I need advice from a MAN..?

Here's the story:


Two days ago, my friends and i decided to have a ladies night. We ended up going to a fair by the seaside and we had a really great time. While we were there, each of us met a sailor from the US navy that are a stationed there until monday. We spent the rest of the night going on rides and dancing to cute 50's music like something out of a black and white movie. The time flew by so fast. Before I knew it it was time for my friends and I to leave. My sailor (charles) and I talked the entire night and exchange information to keep in touch. Here's where it gets tricky. Charlie is 19 and I, myself, am 17. He asked all of us to come and visit him before his ship departs monday. Should I trust him just from knowing him for that one night?Should I go and visit him, or would that be to ';easy';?I need advice from a MAN..?
ok its routine for seaman to go out when at shore and try to get laid. since they are on the boat for months at a timeI need advice from a MAN..?
depends what u are going to do for that one night... maybe get a group of friends to all go together.





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easy
has he got any diseases
confused you said he ask all of us....or did he ask u..if he asked you then u know he going to try and get some

Man advice... please?

I broke up with a man a year ago now because he would not stop going to ';visit'; his ex %26amp; calling her behind my back. This man claimed it was nothing going on but it made me very uncomforatble - since she left him because he cheated on her for years!!! So to make the story short I quit seeing him. The first 6 months he called me almost every day wanting to work it out but would go right back within that week and see her again. We have never gotten back together. So I started dating someone else after 6 months. He has contacted me the entire time this past year after I began to date someone else he got to where he is calling once or twice a week wanting to work it out, telling me the same stories... lies. And is still going to see this woman. And the last 6 months he has been dating or should I say sleeping around with different women. He has the ex in the mix with the others he is talking to. I have told him repeatedly to go away. But he never stays gone more than 10-14 days before the calls or texts start. Thank goodness we live 3 hrs apart. My question is WHY does he keep this up? Why won't he just go away since he has seen for a year now that I am not going to come back with that mess. Guess he must think I am missing some brain cells. What is his problem and what can I do without being a real jerk like him and just being down right nasty. I go to church and live my life for God so my reaction and how I handle this is important. I don't think like a man so I am asking you all (as men) to help me find a way to deal with this man in a nice way. Thanks!Man advice... please?
he seems to want a lot of women, he probably thinks a lot of himself, if you don't like him, ignore him hoping he will fade away. You should change your number or block his.Man advice... please?
Ignore him, and find someone or something that makes you happy. Keep your mobile turned off and try to get on with life. Stay positive and don't think about it.
Ugh, its so olvous(SP?) he is a playa. A girl can fall for just about any man, under the right circumstances. OK the best I can say is that you try to egnore him. I have a feeling part of you wants him back but re-read what you have wrote and see in another perspective what the situation is, as if you are answering this yourself perhaps. Fist what I would do is change my number. Don't go back to him becasue I can already tell that he is the type of guy to treat you like crap when you are willing to give him your all but come crawling back when you start to get your life set straight. Don't end up cheating because do you wan't your boyfried to feel the way you did?


Sorry if my advice wasn't useful, I know how you can wright a question but don't get how the people answering are missing the point.

Advice from men please..?

I was having casual sex with a guy I was really attracted to, we did very intimate things. The relationship had to end because he was neglecting me, he would hardly call me or reply to my texts..he played alot of hard to get games so i left him. Just recently I met him in a club, we were both really drunk..ended up kissing and he told me he wanted me to be his girl, that i was the only girl he had performed orl sex on etc..I was really confused..he hugged me for ages. He texted me the next day asking how i was and if I got home safe. Me being very straightforward asked him if he meant wat he said that night or was it the alcohol speaking..he agreed that the alcohol was overpowering him that day and said that since he has changed he needed time to think about whether he could spend the rest of his life with me he also mentioned that he didnt like it when i speak relationships...i took that as rejection and said maybe its best if we stay mates...so we agreed. We slept together last night...it was really passionate..i still have feelings for him but dont know what to do...i realise that he hasnt though..why would he tell me those things when he was drunk though?Advice from men please..?
never believe a drunk!!!





just enjoy the sex... :DAdvice from men please..?
He is just looking for fun and sex and when he is drunk he even though you another girl :D


my advice for you leave him you deserve a better man.





hope this helped you.
When an individual is drunk, it often brings out the true actions of the person....so therefore that guy used alcohol as the excuse to say what he had to say, knowing he won't be able to do so when he is sober...
he was just using you for sex
how did we go from having casual sex with this guy to him thinking about whether he could spend the rest of his life with you? i always thought that ';dating'; came into play there somewhere.





anyways, he either told you those things when he was drunk because he has feelings for you, or because he knew it was the best way to get you to continue sleeping with him. either way, it's not panning out into a relationship for you.
Honest answer is because, he was just trying to get some hot action from you that night.
No offense, but it sounds like he just wants you available for sex when he wants it. It's a guy thing. If he can get it without the strings of a relationship, why would he put forth the extra effort?
Seems to me he DOES have feelings for you but when he does not have alcohol induced confidence he is too nervous to tell you.
Why would he tell you those things? Real simple. A hard penis has no conscience. It will say and do what it has to, in order to get what it needs. Unless you are comfortable with casual sex for the sake of the sex itself, you need to abandon this guy and avoid others like him.


