something that you asked him not to do? You violated his trust and he has a right to be mad no matter how good your intentions were.





    Note to Veronica: If it was too long a question then why did you waste your time answering it?
    its pride on his part, maybe he think by u getting a job for him, it make him weak
    It's got nothing to do with whether or not you can help him out. Sometimes, people just want to their own thing in their own way without everyone having an opinion on it. It irritates the hell out of me when you say you're doing something, and someone else knows someone else who's doing it, has done it, can help me with it. I like to do my own thing my own way. Your husband is probably feels the same way and is mad because you're not giving him space to explore and enjoy his new career for himself - at least for a bit anyway!

    Need a mans advice?

    Im a dude, i have nto had sex in about 7 yrs due to being locked up, now that im out i having trouble getting off to fast, can you explain to me how to old back from letting ur load go? Like when u are making love and you feel the urge how do you stop it from busting?Need a mans advice?
    pull out and squeeze right under the head. and hold for a few seconds, it will stop you from ';unloading';Need a mans advice?
    wow how old are u??? this should be old hat to any guy older then 10yrs old...
    you know how to stop peeing? do that when you feel you will be getting off.
    don't worry about that right now...you haven't had a cooch in a while so let loose and *** as quick as possible lol


    then worry about it hahahah
    pull out man, edge a little, squeeze it off if u have too, try a c0ck ring too, maybe that will help..

    Why do women seek out other women for advice on men?

    Think how stupid that is!!


    These women maybe married but the fact that they are married whether they admit to it or not only occurred when the man was ready.


    And no type of female maneuvering can cause the trigger to be squeezed.


    Sure by being sweet and talking to MEN so that you can understand men will help.


    However, the more unsavory the laws of divorce get the less likely that trigger will be pulled.


    Of course I guess all women could marry short people.Why do women seek out other women for advice on men?
    Because they want to to told what they want to hear (usually 1-he loves her or 2-he's a jerk) and don't want to deal with realty.Why do women seek out other women for advice on men?
    It's not advice it's a ';have you ever known a man to be this stupid, unkind, lazy, selfish and the list goes on'; venting rant. We don't seek out men for answers on men because most are clueless. It's a stupid woman that seeks help from another woman with their man problems. The helper women either have their own problem man, want your man or have never known a man like you describe. Before telephones or the Internet I suspect most women just screamed into their pillow.





    So, what prompted you to ask this question...I bet it's a doozieee!!!
    Are you on something or married? Like they say, men are from Mars and women from Venus. So where you from? You do not seem to express yourself very well, but I have to disagree that it is stupid for women to turn to other women for advice. It makes sense - they offer a different objective perspective while being able to understand a woman's point of view. Isn't it just the same as men swapping stories and experiences with each other?
    Hey dude, just grab a 6 pack, kick back and watch a game on the flat screen and don't stress about it. You're going to be gray and or bald at an early age trying to figure this one out. The only person that you can truly understand is yourself.
    Maybe it is because men stick together and don't tell on each other. I have tried asking other men and they are never honest. So do you think you can be honest and tell us women the truth if we asked you something?
    Both people need to be equally committed to marriage for it to be happy. There are not any ways that I know of to trick another person into a commitment.
    i dont ask my girlfriends my #1 bestfriend is a guy it so much easier to confide and talk to him than my #2 who is a girl
    Sweetie --- is because women can only understand another women feelings -----
    Women like things complex. So they seek advice from other women for a complex answer. Things are never simple with them like with men
    A woman with experience can know. A man doesnt understand a woman and why she acts the way she does. A woman knows.
    Cause your hoping she got it right and can tell you how to fix it.
    I don't do that. I go to men and women for advice because everyone has their say
    because they can't tell a woman story to a man it's about heart to heart.

    Why do people, especially women, keep giving bad advice to men looking for love/sex help?

