Advice from older men?

I really have a thing for older guys. What are some tips to get the attention of older men. My cousin has a gorgeous 35 year old single neighbour, how can I get with him or know if an older guy is interested?Advice from older men?
Well you dont mention your age so if you are over 18 then it shouldnt be a problem, Most ANY older guy would be flatered and LOVE the attention an affections of a younger female,, I know I wouldnt mind it at all either, I would say just be straight up front and ask him if hes into young ladies your age, Usually when guys are having to roll their tongues back into their mouth they would enjoy your company,Advice from older men?
Well if your hot this will help of course. A man at his age will recognize that he can go to jail and you could get pregnant which will restrain him, so you have to lay subtle clues that you can keep your mouth shut about that and you are on birth control. Then you just have to tease the hell out of him. The closest I ever got to a girl a lot younger than me was when I was 23 and she was 16 and I was paranoid as hell about it so I didn't. Although I wish I had.
im me for advice i cant say here


but wear less


skimpy cloths


find out his interests and try to bump into him


comment on his car, yard, house cloths





lots of good ideas i cant say lol


good luck
flirt wit him and just act normal around him

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I need advice Urgently Please help me out!!!!!!! Is it bad if a married man?

, that works as an undercover security at my job always smiles at me and goes up to me and talks. I like it. He only talks to me. But does it look bad????


the thing is that when he sees other employees around us he leaves or he stops talking to me. We always talk. I really like him alot. everyone at work tells me that he isn't happy with his wife. Because instead of spending time with his family on his days off, he works. he used to wear his wedding ring, but he has almost a year that he doesn't wear it anymore. I have tried to forget him, but everytime i ignore him, he comes up to me and i melt when i see him.I need advice Urgently Please help me out!!!!!!! Is it bad if a married man?
Married is married. Not separated or divorced. Could you ever really trust a guy that cheated? Even if you were the other offending party?


I wouldn't do anything with this guy until he's free and clear. As in done with divorce court.

Need some advice from guys between 20-25, about an Older Woman Younger Man situation..??

I have been dating a younger man for about a year now, and things have been going great with us, we are actually in love with one another, we spent every moment together....but


he had never met my teenage children, because they were out of town... but here's the problem,


my kids have been back for 3 weeks now and he has not come over to meet them, he hasn't come over period !! he still calls me everyday and he told me that he was really nervous about meeting my kids, because their ages are really close to his...


but I'm wondering if he ever plans to come over, or would he actually throw away the whole relationship due to being scared ?Need some advice from guys between 20-25, about an Older Woman Younger Man situation..??
To be honest with you it is weird coming over and introducing yourself to them and they realize that their mother is basicaly dating someone there age it is weird so i think he is skeptical about the age more than anything and yeah i think he might call the relationship off..Need some advice from guys between 20-25, about an Older Woman Younger Man situation..??
I was going out with 40 year old women and I'm 16 don't worry she had kids younger than me. I'm not going out with her anymore the relatationship was a mistake thou and if I was in your guys shoes like I was then yes I would be nervers about meeting your teenage kids but I would just continue to meet up with the guy without your kids and then it will be ok just ease him into it.
Don't push him..Let him come around when he is ready..Yes older younger can work. It takes patience and understanding on both sides. You really have to consider your teens. That is more sticky..If you and he are really in love than time is on your side. If he does throw it away it is his choice and in the long run you would not want someone that is that scared..Relax, let it play out...
I am older than my husband and we have married for many years he did cheat once [but even she was older than him],


I had 3 young teens also but he got along fine with them and together we had a child. Just tell him don't be nervous they'll think you're cool. I think he feels inadequate?
Fistly you must speek with your children about your boy frined.





here is my story.





I am involved with a woman who is 32 years older than I am. I am 23 and she is 55. She is divorced. She has 3 grown up chindren %26amp; grand children.





When she was admitted for a treatment in a hospital, I stayed with her for her support after her come back to home. She couldn't move to toilet or what ever for the three month period, I help to her to move toilet and bed and support her always.





After i married her and living with her %26amp; her one





This kind of relationship now changed to a good relationship. Now We are love each other. She is thinking about me as a big support in her life.





After I married her and living with same home. Now Her children are very support to our marriage.





Her childen are very friendly with me.

Age Gap Love Advice older man/younger woman?