Almost all men, and some women, are able to separate sex from relationships. They play for pleasure.


In my experience most women, and some men, see sex as only part of a committed relationship. Anything else fills them with angst and guilt. This could be you. Either way, all the best!
you wouldn't believe some of things I used to do when I got drunk. When guys get super 'gassed' they let their mouth get in the way of their brain and let their inhibitions down. That's what happened to this guy you are with. He was just letting his mouth run that night he was drunk. Now that he's sober he's talking sense. Not that I agree with him but if he is not ready for a permanant relationship you have to accept it. You can either go on like you are or give it up. I can't make that decision for you and neither can anyone else.
Alcohol is a great uninhibitor. It loosens up our mouths so we say things that otherwise we'd hold back from saying when sober. In other words, the truth is more prevalent when you've got a buzz on.





On the other hand, it could be that you were in the right place at the right time and he was just looking for some excitement. Go carefully on this one.
you slut!
Just stop what u r doing becoz it will soon backfire and u will definately be heart broken. Its a mistake to keep on having sex with someone who dont love for so many times. if its a one night stand then there is no problem. becoz as a woman when u have sex with someone for along time and u have multiple orgasm u will definately start to fall in love with that person.





He is using u.
To keep you coming back and it worked. It doesn't matter what he said, if he's doing the opposite. He's done nothing that shows he wants to be with you long term so why would you hang on to what he said while drunk.

ADVICE please men and women!!?

Ive been with my partner for two years, going great (or so i thought).


I have really strong feelings about starting a family, whereas he is a little more hesitant. When we have sex he ejaculates in me near enough everytime, then when i mention a baby, he says we're not actively trying but he would be really happy if we did conceive and he knows im not on the pill. Then the next time we have sex he makes me give him oral so he ejaculates that way. Then everything goes back to how it was and he cums in me. This happens near enough everytime it's like a cycle or something.


So I dont tend to mention having a baby. Now two nights ago were having sex and he makes me give him oral so he ejaculates and i felt the urge to finally confront him on what hes actually thinking. Then i start getting upset like i want to start a family and he says im being silly (he wasnt saying it in a horrible manner or anything).


Was i right to get upset as hes confusing me?


Yesterday i rang him and an 'important' football game was on and he was out with his boys which im fine with, and i said to ring me when hes finished. which he didnt. If hes out with his boys he always rings me when he gets home regardless of whether im going to stay at his or not. He hasnt rang me all day (its nearly 4pm) so i havent really spoken to him for 2 days which is very unusual as we spend near enough everyday together and the last time we were together we left on a very happy terms.


Should i ring him or does he want space? i really dont understand as he says he wants my children? Is he freaked out? All answers appreciated!ADVICE please men and women!!?
seems like a case of ';never mind';, sometimes guys simply don't have a plan, and they're like ';have a baby, ok, not have a baby, ok, whatever's good for you'; it's not that really does or does not want it, he's just never REALLY thought about it so he's ok with either way. as for the oral sex, guys enjoy oral sex, they like to orgasm through oral sex, this choice has nothing to do with avoiding pregnancy. and yes, maybe he freaked out that you're taking the baby matter so seriously, because he isn't.


my advice: don't call. let him breathe, clear his mind and call you. you need to know what he really wants, he can't keep going ';ok, whatever';ADVICE please men and women!!?
Wow. he's being kind of a jerk. You say you want babies and he changes it up so your sex couldn't possibly lead to a baby. Then he doesn't call you. I don't think he wants kids. If you do, maybe you should consider finding someone else who shares your views on having children.
guys like to *** different ways sometimes I *** in my girl sometimes inside her and sometimes she jerks me off and I *** on her body depending on the mood at the moment
give him some space. guys get freaked out about babies a lot of the time!





he'll come around, and if not, he's not the person you should have babies with!
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I would guess he wants some space otherwise he would be calling you. So I would wait it out til he calls you. Besides, if you wait he'll think about you more and wonder why you're not calling and that'll make him want to call to see what it is you've been up to that you haven't called him. That's always a good feeling. I don't know about getting upset about the confusion going on because to me it sounds like he doesn't want to try to have a baby, he just is saying if it happens, it happens %26amp; he'd be happy. A lot of times when people try to have a baby, they don't and then when they stop trying they are more relaxed, less tense and end up conceiving. I would just wait for him to call, and continue doing what you're doing. Besides if you're going to have a baby, you'd probably want to move in together and you guys haven't gotten that far yet. Good luck to you. I hope that helps you some.
I don't think he's really ready to have children. I'm sure he wants children and he may even want them with you. Just maybe not at this moment. However, I do think you have every right to get upset since he hasn't been clear with you about it. The no calls thing could mean he's scared. He's scared you could be pregnant or he's scared you're going to corner him about the subject. I would call him and ask him how he feels and if he needs his space, you should probably give it to him. Good luck!