    Some men have trouble finding love/sex in their lives, and they are told such stupid things as ';wait for the right person to arrive';, ';the right person will arrive some day';, etc. No, it won't. When it comes to men, they can't ';wait';, they have to LOOK for the right person, because things don't work the same for men as they do for women. Not only that, but I see virgin males on here who want help losing their virginity, and women ATTACK them just for wanting to fulfill a natural human desire. They say things such as ';if all you want is sex, you don't deserve a woman'; and other ridiculous comments, when these very same women probably all lost their virginities at a young age just for being women and having it easy. I'm by no means complaining that women have it easier than men; what I am complaining about is men trying to get help and women attack them like they're evil just for wanting sex, as well as giving them bad ';don't worry, eventually someone will arrive'; advice.Why do people, especially women, keep giving bad advice to men looking for love/sex help?
    Many women are delusional and try to rationalize certain situations. They lack a basic understanding of reality. It's easy for a woman, because a woman knows that men are just going to approach her and if she doesn't feel that instant rush, spark, gratifying feeling she might reject, or blow the guy off. They want that instant connection with out putting any work in on creating that connection. Many woman don't understand that if you give someone a chance and get to know that person you might actually find yourself caring deeply for that other person. Women don't understand, or appreciate the effort that guys put in when trying to win someone over. Have you ever heard of a woman complain that if the guy doesn't approach her then he is intimidated and a coward. Many women are hypocrites, because they have no idea what it is actually like to approach and ask someone out. Women are a lot more judgmental then guys are. Woman will jump to conclusions about a guy in the first second of meeting that all he wants is sex, or is a jerk, creep, whatever else when he actually wants to get to know her for her and could possible be the best thing that ever happened to her. Woman tend to stereotype guys. There are a lot of guys that are truly uncaring and cruel and just want sex, but woman tend to lump all guys the same. They fall for the same guy over and over and complain that all guys are the same. The glass ceiling effect is not only in the business world, but also for women in the dating world. I don't want to sound as if I am ranting, because everything I wrote is purely from an observational point on watching people in action. To sum everything up women give bad advice, because they just don't realize, nor know any better.Why do people, especially women, keep giving bad advice to men looking for love/sex help?
    good point but my answer to your questions is because they are stupid and honestly dont know but want to share there stupidity with someone who doesnt know any better
    Woman can get sex from most guys, if they just asked. They usually won't of course. This is where the ';wait and you'll get them'; approach comes in.





    The guy just need to get confidence in himself first, then he looks better to a woman. Woman, by nature IMHO arent as confident in themselves as men, b/c all kinds of stereotypes, and ';that girl';'s turn up.





    I found confidence through playing pool, and if I date a woman and take her out, she sees confidence, and that in trigues her to find more... although at the same time she may be replused too.





    It;s really a crapshoot since you'll remember the missteps more than the sucesses.
    Well certain men are pigs about it. I mean, if a guy wants sex, just for sex, then whatever, that's his choice. I don't think it's wrong, unless he's using a girl that thinks he's in love with her. some guys are just stupid. The women that attack guys for stuff like that are just stuck up, and holding grudges on the people that have hurt them in life. That's why I hate when opinionated people give advice. Someone will ask a question about sex with their gf/bf, and there are always at least 5 answers saying ';don't have sex before marriage!'; Seriously, shut up, and respect peoples choices. If they choose to live their lives a certain way, don't try to change that, especially if they're not asking, and especially if you don;t KNOW them.





    As for the ';don't worry it will come with time'; I agree with it. Things like love take time, and patience. At least, true love does. You can't sit back and literally just wait for someone to arrive, you have to put yourself out there and work for it. Women have it just as tough though bud. I mean, sure some women yell at men for being pigs about sex, but then there are those guys who are worshiped for having so much sex. God forbid a girl have sex with a man she's not in love with. No, of course that's not accepted, because you know, then it would be logical. People are just way too judge mental.





    Haha wow, sorry for the rant.
    Firstly women are NOT logical -- it amazes me how these women pass exams as they say such illogical things as you mentioned.





    Secondly women by nature are monogomous(sp?) and men polygmous( nature made us to impregnate as many females as we can ---eg millions of sperms Vs women one egg a month)


    So what modern women do is try to enforce their instincts of monogomous on us --- if we even think of girls and sex . women act like we have committed the worst sin in the world.





    Unfortunately in Western societies especially in America there is a vicious witch hunt againt men ...( these women want to convert us to some feminine toy)





    Oh well you get the message.





    You can do two things:


    Date foreign women ( from Eastern Europe , south America, Asia etc) where things are more realistic .





    And secondly avoid American women ....:)
    Well then, what you need to do is get in your car, make sure to have money on you, drive downtown to the nearest dive you can find. It's usually something on a corner with a concave red door or something, and hot pink neon verticle lettering overhead that says ';Spanky's'; or ';Endless Possibilities'; Go inside...sit confidently at the bar until you make eye contact with a willing onlooker. Buy her a few drinks, take her home or to a motel and WaLaaa you've got a piece of a**!





    And please, please DO wear a condom.
    as true as that is, wheres the question?
    Hi. Wanna screw? Just teasin, I swear. Just tryin to keep it light. I'm not sure if you want an answer or just felt like ranting, but I will tell you what I think. I guess us girls keep telling yall that because that's how we feel about it? Women are naturally empathetic (it's the middle part of the brain) and a lot of us have only found what we wanted most when we stopped looking. So I guess maybe we weren't listening close enough and had no idea it was different for you, or you weren't listening close enough, I don't know which. Take care.





    *I really was just kidding with the joke, please don't get offended.
    That's natural for women! Women are more on the emotional aspect and men are more on the physical aspect.
    good point.