Hi I am 28 dating someone who is 19 yrs older than me. He is 47 (doesn't look like it though) . I am completly in love with this person. He says he loves me too. Although it seems to me that he has a problem with the age difference. We have been hiding the relationship because he is afraid of other's reactions. I tell him there is nothing wrong and it is our decision to be together. I am just trying to get some advice or story's from others in same situation to show him that it okay.I know there are others in relationships with age differences even greater than ours. Also we have been together a year and he is not rich so that is not why I am with him so I can't be called a gold-digger like some articles suggest. Sometime I think he just uses it as an excuse not to be in a committed relationship.He is very sweet and we get along very well. Any advice or info would be great. .Age Gap Love Advice older man/younger woman?
disgusting..


i think all he wants is sex

I cheated on my Fiance with a married man, advice please?

I cheated on my Fiance (bf) of 5 years with a married man. It started innocently and we were friends. Over time I thought this guy was amazing. I knew he was married and what I was feeling was wrong. Me and my bf had some minor issues and for some reason i was being side tracked by this other guy.





Anyway, one thing led to another and we have been having an affair. Iv left my bf now, and continued it with this married man. He hasnt left his wife and its a few months in. He says he does not love her. I am chasing him but seem to be getting knowhere.





On the otherhand I have my ex bf chasing me to get back with me and I dont know what to do. I am risking everything for this married man and i cant help it even though i know its wrong. My ex bf is a good guy and wasnt treating me badly, even though he did have his faults like everyone else.





What do I do here? Pursue this man or try and go back to my boyfriend and make it work. My head is torn between 2 people and I cant think straight. I am a complete idiot for getting myself into this and hope nobody go down the same route as me.





If this guy leaves his wife, will it work? Am I best trying to patch things up with my ex bf who I have betrayed so much. If im being honest, i have not wanted to go back home, even though he was once the love of my life and i dont know if its because this other man is in the pictureI cheated on my Fiance with a married man, advice please?
When you have grown up out your infatuation you will realise how silly you are.I cheated on my Fiance with a married man, advice please?
well i think your better off with your ex, but that's after you let him know what's been going on and then let him decide whether your worth the keeping or not. and even if this married man leaves his wife, whats not to say that when he marries you and gets bored of you that he won't leave you for another younger woman? how do you know you are the first woman he cheats on his WIFE with? once a cheater always a cheater... think about that one.
If you could cheat on your ex you didn't love him to start with so I wouldn't do that. Too, most married men do not leave their wives for the ';other'; woman unless they get caught and the wife kicks them out. Even that doesn't mean he'll STAY with the other woman. I'd leave both of those situations alone if it were me.
I agree with you, you are a complete idiot. Worse still, there's probably worse to come in your relationships. Heard of the phrase ';Once a Cheater...';





I do wish you the best of luck to prove the old saying wrong. It's going to take great strength.
go back to your boyfriend and never cheat on him again





married men never leave their wives (if they do, not a good marriage)





married man doesn't love you, he is in love with his wife, or neither of you and enjoys the comfort of marriage





only a fling to the married man
Being honest chick - you need to 4get the both of em! if you were willing to cheat on your ex hes not the one and if your current ';married'; fella aint gunna leave his missus (and thats the truth if you admit it!!) then he certainly isnt the one.!
tell your b/f about you and the married man. if he still forgives you and is cool, then be with your b/f. otherwise, the married man will never leave his wife and family for you. you're only ruining somebody else's happiness
I can't believe your ex will take you back. If you cheated on him, you obviously don't love him or respect him. You need to move on from both of them. Get counseling and figure out why you cheated so you won't do it again.
Forget the married man. He would not ever leave his wife.





If you think you can have a good life with your
It is unlikely this man will leave his family for you. That's reality. You should consider yourself lucky that your ex-fiance still wants anything to do with you at all.
your in this situation because you cheated





honesty is the best policy, wheather you get what you want or not.
You are a cheater what kind of advise r u looking for once a cheater always a cheater u did the wrong now pay for it have u ever thought about his wife feelings !!! sure not tard
Go back in time and don't cheat on him.
Trust me when I tell you that this married man will never leave his wife and family for you. He's had his fun with you and now he's good. He got what he wanted and you let him have it.





