Why do people, especially women, keep giving bad advice to men looking for love/sex help?

Some men have trouble finding love/sex in their lives, and they are told such stupid things as ';wait for the right person to arrive';, ';the right person will arrive some day';, etc. No, it won't. When it comes to men, they can't ';wait';, they have to LOOK for the right person, because things don't work the same for men as they do for women. Not only that, but I see virgin males on here who want help losing their virginity, and women ATTACK them just for wanting to fulfill a natural human desire. They say things such as ';if all you want is sex, you don't deserve a woman'; and other ridiculous comments, when these very same women probably all lost their virginities at a young age just for being women and having it easy. I'm by no means complaining that women have it easier than men; what I am complaining about is men trying to get help and women attack them like they're evil just for wanting sex, as well as giving them bad ';don't worry, eventually someone will arrive'; advice.Why do people, especially women, keep giving bad advice to men looking for love/sex help?
Many women are delusional and try to rationalize certain situations. They lack a basic understanding of reality. It's easy for a woman, because a woman knows that men are just going to approach her and if she doesn't feel that instant rush, spark, gratifying feeling she might reject, or blow the guy off. They want that instant connection with out putting any work in on creating that connection. Many woman don't understand that if you give someone a chance and get to know that person you might actually find yourself caring deeply for that other person. Women don't understand, or appreciate the effort that guys put in when trying to win someone over. Have you ever heard of a woman complain that if the guy doesn't approach her then he is intimidated and a coward. Many women are hypocrites, because they have no idea what it is actually like to approach and ask someone out. Women are a lot more judgmental then guys are. Woman will jump to conclusions about a guy in the first second of meeting that all he wants is sex, or is a jerk, creep, whatever else when he actually wants to get to know her for her and could possible be the best thing that ever happened to her. Woman tend to stereotype guys. There are a lot of guys that are truly uncaring and cruel and just want sex, but woman tend to lump all guys the same. They fall for the same guy over and over and complain that all guys are the same. The glass ceiling effect is not only in the business world, but also for women in the dating world. I don't want to sound as if I am ranting, because everything I wrote is purely from an observational point on watching people in action. To sum everything up women give bad advice, because they just don't realize, nor know any better.Why do people, especially women, keep giving bad advice to men looking for love/sex help?
good point but my answer to your questions is because they are stupid and honestly dont know but want to share there stupidity with someone who doesnt know any better
Woman can get sex from most guys, if they just asked. They usually won't of course. This is where the ';wait and you'll get them'; approach comes in.





The guy just need to get confidence in himself first, then he looks better to a woman. Woman, by nature IMHO arent as confident in themselves as men, b/c all kinds of stereotypes, and ';that girl';'s turn up.





I found confidence through playing pool, and if I date a woman and take her out, she sees confidence, and that in trigues her to find more... although at the same time she may be replused too.





It;s really a crapshoot since you'll remember the missteps more than the sucesses.
Well certain men are pigs about it. I mean, if a guy wants sex, just for sex, then whatever, that's his choice. I don't think it's wrong, unless he's using a girl that thinks he's in love with her. some guys are just stupid. The women that attack guys for stuff like that are just stuck up, and holding grudges on the people that have hurt them in life. That's why I hate when opinionated people give advice. Someone will ask a question about sex with their gf/bf, and there are always at least 5 answers saying ';don't have sex before marriage!'; Seriously, shut up, and respect peoples choices. If they choose to live their lives a certain way, don't try to change that, especially if they're not asking, and especially if you don;t KNOW them.





As for the ';don't worry it will come with time'; I agree with it. Things like love take time, and patience. At least, true love does. You can't sit back and literally just wait for someone to arrive, you have to put yourself out there and work for it. Women have it just as tough though bud. I mean, sure some women yell at men for being pigs about sex, but then there are those guys who are worshiped for having so much sex. God forbid a girl have sex with a man she's not in love with. No, of course that's not accepted, because you know, then it would be logical. People are just way too judge mental.





Haha wow, sorry for the rant.
Firstly women are NOT logical -- it amazes me how these women pass exams as they say such illogical things as you mentioned.





Secondly women by nature are monogomous(sp?) and men polygmous( nature made us to impregnate as many females as we can ---eg millions of sperms Vs women one egg a month)


So what modern women do is try to enforce their instincts of monogomous on us --- if we even think of girls and sex . women act like we have committed the worst sin in the world.





Unfortunately in Western societies especially in America there is a vicious witch hunt againt men ...( these women want to convert us to some feminine toy)





Oh well you get the message.





You can do two things:


Date foreign women ( from Eastern Europe , south America, Asia etc) where things are more realistic .





And secondly avoid American women ....:)
Well then, what you need to do is get in your car, make sure to have money on you, drive downtown to the nearest dive you can find. It's usually something on a corner with a concave red door or something, and hot pink neon verticle lettering overhead that says ';Spanky's'; or ';Endless Possibilities'; Go inside...sit confidently at the bar until you make eye contact with a willing onlooker. Buy her a few drinks, take her home or to a motel and WaLaaa you've got a piece of a**!





And please, please DO wear a condom.
as true as that is, wheres the question?
Hi. Wanna screw? Just teasin, I swear. Just tryin to keep it light. I'm not sure if you want an answer or just felt like ranting, but I will tell you what I think. I guess us girls keep telling yall that because that's how we feel about it? Women are naturally empathetic (it's the middle part of the brain) and a lot of us have only found what we wanted most when we stopped looking. So I guess maybe we weren't listening close enough and had no idea it was different for you, or you weren't listening close enough, I don't know which. Take care.





*I really was just kidding with the joke, please don't get offended.
That's natural for women! Women are more on the emotional aspect and men are more on the physical aspect.
good point.