Saturday, July 31, 2010

Does anyone have advice on men?

I have a guy problem that i need help with.... me and this guy have gotten pretty close, and i hate talking on the phone, so if i don't see him that day, i email him, or he emails me. We both go to the same college, but i commute, and he lives on campus. I have gotten one email from him in two days, and the last person to email was me, about this time, last night. It doesn't usually take this long for him to answer, but we have a differnent relationship, and it is really a feel as i go situation. Do i email him back, or should i ignore him like it feels like he is ignoring me, just to get back at him? that seems really shallow, but i can't think of anything else to do, and i don't want to be the one doing the chasing. I want him to make some moves! PLease help!!!Does anyone have advice on men?
Give him a day or two, maybe he's just busy, or he wants more space. I also tend to jump into conclusions that are often incorrect. Don't ask him for an explanation, you're not his mother, and if he ever tells you what happened, don't question it, because if you don't believe him right now there's no need to continue with this. I would also recommend the use of instant messaging.Does anyone have advice on men?
If you don't want to be the one making the moves then DON't. If he is interested he will come to you, but you will have to be patient and give him the opportunity to do so.
It sounds like you are wanting to be closer with him than he might want to be with you right now. Take that to heart. Perhaps offer him some expression of what you'd like, maybe an invitation to have lunch together, or whatever feels right, and then let it go. Know that you've done your best to reach out, and if he's not equally responsive, accept that he's different place.

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