Honestly, your ex is a good man if he still wants you after what you've done. You were with him for five years! That's a lot of time for you to just throw away for a sad excuse of a man who would cheat on his wife for you. You had a man of value and morals, stick with that (even though, in my opinion, you don't quite deserve him just yet). Go back to your ex and learn to be good to him in every way. Provide for him emotionally for a long while before you think about being with him physically. That's what he wants to feel and that's what he needs at the moment.





Thank your lucky stars and then beg God for forgiveness then never in your life cheat again for as long as you live. Be good to that man because he obviously loves you to death.
Your ex-boyfriend deserves so much better than you. So you're better off to keep chasing after your married cheater. Not that he'll ever leave his wife and family for his toilet (that's you, dear) but if you waste your time spreading them for him you're at least off the streets and not likely to wreck anyone else's home life.
You have betrayed every meaning for a faithful relationship and i seriously don't know why your fiance'e hurling after you to get you back after all the gurt and pain you caused him, one thing you have to know what you are doing now with this wife will happen to you as well after you two get married, because nothing will go unpunished for both of you and who learned to cheat once will do it again and again and again.





You caused pain and suffering to your finacee and this man's wife and that what shall happen to you so you would taste from your own medicine and sorry to say but yeah you are complete idiot and hopefully people will learn from your mistake.
Don't even think about that a married person can leave everything easily for you and if he can then he can do it again.


Like you are cheating on your bf and regret but Other man is also cheating his wife and no regret ( Just saying He don't love her ). Did you ever asked him why he didn't love her but get married to her??





If you are a real honest person and regret for what you did then tell your bf all the truth, If he can forgive you then you 2 can have a good relation for rest of your life. If he can not forgive you then forget that you can get his love again.





Suggestion: Try get back to your bf if he can forgive you. Otherwise move on and try not to cheat others. Its making HELL of many peoples life including yours own.
he ain't leavin' his wife sweetie!!! my ex had many girlfriends and his favorite story was what a b**ch his wife (me) was and how he was gonna leave me for them. you know who did the leaving? ME! after 22 years! well, actually i booted him out but it was me that took action. he's getting his cake and he's eating it too, thanks to YOU. get away from both of these guys and get your head on straight. and from now on, married men are OFF LIMITS!
this guy is never going to leave his wife for you. ever. the sooner you realize that, the better off you will be.





if you still love your boyfriend, i would suggest getting back together with him and treating him right this time. any guy that would want you back after what you did to him must really really love you. you are lucky,





but whatever you do, drop this married guy. its never gonna happen.
I think that I am hearing that neither man is the right one for you. You went with a married man because of problems with b/f, that says he isn't right for you. You are chasing a married man who may just be using you for sex, that isn't good for you. You have to pull away from both of them and look at what is going to be good for you. If you took a break of about two months just for yourself, you could clear your head and you would know and feel what is right for you. When you are jumping from one relationship to another it gets your head spinning and it makes you do all kinds of things that can be wrong for you. So clear your head and things will be much better.
Sounds like you need to scrap everything. You cant go back to your BF unless he's a little B. He'll end up mad at you and never trusting you or you'll feel like you settled. This married guy will end up staying with his wife, he probably says he doesn't love her so you don't feel bad when he's ramming you. I get the feeling he has kids too. I would also suggest not being a ho.
If you don't want to go back to your ex don't go back. However, the man is married and he tells you he doesn't love his wife. Do you think he responds when she says I love you to him? It's just little questions like that you need to think about. He is cheating on his wife. I feel that if he's cheating on her now who is to say he won't do the same to you if you should eventually get with him? If you're getting no where he probably never meant for you to get this attached to him. I mean he probably never intended to leave his wife but I'm sure he didn't expect you to leave your boyfriend either. He probably thought it was a fling. That doesn't mean I'm right...but more often than not that is how it goes. Your boyfriend if you do go back is probably going to have some trust issues with you now which...may or may not get worked through and this other guy if he does leave his wife will probably have trust issues as well and when he knows a girl who is just a friend will you think of how that's how you and him started and question him for it? Can you truly trust him? Just think of things like this.
Well of course he won't leave his wife and family for you. Did you really expect that then. You're just his bit on the side. The world is FULL of married men who 'don't love their wives' or have wives that 'don't understand them'. There is nothing wrong with seeing a married man so long as you have already decided that you wish to remain single and you are happy to be a mistress! I am! And i make sure that married men understand that they better NOT get caught or leave their missus! I don't want them! I just want what they give me that they don't give their wives. Simple. As for all the married people out there who will lean on the thumbs down button. Most of we women who have made this decision are happy with it and don't care a hoot. Mainly because we are STILL having more fun with your husbands than you are. My advice would be get back with the boyfriend, keep on seeing the married lover. Just don't get caught.
look babe,


Harsh reality has to be met here...


why would he buy the Cow when he gets his milk for free?


