Asking men for financial advice?

I asked my casual lover/bf (I've asked questions about him before on here) about financial advice, because I want him to know I'm trying to take charge of my finances %26amp; be clear of debt before I move out of my parents home again, keeping in mind that's thinking of transferring his job back home...hint hint. So I want him to realize that I'm trying to be smart about my future.


Anyways, so I called him earlier, %26amp; left a message asking for his advice (left it at that) Then he called back, but I couldn't talk at the time so I called him back later. He answered, I asked him if he still was thinking about transferring but he doesn't know yet..which is GOOD...but he would definitely let me know what decides. Well I proceeded to ask him for advice, telling him that I'm almost paid off on my student loan, %26amp; car loan %26amp; move out sooner. Then he said he'd get back to me because he was at the store. So I don't what he thinks after all that, but if he doesn't call back soon, I'll be disappointed!Asking men for financial advice?
I don't see any problem, with your asking him about financial questions.


I get them all the time, with friends, and I do my best to answer them. I even will do some research for them if needbe.


You seem to have a good head on your shoulders and being very smart about your money, and your future.


At least, if he does decide to move back, you will be on your own and indepenend.


I'm sure your parents will be proud of you, and you should be too.


Too many women, leave all that financial stuff to their men, and that could be a big mistake. Women are smart enough to do what is right for themselves.


With the web at their fingertips, they can look up all sorts of information.


So no, hon, you did right, and he may just not want to admit, that he is hopeless on money matters. Not all men are.


I would suggest, you stick with what you are doing, you are headed in the right direction.Asking men for financial advice?
You definately need to grow up. You sound way immature, to immature for a relationship. What are you, 15-16? Probably not, but thats how you sound. Learn a little independence and start thinking for yourself. If he is casual, what difference does it matter what he thinks?
Don't have a clue why he didn't get back to you unless he concludes you're hinting at what you don't seem to want to hint about. Guys shouldn't have any problem giving financial advice. BTW, I didn't see any financial question in your question.
don't be disappointed your doing the right thing in getting your life under control and in order and if he can't see that or incourage you in that then your better off, be proud of yourself your doing right

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