Advice from men please & women.......?

HELPPPPP!!!! I need a guys input and girls.... = )?


Basically I pick up his cell one day and it was his ex wife who is only 18 he is 21. yes...they married early...but thats how I found out about her because we never talked about the past.





So what bothered me is that he told me it was some other girl and i told him to prove it and he called the same number and his ex acted like she was the girl ( they plotted the whole thing because he said he didnt want problems with me).





The reason why they are divorce is because she cheated on hima nd is now dating the other guy. She is a slut. Not because she is his ex but because of what she did. His whole family tells me the same story about that girl. His mother knew all along that she was cheating on her son and didnt say a thing. Anyways...





He owns a tobacco business and the co-owner is her father. So he never told me that he was her father. I ask him and he denied it. then he finally told me the truth.





Then i look at his phone statements and found out he had been calling her the whole time we have been together. She was calling him too. I ask him why and he said for business purposes that she was helping him fill out paperwork for licenses for the business.





He was paying for her cell bill all along until recently because it was under his credit and he said he didnt want to ruin his credit. But he informed her 1st that he was going to shut it off?! which im mad about. if he does not care about her like he says why inform - right?! Am I wrong?





When it comes to her i feel he hides things. He told me its because he didnt want us to meet because he thought i was going to mind about all this bull. But the thing is im not jealous if he would of told me everything from the beginning we would be fine... but why the hell is he lying so freaking much?





I have sat down and talk to him numerous times but he kept lying until recently i broke it off and he changed his number so she wont have it and says he wants to be with me.





IDK if i should worry, move on. I feel like im being blind. How about if they end up getting back? Advise please.Advice from men please %26amp; women.......?
wow well i am not trying to be rude, but i could have skipped between the first sentance and the last, because all that in between stuff is just DRAMA!! You don't need it. Do you value yourself? Then raise your value, you dont need that kind of drama, questioning, worry. There are plenty of people in this world that dont bring that negativity into your life. Get rid of that zero and get you a hero ; )Advice from men please %26amp; women.......?
he has told you a bunch of lies from the very beginning. i would move on. he has given you reason to wonder about things and his truthfulness for the rest of the relationship.
move on - the drama that would be introduced into your life isn't worth the stress it'll cause
*Sigh*





Go to the singles %26amp; dating section.
Put this in Singles %26amp; Dating, and you'll get so many more answers than in here.
Leave this little boy alone!! Get a real man.
sounds fishy, hire a P.I.
way too long and it is their problem. Not yours...stay out of this
Girl run for the hills! He is a dishonest man. This only leads to MORE trouble for you. I've been married for 15 yrs. You can't start out with so much lying it would never last. Sorry for you, but really sorry for him!
Sounds like you are both young and need to mature more. Honesty is always the best policy. he should've been honest from the start, but becasue he wasn't you will always have trust issues. Move on before you invest too much time and emotion on this one. He's not the one you're looking for.
You are being played for the fool here. You need to get out, and find someone who will love you, and only you. Not someone who is still all fired up for their (slutty) ex-wife.





Also - Love is based on ';Trust';. Since this man is such a liar, how could you ever trust him, or love him?