You cheated on your ex, so hes not the one for you.


and Mr. Married IS NEVER EVER EVER going to leave his wifey.


even if by some random act of God he does leave her...he would do to you like he is doing to her.


cliche but True once a cheat always a cheat, unless there are serious events like drug abuse or something like that... which happens with wives cheating on their hubby's but not so much with hubby's cheating on their wives.


get a grip get over it and move on.


lesson learned.

I need some advice from men that have possibly felt this way or done this, and women can help too!?

I told my husband i wanted a divorce, but we've been together 8 years and 1 year married, things were just going wrong, well after i told him i wanted a divorce i realized i made a mistake and i wanted my husband back b/c i wanted to work on things, we have a 3 year old daughter and we've been together for a while like i said, well after i told him i wanted a divorce and he ended up contacting me after 3 weeks, and we got back together, i found out that for the 3 weeks he had slept with someone else not once but 3 times, and all kinds of other stuff, i need to know why a man would do this?? is it b/c he doesn't love you, is it a rebound relationship?? He tells me he made a mistake and that im his world, and he is truly sorry he wishes he could take it back, but im just curious to why a man would do it?? and to women if you have ever been in a situation like this, tell me how to deal with it, I mean i told him i wanted a divorce, but why would he do this??? please help!!!I need some advice from men that have possibly felt this way or done this, and women can help too!?
Men rebound because they just dont share the emotions like we do. I'l bet it ';meant nothing'; for him to have sex with that someone. I would be hurt, as you seem to be, but if you truly love him and think he is sincere, maybe you can work things out. i would be a little concerned that he could erase his feelings so easily.I need some advice from men that have possibly felt this way or done this, and women can help too!?
What is it Bill Clinton said --- ';because I could';





Don't play games if you aren't ready for the consequences....tell a man to get lost and be prepared for the fact that he may take you literally.





I had a gf that moved out after several years, told me she wasted her life with me, posted on-line dating profiles before her stuff was out of the house and then got upset cause a month after she left I was with someone else --- ';you lose thanks for playing.';
What a rat! he should of at least waited until the divorce was final. Mabe he is not in love anymore or could have been seeing someone else along the way. He must not be a great husband to begin with if you wanted a divorce. You will never be able to trust him now, can you live like this forever?
You didn't want him anymore so he thought. Now you decided that you do he was probably confused, but you guys were still married so it didn't give him a right to cheat. But can you really be mad at him you were just as confused as he was. It will work out. Good Luck!
Rejection of a loved one is emotional. You threw him out because you wanted a divorce. What he did during the time you were both separated is his business and not yours since he did'nt contemplate a reunion. You only have yourself to blame.
i don't know - maybe he did it because you said that you wanted a divorce. If I thought I was going to getting a divorce, I might date some other women.
8 year relationship and he starts new in 3 weeks? ah, yeah, this is a joke relationship to him.
YOU WOMAN ARE NEVER HAPPY YOU END UP SCREWING YOURSELF . YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT U GOT TILL ITS GONE ASK MY EX..........AINT NO SUNSHINE WHEN IM GONE.
Maybe he felt kicked to the curb and it didn't matter what he did at that point. It wasn't about you, it was about him. Maybe he was sad and lonely. He called you and you got back together. Forget it and move on. It's a bump in the road, a big bump. Either way, is it more important to dwell on that or to make your marraige work? Not trying to sound unsympathetic, but in my world I would just have to remind myself that we were not together, that there was an impending divorce, and remond myself why I wanted to work on my marraige, why I wanted to save it in the first place and make that my goal.
he would not have slept with anyone if you didnt ask for a divorce. its action causing reaction. I'm sure he was hurt and when people are hurting jsut like when we are mad we do stupid things. I believe he is sorry. You gave him a void and he needed something in its place. you were not there anymore and asked for a divorce. so he slept with someone else. I would forgive him and work on the marriage. He was just hurting because he loves you. men act differently some men may have waited years hoping you would come back to them and never dated an kept on the wedding ring for years...(women usually do this) but your husband did something he thought would take away some of the hurt..he slept with someone else...remember this would NOT have happened had you not asked fo r a divorce. Not that this is your fault by all means...but he just made a stupid mistake. 8 years would be hard to throw away for this....good luck
You rejected him he found someone who did not apparently he believed you when you said you wanted a divorce. Women have sex when they feel loved men feel loved when they have sex we are wired opposite that鈥檚 a simple as it gets. The next step is the hard part the relationship which looks like it needs more work then it did before you two broke up for three weeks. Now you can add guilt and trust to the list of whatever else was wrong probably communication. Good luck it always takes two.
You told him you didn't want to be with him anymore. He was hurting and confused and scared. He was looking for comfort and one way for him to get it was through sex. Also since you told him you wanted a divorce he thought he was in the free and clear. He wanted to stop feeling hurt. The sex gave him a break from his pain and anguish.





