Sunday, August 22, 2010

Relationship Space Advice. Women and Men. Please?

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 months now. In teh beginning when we met we both agree that we found our soul mates, true love and the one we would marry. For teh past 5 days she has become distant. Intially she todl me just to give her a little space. (And no she is not cheating on me) She just claimed to just want some alone time with herself to preserve her identity as a independant women. Last night we spoke and she is now telling me she does not know what iswrong with her and it is bothering her that I am hurting cause of her recent behavior. She stated that she feels resentful in a way becaue i may have smnothered her. She continusoulsy states that she is not breaking up with me or plans to. She has started a new birthcontrol (ortho trcycline). I feel it may be that, because 5 days of her taking it this all began. Basically i am looking for some help as to understanding why she has pushed back when everything was great. Any advice would be great. Thank uRelationship Space Advice. Women and Men. Please?
Dear friends ,


see this...





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Most ignored fundamental survival need鈥?








Basic needs of any human being , wife and husband.


a) each individual needs space (territory


area to live both in solitude





(individual room for both wife and husband one-each )





As well as with one another (bedroom)





As well as with coming friends / associates (front room / relaxing room)








Three bedroom flat /house or





atleast





two bedroom flat/house





when only a couple is living.








Plus additional room for children of the couple.








So three bedroom flat or house is an essential scientific need for any couple to ensure security of the survival of their family.








Alluminium partions / cloth partitions





( with space enough for sleep and sitting in personal individual rooms )





aided house seems most suitable solution for people who cant afford so much cost.





b) No human can tolerate intrusion of any person 鈥揵e it wife , mother , father , child or even GOD for 24 hours!!! 鈥?so we must ensure that we have Space 鈥?owned area 鈥搑ented or owned





to ensure that we live in our respective zones as per our moods and needs with out having to break out of a house and break a marriage relationship








鈥搕his is a simply FUNDAMENTAL MUST TO ENSURE SECURITY OF FAMILY AS WELL AS EACH INDIVIDUAL.





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I would blame the pill. I have done some ridiculous and crazy things on birth control pills to the point where I had to just stop taking them. Hormones will make you do crazy things....You may notice her mood to flip especially towards the end of the birth control pack. Its no fun....
I am married yet i am going through the same thing with my wife. i am learining that you both need your own seperate interest as well as your interest you do together, that way you both can nuture eafh other's sense of independence and togetherness. I have been going through my issues for a few months now and i am now realizing how selfish i have been in wanting to do everything with her and her not being able to spend time alone with friends. every one need a vacation, even from their perspective spouses from time to time to gain perspective and refresh and to bring new experiences into the relationship. As you can tell i have done a lot of reading on the subject.
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