Dear friends ,
see this...
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Most ignored fundamental survival need鈥?
Basic needs of any human being , wife and husband.
a) each individual needs space (territory
area to live both in solitude
(individual room for both wife and husband one-each )
As well as with one another (bedroom)
As well as with coming friends / associates (front room / relaxing room)
Three bedroom flat /house or
atleast
two bedroom flat/house
when only a couple is living.
Plus additional room for children of the couple.
So three bedroom flat or house is an essential scientific need for any couple to ensure security of the survival of their family.
Alluminium partions / cloth partitions
( with space enough for sleep and sitting in personal individual rooms )
aided house seems most suitable solution for people who cant afford so much cost.
b) No human can tolerate intrusion of any person 鈥揵e it wife , mother , father , child or even GOD for 24 hours!!! 鈥?so we must ensure that we have Space 鈥?owned area 鈥搑ented or owned
to ensure that we live in our respective zones as per our moods and needs with out having to break out of a house and break a marriage relationship
鈥搕his is a simply FUNDAMENTAL MUST TO ENSURE SECURITY OF FAMILY AS WELL AS EACH INDIVIDUAL.
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for complete relationships code of marriage life see the site below...Relationship Space Advice. Women and Men. Please?
I would blame the pill. I have done some ridiculous and crazy things on birth control pills to the point where I had to just stop taking them. Hormones will make you do crazy things....You may notice her mood to flip especially towards the end of the birth control pack. Its no fun....
I am married yet i am going through the same thing with my wife. i am learining that you both need your own seperate interest as well as your interest you do together, that way you both can nuture eafh other's sense of independence and togetherness. I have been going through my issues for a few months now and i am now realizing how selfish i have been in wanting to do everything with her and her not being able to spend time alone with friends. every one need a vacation, even from their perspective spouses from time to time to gain perspective and refresh and to bring new experiences into the relationship. As you can tell i have done a lot of reading on the subject.
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