Thursday, August 19, 2010

Men i need advice...?

im been with my bf for 2yrs and 6months n lately his been very cold and mean .... i know there are better looking women then me and we all think of the what if's .... i try to do things differnt make it fun to be with each other but i dont see the effort in him...what should iMen i need advice...?
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Hard to say without age or knowing if you live together. BUT are you all over him all the time giving him no free time? Not trying to be mean but girls do this all the time, you feel suffocated and pressured into things, your life slowly starts slipping away you lose track of everything and it's like she's in control of every aspect now, but you can't say anything because she'll become an emotional wreck and make your life even worse. Basically just sayin let him breath, if you bother him about it the more it might set him off, I know after I get my alone time for a while I'm good to go.
A gentleman who loves you would not give you the cold shoulder nor the mean feelings. I would flat out confront him and tell him of his shortcomings. If he does not try to resolve his demeaning behavior I would break up with him.





Do not settle for a man who is crude and rude, a gentleman will love you for you.
if YOU need to try without HIM doing anything, then its obviously not a good relationship and you should chuck him out.





sadly, the only way to make some people realize what they have lost is to take it away. But then again, they might change their ways if you make such a harsh decision like breaking up
jus doont push it too much


realx and jus sit back dont try that hard


eventually ull know if its good with him nothing like dat


n if somethings wrong ull know


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If you don't see the effort from him, ask yourself if you still want to make the effort. Sit him down and talk to him, and see if you guys are on the same page in the relationship.
best thing to do is to talk to him,dont accuse him of anything but just tell him how you feel and if he 's still cold give him an ultimatum and stick to it....
start ignoring him when he's cold act like it doesn't bother you. be like what-ever about everything. he'll start getting worried that something is wrong and be nicer to you.
He needs his space clearly, he's not willing to work on the relationship with you.
It's possible that this relationship has run it's course. Just ask him if he feels that way too then go from there.

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