Husband's 40th birthday? Need advice from men and women, please!?

Husband will celebrate 40th birthday soon. Has taken a few weeks off to spend at home. Will leave to Las Vegas for 5 days for birthday. Wants me to leave with him and return before the weekend. Can't get childcare for 5 days and kids have activities we need to drive them to. I feel torn leaving kids behind for 2 nights. Kids have practices, homework, and games during the week. Don't like the idea of dumping them on grandparents while I'm off in Las Vegas. Husband really wants me to go. He works VERY hard and deserves this trip. Not sure if I should go. Advice, please. THANKSHusband's 40th birthday? Need advice from men and women, please!?
1 reason men have affairs,wives aren't there for them.You have to keep your guy#1 in the relationship and this trip is like a minnie honeymoon.If the grandparents are willing to do what you say is keeping you behind then let them have them for the 5 days.What a great 40th party the two of you willl have and rekindle your romance that I'm sure has been put on the back burner with the kids . So go, have fun and don't feel guilty and don't worry about the kids they'll be fine.Husband's 40th birthday? Need advice from men and women, please!?
Accept it, go! You have to trust your parents/in-laws. Make a list of your kids activities and explain clearly to them so that they won't miss their lessons. You should feel great %26amp; happy, bcos from here you let me know that you have a great %26amp; loving husband. Don't disappoint him. Hands in hands %26amp; start your journey happily enjoying the few days, exploring another new world outside your family home. (Temporary forget about household chores %26amp; kids - after all its just a few days.) When enjoy, feel free to enjoy! Good luck!
You sound like you need to get away for a couple of days too. Considering it sounds like you run you @ss off every day. It would be good for your children to have a break from their little hectic lives of school, practice, and games. I think it would be good for everyone if you had your ';little'; vacation. Go for it, and have fun!!
Listen.


He is YOUR HUSBAND. You have to stop feeling guilty about devoting some quality time to your marriage. That is just as important as being there for your kids. It's 2 days!!! It will have NO affect on your kids in the long run and will have wonderful impact on your marriage.





It's called investment. He wants you there so you should make every effort to go. Enjoy him!
I would go. If you do not want to DUMP the kids on grandparents Pay them. They will cost you less than a babysitter and you know you can trust them. Anyway you go about it I suggest you go I have a felling you would regret not going later. Go and have fun you kids will be fine.
Go, silly girl!!