I know you already know this but for others who read this Divorce is a big nasty word that unless you really want one you never want to use.





You are both going to have a lot to work on in building back up trust both ways. I would suggest marriage counseling.
You told him you wanted a divorce. Did you expect him to not believe you? Did you expect him to become a monk? He didn't really make a mistake, he was separated and getting on with his life.


You need to have many long talks about what you both expect for your marriage to be mutually fulfilling. What's past is past, you can't take back your words and he can't take back his actions. You both will never forget this blip in your lives but it just might turn out to be the turning point for having a marriage others might envy.
its because a man can find someone faster than us. it does not mean that he don't love you. but you all were not together and it was you who said you wanted a divorce. so if you want to stay with him then you need to not bring up what happened when you were apart. it happened its over. just pick up things again especially if he says he is sorry. give your family a chance and next time don't use that word so freely...there are always consequences.
Sounds to me like he was aware of the relationship breaking down and this person he slept with was possibly someone he was talking to and confiding in and had built up some kind of relationship with ... once you'd asked for a divorce that sort of opened the door for him to take this a step further (which he obviously did) ... it may have just been a rebound thing ... but if he really loved you he'd have been hurt and lost and would have fely sooo guilty about sleeping with someone else ... but to do it 3 times over a 3 week period???.... but love is a strange thing ... it may have been what you both needed to realise that you do indeed love each other and want to be together .... no-one can make this decision for you ...it's how you guys feel about each other and about what happened that counts
he probably wasnt trying to hurt you he was probably just trying to get some kind of intimacy to make up for not having you around anymore try not to take it personaly. Ive been in a similar situation as you but with the roles reversed, and i wasnt married. i broke up with my boyfriend then slept with someone else and got back together with him about a week later, it wasnt because i didnt love him or respect him, it was because i needed affection and intimacy because i thought that i was going to be without him forever and i was sort of ';filling the void'; if that makes any sense.





But this is a conversation you should probably be having with your husband if you want the right answer to your question.





Good luck.

Not so good at the whole dating scene.... Need some advice from men and women. Thanks :)?

I waitress at a bar and one of our bartenders works a second job at another bar about 20 minutes away. So last night a few friends, co-workers and I went out there. This guy (the bartender) is so hot! I mean god like, it is rediculious, he is a really awesomely nice guy too. So anyway I was standing there talking to him, I had been thinking about asking him out for coffee or something sometime but wasn't going to do it for another couple of weeks or so.





As I was talking to him one of my friends walks up and says... ';She thinks you are hot, you probably think she is hot, why don't you two just get it over with, exchange numbers and go out.'; OMG! Deer in the headlights. We exchanged numbers and have loose plans to ';get together'; on sunday.





If we do would it be a pity date?





How do I act when I see him at work tomorrow?





Should I mention it? Or let him?





I am so bad at this whole dating thing and he makes me all nervous cuz I feel like he is out of my league (just a little)Not so good at the whole dating scene.... Need some advice from men and women. Thanks :)?
Just let him know you're totally cool with just getting to know each other. You can let him know you thought it was funny the way your friend pushed you together.





If he mentions it, laugh, and wink flirtatously.

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