Advice from men please..?

I was having casual sex with a guy I was really attracted to, we did very intimate things. The relationship had to end because he was neglecting me, he would hardly call me or reply to my texts..he played alot of hard to get games so i left him. Just recently I met him in a club, we were both really drunk..ended up kissing and he told me he wanted me to be his girl, that i was the only girl he had performed orl sex on etc..I was really confused..he hugged me for ages. He texted me the next day asking how i was and if I got home safe. Me being very straightforward asked him if he meant wat he said that night or was it the alcohol speaking..he agreed that the alcohol was overpowering him that day and said that since he has changed he needed time to think about whether he could spend the rest of his life with me he also mentioned that he didnt like it when i speak relationships...i took that as rejection and said maybe its best if we stay mates...so we agreed. We slept together last night...it was really passionate..i still have feelings for him but dont know what to do...i realise that he hasnt though..why would he tell me those things when he was drunk though?Advice from men please..?
never believe a drunk!!!





just enjoy the sex... :DAdvice from men please..?
He is just looking for fun and sex and when he is drunk he even though you another girl :D


my advice for you leave him you deserve a better man.





hope this helped you.
When an individual is drunk, it often brings out the true actions of the person....so therefore that guy used alcohol as the excuse to say what he had to say, knowing he won't be able to do so when he is sober...
he was just using you for sex
how did we go from having casual sex with this guy to him thinking about whether he could spend the rest of his life with you? i always thought that ';dating'; came into play there somewhere.





anyways, he either told you those things when he was drunk because he has feelings for you, or because he knew it was the best way to get you to continue sleeping with him. either way, it's not panning out into a relationship for you.
Honest answer is because, he was just trying to get some hot action from you that night.
No offense, but it sounds like he just wants you available for sex when he wants it. It's a guy thing. If he can get it without the strings of a relationship, why would he put forth the extra effort?
Seems to me he DOES have feelings for you but when he does not have alcohol induced confidence he is too nervous to tell you.
Why would he tell you those things? Real simple. A hard penis has no conscience. It will say and do what it has to, in order to get what it needs. Unless you are comfortable with casual sex for the sake of the sex itself, you need to abandon this guy and avoid others like him.


Almost all men, and some women, are able to separate sex from relationships. They play for pleasure.


In my experience most women, and some men, see sex as only part of a committed relationship. Anything else fills them with angst and guilt. This could be you. Either way, all the best!
you wouldn't believe some of things I used to do when I got drunk. When guys get super 'gassed' they let their mouth get in the way of their brain and let their inhibitions down. That's what happened to this guy you are with. He was just letting his mouth run that night he was drunk. Now that he's sober he's talking sense. Not that I agree with him but if he is not ready for a permanant relationship you have to accept it. You can either go on like you are or give it up. I can't make that decision for you and neither can anyone else.
Alcohol is a great uninhibitor. It loosens up our mouths so we say things that otherwise we'd hold back from saying when sober. In other words, the truth is more prevalent when you've got a buzz on.





On the other hand, it could be that you were in the right place at the right time and he was just looking for some excitement. Go carefully on this one.
you slut!
Just stop what u r doing becoz it will soon backfire and u will definately be heart broken. Its a mistake to keep on having sex with someone who dont love for so many times. if its a one night stand then there is no problem. becoz as a woman when u have sex with someone for along time and u have multiple orgasm u will definately start to fall in love with that person.





He is using u.
To keep you coming back and it worked. It doesn't matter what he said, if he's doing the opposite. He's done nothing that shows he wants to be with you long term so why would you hang on to what he said while drunk.