Advice on meeting men in a Bar!! ?

Hello, I am a 23 year old woman and have never had a boyfriend or properly been kissed. I am very shy around men, I am only 5';2 and need to lose a little weight. My Sister and friends say that isnt a problem as I should be more confident around men, But the truth is, that I dont know how to be confident, is it too forward to just go upto a bloke you think is cute and offer to buy him a drink? Any advice gratefully received!!Advice on meeting men in a Bar!! ?
No dont offer to buy a guy a drink in a bar. 99% of lads will find this strange. I am a guy and the best thing you can do is hello and try and be friendly. If they like you they like if they dont they dont. Acceptence. Im sure there are hundreds of guys in your area that will match your looks. I have got a good quote about beauty. ';If you could ask a frog what he thinks is beautiful, he would say slimy green skin, bulging eyes and a long tongue'; See beauty is a social convention, its is made up by the media. If you feel like you should lose some weight do it, if you want a man you are attracted to who is not over weight, you need to lose weight yourself.Advice on meeting men in a Bar!! ?
I would NEVER offer to buy a guy a drink, merely because most guys will accept one of you even if they're not interested!!!!


I think you would be better off to catch a guys eye - hold the eye contact and smile... he'll then know you're into him and will prob chat you up!


xx



u know, i remember being really young, 16/17 and a group of guys would go up to a group of girls.





initially, all guys would like the same girl more or less but as you get talking drinking (sorry but we did) and laughing, that all changes and we all fall for the cool funny one even if she is less attractive.





just be urself (as stupid as that sounds) be confident and be cool. it really is as simple as that ; )