Need advice (ladies n men)?

I'm getting married next month i feel like i'm getting cold feet and so is my fiance we've been together 3 years...


i'm 18 he is 21





have you guys experience this type of thing before?








i know i love him because he is my everything we are best friends we are always together to the point where our friends get annoyed lol we've been living together for almost 10 months :)Need advice (ladies n men)?
I am getting married next month as well. I am 21 and he is 24 and we have been together for 5 years and living together for 3. We are best friends as well. I'm not nervous or anything because I know that its still going to be us. Nothing is going to change, its just a piece of paper. People tend to have the mind set that marriage changes everything but I do not think so. Yes I'm sure it has its ups and downs just like every RELATIONSHIP. What is it that scares you about marriage?Need advice (ladies n men)?
My cousin got married at your age. She's 19 now and she has already had her first baby. And let me tell you how much her and her parents regret it. The other day she came in to the lounge, her baby in her arms, vomit over flowing in its mouth and suffocating. She was panicking (didn't know what to do) and my uncle had to quickly grab the baby off her and help it to revive. Don't say that you won't have any kids cause you will be pressured.


Many people who get married so young lose time on getting to know what they want and setting their priorities. You lose your youth and gain sooo much responsibility.


You also run a very high risk of getting depressed and ending up in financial turmoil.





It is not a GAME. Don't be so quick to think you've found the right person. Take your time. You'll know the answer in the future. Go and have fun.





Edit: WoW!! I just ready your profile and Your doing radiology!! Congrats on that! If you want t o keep that going I suggest finishing your degree first and savng up some money!! That would be more wise. Don't be afraid to say no too, it's your life.





Good luck
personally i would leave it until you're a bit older, most young marriages don't last.





i don't think 10 months is long enough to judge what it'll be like to be with him for the rest of your life, but obviously it's your choice.





i hope everything goes well for you :)
if you aint ready yet, dont get married, if its too soon, its too soon. i understand that you 2 been together a long time, but somethings its better to betogether for a long time not married, than te be together a short time alltogether. talk to him about it.
Don't worry about it, maybe there's too many things to think about. I think you are too young to get married, ... but it's your choice. You've been together for 3 years, you must know deep down in your heart that's exactly what you want.
Well if you aren't sure then i don't think you should do it, it will end in tears, sit down and really think about it then make your decision xx
Too short. What's the rush? You are VERY young, and people change a lot at this age. You really don't know what you'll both be like by the time you are 25 or 30. Wait.
the rule of the thumb is if you are not laid by at least 3 guys, you do not marry.
grow up a little go bang some men and then see if you still love him experience life!!! get stoned get drunk hes probably not the one!! but don't listen to me listen to your heart!
If you have doubts now,


then you are probably not ready .
I smell divorce shortly after you have your first child...








Bad idea to get married so young but whatever...
10 months and so young mabye hold on for another 6 months and see how u feel =)
Woah.. that's young!