I need some advice from women and men. (Love advice) Please answer.. Im going crazy!!?

About a year ago I cheated on my then boyfriend (of a year) with the person I am with now. I am unclear about why I did it, I was young and dumb. (I am still very young 19)... I have been living with my boyfriend pretty much since we got together. I am looking for a way out. It overwhelmes me because I really love his family and care about them all. I think I still love my ex, he was my first love. I think about him everyday. Everytime I hear a country song my mind suddenly goes to my ex. I miss him so much. I think I have just been waiting for this relationship with my boyfriend to get better, but obviously its not. I don't know what to do or how to do it. I need to end this relationship with my current.. Any advice? Also, does the feelings for your first love ever go away or will I have these forever? I just wish I could go back to the way things use to be with my ex...I need some advice from women and men. (Love advice) Please answer.. Im going crazy!!?
You shouldn't be with someone if you aren't in love with him. You're only 19, so you shouldn't waste your years being w/someone that you don' t truly love. You have a full life ahead of you, so try to enjoy it.I need some advice from women and men. (Love advice) Please answer.. Im going crazy!!?
You may still be ';in love'; with him, but I doubt that. If you truly loved him you wouldn't have cheated on him, you probably hurt him pretty bad when you did that. You may just have this thing called obsession, yes it's a real thing..not just a term. If you are actually obsessed you need to move on, get over it, it will take over your life and you're never going to be happy.
But u cant ...


To me it looks like u '; rolled '; from 1 relation into another without really ending the first and that will confuse u


Do u even know if ur first bf wants u back too ?


U will never forget ur first true love but it will become a sweet memory at 1 point
i got over my first love pretty quick when he dumped me for someone else, it is a very real possibility your first love is over you too. This also happened just over a year ago.. However mine wants to leave his girlfriend because he doesn't want to commit, but there is no way i am taking him back. This is almost my exact situation, because he and i were 19 at the time as well, but he would be in your shoes. Age has nothing to do with the fact that you cheated on him, and can't be blamed for your mistakes.





If you are looking to end things with your current guy, the best advice i can give is to just do it, but remember to jump in with both feet. No ';maybe we will be together again someday'; or ';i want to take a break';. You just gotta do it. Feelings for your first love dissipate once you find someone you are happy to be with, the attention will then be on them.