Thanks for answering my question. =)
Hey,


I would suggest you start looking for another guy who is interested in having a family. And yes, there are a lot of them. It sounds to me like this dude has little respect for your thoughts and feelings and is more about satisfying himself. I think two days of not calling someone is pretty low considering you have been together for 2 years. He's avoiding you because he doesn't want to talk about it that much is certain. If he won't even discuss it with you I think you are wasting your time by staying with him. I wouldn't have sex with him anymore unless he is willing to have an adult conversation about the issue. If he won't, tell him to start wearing a condom because you aren't interested in having a child with someone who can't even talk to his partner. Sounds too immature to be a father frankly.
Ok, here's the deal, I know very few men who actively want children. They're almost hardwired against the idea. It's usually this vague idea in the future that eventually they'll have kids. But I know very few men that would ever say they are ready.





I would give him some space. Maybe send him a text or call him once or twice in the next two days. If he doesn't change his behavior, go find him and sit down and have a grown up, adult talk about what you are perceiving, what you want and how you feel. Then let him do the same. If it turns out that you don't want the same things, you have to make a decision based off that.





The last thing you want to do, is have a baby without his consent. By that, I mean try to get pregnant on purpose without him actively participating because that will only end in heartache.

Any capricorn men with sound advice for me?

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Prepare for the future and always consider optionsAny capricorn men with sound advice for me?
I just got out of a relationship with a leo female. Its a 50/50 chance I think. We were together for about 3 months. Very exciting relationship. I guess my advice would be to not take it personally if he comes off as distant. Me and my leo gf would be talking on the phone and she would bring things up that happened in past, like she got so frustrated with me sometimes b/c I would come off cold, when I honestly didnt notice. Another thing is that you shouldn't rush the ';L'; word to fast. He probably already knows your feeling that way from the way your acting and is wanting to wait to warm up to you before he can trust in relationship enough to ';honestly'; tell you he loves you back and ';mean it';. I knew my gf had feeling after 2 weeks of us talking and she told me about a month after we were talking and I thought it was too fast. She would tell me ';I %26lt;3 you'; instead of ';i love you';, and I felt bad b/c I didnt feel same way yet. Dont rush things too fast. They'll come. You guys should def work out. :-)

Advice both men and women?

Alright, in the conversation with this girl i suddenly asked if she has a bf or not. She then jokes around but gave me an honest answer(she does). Note that i dont know her that well yet, but i asked to make sure where i was standing. So i will make no further approach.





So tell me was it too vocal of me to ask, and because of that i expose myself to her that i like her?





In the end she asked me if i have a phone number so we exchanged each other numbers. Now i dont want to call her because it could be awkward and if i call what would i say?


I am a smooth talker though, but sometimes it is hard when I dont know what i'm dealing with.Advice both men and women?
She wants you to call her. If she didn't, she wouldn't have given you her number. No, it wasn't too vocal. She likes the fact that you were honest and upfront. Swallow your fear and give her a call. Just let it go from there. Say something like ';...I wasn't sure if I should call, but I really wanted to talk to you again. Is this a good time?';Advice both men and women?
It's alright to have her as a friend, but be careful. You may be walking into a dangerous turf, be catious.
dude you came on waaay too strong by asking her if she has a bf...better to ask if she's single.

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Advice from men and married women???

My bfd is 33 and divorced, we live together and have a great relationship, I am 25 and he is the 2nd man in my life. I dont have much experience about sexlife. he thinks of me as a shy not very adventurous woman so I need some advices of crazy, wild things to do with him. I am open to it. I know he likes tghis things but he doesnt try them because he is afraid of scaring me away. I have asked him to try but still he is a little conservative about showing what he really knows. So tell me I want to surprise him, show him how good and wild I can be. I have done all the classic stuff, dancing. sexy lingerie, outdoors, etc. But I want to know if there is something more, something great and extreme that men really like. Please give honest opinion, go wild suggest fantasies, Tell me anything form your deep wild instinct. Women tell me what have you done to your men that they like. Thank you!!!Advice from men and married women???
I bet this is a guy asking thisAdvice from men and married women???
ROFLMAO!
get some porn and watch it together. Tease him the whole time and hold out until the end of the movie. I would say more but...this could be violated.
I got some news for you, ';Married women'; aren't the only women having sex.





And I agree with the first answer, I bet you are really a DUDE.....